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Nov 01, 2009 7:05 PM GMT
 The picture is that of a 21-week-old unborn baby named Samuel Alexander Armas, who is being operated on by surgeon named Joseph Bruner. The baby was diagnosed with spina bifida and would not survive if removed from his mother's womb. Little Samuel's mother, Julie Armas, is an obstetrics nurse in Atlanta . She knew of Dr Bruner's remarkable Surgical procedure. Practicing at Vanderbilt Univ Med Ctr in Nashville , he performs these special operations while the baby is still in the womb. During the procedure, the doctor removes the uterus via C-section and makes a small incision to operate on the baby. As Dr Bruner completed the surgery on Samuel, the little guy reached his tiny, but fully developed Hand through the incision and firmly grasped the surgeon's finger. Dr Bruner was reported as saying that when his finger was grasped, it was the most emotional moment of his life, and that for an instant during the procedure he was just frozen, totally immobile. The photograph captures this amazing event with perfect clarity The editors titled the picture, 'Hand of Hope.' The text explaining the picture begins, 'The tiny hand of 21-week-old fetus Samuel Alexander Armas emerges from the mother's uterus to grasp the finger of Dr Joseph Bruner as if thanking the doctor for the gift of life.' Little Samuel's mother said they 'wept for days' when they saw the picture. She said, 'The photo reminds us pregnancy isn't about disability or an illness, it's about a little person.'Samuel was born in perfect health, the operation 100 percent successful.
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Nov 01, 2009 7:48 PM GMT
http://www.truthorfiction.com/rumors/b/babysamuel.htmThe Truth: The surgery cited in this story did take place, but the accounts of what actually happened are hotly disputed. Dr. Joseph Bruner at Vanderbilt is known for his work in fetal surgery, especially on babies with spina bifida, a condition in which the spine does not close properly during development. Vanderbilt confirms that little Samuel Armus was 21 weeks-old in the womb when this surgery took place in 1999, which made the surgery very risky because if anything went wrong, the baby could survive on its own. Dr. Bruner and his colleagues, however, had done numerous successful spina bifida surgeries on fetuses that are not yet viable. In this particular surgery, photographer Michael Clancy was in the operating room to document surgery on such a young fetus. Clancy said that "out of the corner of my eye I saw the uterus shake, but no one's hands were near it. It was shaking from within. Suddenly, an entire arm thrust out of the opening, then pulled back until just a little hand was showing. The doctor reached over and lifted the hand, which reacted and squeezed the doctor's finger. As if testing for strength, the doctor shook the tiny fist." The picture became a sensation as a forwarded email especially among opponents of abortion. The surgeon, Dr. Bruner, told USA Today in 2000 that the picture was being treated like an urban legend and that he'd even received a report that a team of medical experts had called it a hoax. Bruner confirmed that the surgery and the photo were real but said that it was "not true" that the baby reached out of the womb and grabbed his hand, as some of the forwarded emails alleged. "Samuel and his mother, Julie, were under anesthesia and could not move," he said. "The baby did not reach out. The baby was anesthetized. The baby was not aware of what was going on." Michael Clancy, who owns the copyright to the photo, was stunned by Bruner's comments and maintains that they do not fit what he saw happen during the surgery and when he took his pictures. On his website at www.michaelclancy.com, Clancy said he knows what he saw and also quoted a nurse at Vanderbilt who told him that she'd seen babies do that "all the time." The surgery was successful and little Samuel Armas was born on December 2, 1999. THE MORAL OF THE STORY: When you have to fabricate the facts, or pass on a fabrication of facts in order to persuade a point of view, then the point of view is weak to begin with.
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Nov 01, 2009 7:50 PM GMT
Anyone else thinking "alien"?
Jus sayin
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Nov 01, 2009 7:51 PM GMT
I totally did!
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Nov 01, 2009 8:30 PM GMT
The sheer insanity of the anti-abortion crowd could not be more manifest.
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Nov 01, 2009 9:41 PM GMT
The picture's gross kinda but it's heart-warming for something like that to happen.
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Nov 01, 2009 9:54 PM GMT
i wasnt thinking alien, but rather It's Alive!
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Nov 01, 2009 10:16 PM GMT
people r gross dude. imagine if we figured out how to keep babies alive when they have gills and we throw em into the ocean and create our own MERPEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!! holy shit dude! i swear its not just because im high.. awesome! .
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Nov 01, 2009 10:25 PM GMT
I can't help thinking of the Biblical story of baby Jacob grasping the heel of his brother Esau as their mother Rebekah, the wife of Isaac, was giving birth.
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Nov 01, 2009 10:26 PM GMT
Looks like G_force is trying to promote his aint-abortion agenda. You'd think after 10 years they might have better evidence. Thanks Armydude, nice moral. Free choice to all. My Plan "C"
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Nov 01, 2009 10:42 PM GMT
NotThatOld saidI can't help thinking of the Biblical story of baby Jacob grasping the heel of his brother Esau as their mother Rebekah, the wife of Isaac, was giving birth. Oh please keep that nonsense to the "spirituality" forum where it belongs!  Where we heathens dare not pass!  -Keith 
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Nov 01, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
I was just awed by this and the amazing development of life in the womb. I do have ultrasound photos of my own child at only 12 weeks, and the pictures clearly show a very human form. She's 18 now. I have to admit the most awesome experience in my life was to witness with my own eyes her birth. I have not experienced nothing more astounding than this. Medical technology is rapidly advancing more than we can possibly comprehend. It definitely is changing the way we view human life.
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Nov 01, 2009 11:45 PM GMT
Ummmm ..... In case you didn't know babies are born with a clutch reflex 
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Nov 01, 2009 11:55 PM GMT
Interesting article... definitely a little sugar coated for the anti-abortionists, but I think that clear to both sides.
What I am wondering now, how do they determine when its a living person worth saving, rather than just a fetus? At how many weeks is abortion no longer aloud? At how many weeks is it considered to be a life worth having surgery?
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Nov 02, 2009 12:34 AM GMT
I can't help put think of the harry potter story where Dumbledore made the candles float in the cafeterium and pumpkin juice appeared from thin air 
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Nov 02, 2009 12:46 AM GMT
False belief systems and their followers, have long used questionable propaganda as a tool to manipulate other weak minded folks.
Many organisms (including plants) have reflex responses. So?
I'm not sure I'd file this under "Gay News and Events." A more suitable topic header might be "More Voodoo From The Religious Right."
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Nov 02, 2009 1:12 AM GMT
GQjock saidUmmmm .....
In case you didn't know babies are born with a clutch reflex  
i was..
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Nov 02, 2009 1:48 AM GMT
Oh my gosh it's like in the movie "Alien". This this really happened?
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Nov 02, 2009 1:57 AM GMT
I know the OP has a penchant for posting pics of younger men, er, boys, but this is ridiculous.
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Nov 02, 2009 2:11 AM GMT
GQjock saidUmmmm .....
In case you didn't know babies are born with a clutch reflex  and a gag reflex
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Nov 02, 2009 2:14 AM GMT
chuckystud saidFalse belief systems and their followers, have long used questionable propaganda as a tool to manipulate other weak minded folks.
Many organisms (including plants) have reflex responses. So?
I'm not sure I'd file this under "Gay News and Events." A more suitable topic header might be "More Voodoo From The Religious Right." Where do you see any religion in this surgical procedure performed on this fetus? This is about the advancement of medical technology, which has allowed us to perform surgery on the unborn. No religion is even mentioned here.
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Nov 02, 2009 2:18 AM GMT
MunchingZombie saidGQjock saidUmmmm .....
In case you didn't know babies are born with a clutch reflex 
and a gag reflex And air peeing!
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Nov 02, 2009 2:44 AM GMT
TigerTim saidThe sheer insanity of the anti-abortion crowd could not be more manifest. I find it more insane that a civilized society would suck that little guy out of his Mom with a vacuum. Are you shocked to see there is an actual human inside the belly? Better keep this pic under wraps so we can continue to marginalize the "fetus" as something non-human.
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Nov 02, 2009 2:50 AM GMT
USMmmm saidTigerTim saidThe sheer insanity of the anti-abortion crowd could not be more manifest.
I find it more insane that a civilized society would suck that little guy out of his Mom with a vacuum. Are you shocked to see there is an actual human inside the belly? Better keep this pic under wraps so we can continue to marginalize the "fetus" as something non-human. I agree. We've legalized murder on the unborn and that is insanity.
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Nov 02, 2009 3:56 AM GMT
G_Force saidchuckystud saidWhere do you see any religion in this surgical procedure performed on this fetus? This is about the advancement of medical technology, which has allowed us to perform surgery on the unborn. No religion is even mentioned here.
Well they gotta blame someone for being anti-abortion... so it has to be religious nuts, right? Because of course, everyone who is anti-abortion must be a religious nut. Although... most religious nuts are usually anti-gay too... right? Uh-oh, so realjock.com, a site for gay fitness MUST have been invaded by straight religious nuts!
Ok... so a little sarcasm to say, he posted this having nothing to do with religion. Its a matter of opinions based on facts when people feel the "fetus" is a living person.
But I've had the whole abortion debate on this site, and other places... and I think I'm just reminded here that people are not gonna change their opinions on this one too easily. You'll get different people in office for and against it that will take one side to the lead, then someone else will take over and move the opposing team forward.
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Nov 02, 2009 4:05 AM GMT
coolarmydude saidhttp://www.truthorfiction.com/rumors/b/babysamuel.htm
The Truth: The surgery cited in this story did take place, but the accounts of what actually happened are hotly disputed.
Dr. Joseph Bruner at Vanderbilt is known for his work in fetal surgery, especially on babies with spina bifida, a condition in which the spine does not close properly during development.
Vanderbilt confirms that little Samuel Armus was 21 weeks-old in the womb when this surgery took place in 1999, which made the surgery very risky because if anything went wrong, the baby could survive on its own. Dr. Bruner and his colleagues, however, had done numerous successful spina bifida surgeries on fetuses that are not yet viable.
In this particular surgery, photographer Michael Clancy was in the operating room to document surgery on such a young fetus.
Clancy said that "out of the corner of my eye I saw the uterus shake, but no one's hands were near it. It was shaking from within. Suddenly, an entire arm thrust out of the opening, then pulled back until just a little hand was showing. The doctor reached over and lifted the hand, which reacted and squeezed the doctor's finger. As if testing for strength, the doctor shook the tiny fist."
The picture became a sensation as a forwarded email especially among opponents of abortion. The surgeon, Dr. Bruner, told USA Today in 2000 that the picture was being treated like an urban legend and that he'd even received a report that a team of medical experts had called it a hoax. Bruner confirmed that the surgery and the photo were real but said that it was "not true" that the baby reached out of the womb and grabbed his hand, as some of the forwarded emails alleged. "Samuel and his mother, Julie, were under anesthesia and could not move," he said. "The baby did not reach out. The baby was anesthetized. The baby was not aware of what was going on."
Michael Clancy, who owns the copyright to the photo, was stunned by Bruner's comments and maintains that they do not fit what he saw happen during the surgery and when he took his pictures. On his website at www.michaelclancy.com, Clancy said he knows what he saw and also quoted a nurse at Vanderbilt who told him that she'd seen babies do that "all the time."
The surgery was successful and little Samuel Armas was born on December 2, 1999.
THE MORAL OF THE STORY: When you have to fabricate the facts, or pass on a fabrication of facts in order to persuade a point of view, then the point of view is weak to begin with. There are no substantial differences between your account and the OP's. The baby did grab the doctor's hand
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Nov 02, 2009 4:10 AM GMT
what i've always found interesting is that when the baby is not wanted it is referred to as a fetus.
but when it is wanted, it is referred to as a baby or child.
interesting semantics
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Nov 02, 2009 4:28 AM GMT
G_Force said
REDRUM! REDRUM!
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Nov 02, 2009 4:49 AM GMT
Blackguy4you saidwhat i've always found interesting is that when the baby is not wanted it is referred to as a fetus.
but when it is not wanted, it is referred to as a fetus Actually it's a medical term referring to a developing human from approximately 11 weeks into gestation up to the point of birth. People like to call the fetus a "baby" because it "humanizes" it--more or less another marketing gimmick along the lines of "family-owned" or "vitamin-enriched". It's human either way, but I still think it's funny how people like to change words as if it changes what they're referring to.
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Nov 02, 2009 5:01 AM GMT
USMmmm saidTigerTim saidThe sheer insanity of the anti-abortion crowd could not be more manifest.
I find it more insane that a civilized society would suck that little guy out of his Mom with a vacuum. Are you shocked to see there is an actual human inside the belly? Better keep this pic under wraps so we can continue to marginalize the "fetus" as something non-human. Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
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Nov 02, 2009 5:17 AM GMT
HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow pagans who believe all life is sacred. HI! I am the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Jains who believe all life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Hindus who believe all life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Christians who believe all Human life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Muslims who believe all Human life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Buddhists who believe all life is sacred. We may be many (73.5% of the global population) and crazy, but at least we have the majority!
Mostly, though, I am here to stand up for those of us who feel that Human life at any stage should be acknowledged as precious- regardless of your religion or whether you have the sense to not wear brown shoes with a black belt. If I can use my iphone to order plane tickets while riding the subway then surely we can come up with a better solution than abortion. I hope.
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Nov 02, 2009 5:19 AM GMT
Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
Do you marginalize everyone else under the age of 18 then? Really?
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Nov 02, 2009 5:33 AM GMT
Devon_Fury said Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
Do you marginalize everyone else under the age of 18 then? Really? Not nearly the same. A child, even a baby several weeks old is not BIOLOGICALLY dependent on a single provider for survival. The fetus has a nearly parasitic relationship with the mother that is not replicated anywhere else.
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Nov 02, 2009 5:43 AM GMT
Devon_Fury saidWe may be many (73.5% of the global population) and crazy, but at least we have the majority!
Except you're not the majority. http://www.pollingreport.com/abortion.htm
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Nov 02, 2009 5:56 AM GMT
From the doctor that performed this procedure: "Samuel and his mother, Julie, were under anesthesia and could not move. "The baby did not reach out," Dr. Bruner says. "The baby was anesthetized. The baby was not aware of what was going on." http://www.snopes.com/photos/medical/thehand.asp
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Nov 02, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
styrgan saidDevon_Fury said Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
Do you marginalize everyone else under the age of 18 then? Really?
Not nearly the same.
A child, even a baby several weeks old is not BIOLOGICALLY dependent on a single provider for survival. The fetus has a nearly parasitic relationship with the mother that is not replicated anywhere else. Well then the mother should have thought a little harder before allowing the "parasite" to infect her body. If she didn't want to have a baby, she should have never had unprotected sex with a man. Simple. If it's inconvenient to have a growing baby inside of you, then you more than likely aren't fit to be a parent. Choice starts before you decide to have sex with someone, much like responsibility. But who needs responsibility when you can get rid of all evidence? Wouldn't that get in the way of all that hedonistic fun you so whole-heartedly embrace?? I find it utterly repulsive that babies have largely become thought of as unintended consequences.
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Nov 02, 2009 6:18 AM GMT
GotBiceps saidI find it utterly repulsive that babies have largely become thought of as unintended consequences. That's nothing new, but it is definitely repulsive. A lot of people are incredibly irresponsible when it comes to sex, and even more so with the kids, themselves. A lot of times it looks more like the idiot will keep the kid and fuck 'em up real good with their bad parenting rather than at least give it up for adoption so it can have a real shot at life. I'd much rather see a kid with adopted parents than a fetus in a blender and even more so than in the hands of a person who isn't ready to be a parent.
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Nov 02, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
styrgan saidUSMmmm saidTigerTim saidThe sheer insanity of the anti-abortion crowd could not be more manifest.
I find it more insane that a civilized society would suck that little guy out of his Mom with a vacuum. Are you shocked to see there is an actual human inside the belly? Better keep this pic under wraps so we can continue to marginalize the "fetus" as something non-human.
Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival. I guess I don't see the difference. Babies that are born are not able to survive on their own any more than before they are born. So do babies that are born have less rights to live than adults who can survive on their own? Will we take the next step and say until you are able to survive on your own, you do not have any rights of your own to live? Will we next legalize infanticide with the argument that infants are not able to survive on their own yet?.
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Nov 02, 2009 9:40 PM GMT
flex89 saidGotBiceps saidI find it utterly repulsive that babies have largely become thought of as unintended consequences.
That's nothing new, but it is definitely repulsive. A lot of people are incredibly irresponsible when it comes to sex, and even more so with the kids, themselves. A lot of times it looks more like the idiot will keep the kid and fuck 'em up real good with their bad parenting rather than at least give it up for adoption so it can have a real shot at life. I'd much rather see a kid with adopted parents than a fetus in a blender and even more so than in the hands of a person who isn't ready to be a parent. I agree. I think parenting classes should be made mandatory for all new parents.
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Nov 02, 2009 9:47 PM GMT
 (and is the OP wearing blusher in his new pic? ) 
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Nov 02, 2009 10:27 PM GMT
Reflex..........the end
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Nov 02, 2009 10:51 PM GMT
Devon_Fury saidHI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow pagans who believe all life is sacred. HI! I am the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Jains who believe all life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Hindus who believe all life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Christians who believe all Human life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Muslims who believe all Human life is sacred. HI! I'm the religious nut here to stand up for myself and my fellow Buddhists who believe all life is sacred. We may be many (73.5% of the global population) and crazy, but at least we have the majority!
Mostly, though, I am here to stand up for those of us who feel that Human life at any stage should be acknowledged as precious- regardless of your religion or whether you have the sense to not wear brown shoes with a black belt. If I can use my iphone to order plane tickets while riding the subway then surely we can come up with a better solution than abortion. I hope.
There are religous people who want abortion to remain legalized, but others who have no religious belief consider abortion murder. Abortion is not a religious issue for many people, but many see it as a completely secular issue which allows discrimination on a minority group (i.e the unborn). Obama just passed a hate crimes bill , which is really great, however this bill excludes the life of the unborn from this protection. I am all for allowing people to make their own choices, but when our choices hurt, harm, and kill others, then some choices can not be allowed. Today we do not even give a mother the choice whether to put her child in a child safety seat or not. She is required to do it whether she wants to or not or face a big fine. If there are children in our society who are being abused, should we take the children and painlessly put them to death so that they can no longer be abused? We all agree that would not be right. Why is that not right? Because of religion? No. It just isn't right to do that because hopefully we are more loving and civilized than that. But I do know of some parents who have killed their children AFTER BIRTH because they had medical problems and they felt they didn't have the means to financially take care of them any longer, so they had them put to death. We look at these parents and say, "Wow, they are really sick and need help. But this is no more sicker than what happens in an abortion every day. I absolutely don't see any difference between killing them before birth of after. Our bodies are developing from the moment of conception and they continue to develop long after birth. Our bodies are to be protected from the very beginning of their development, which biologically begins at conception. Our human bodies are developing during the entire 9 months and thy continue to develop long after birth. The only difference is LOCATION, It is the same body after birth as before. That body is not able to take care of itself after birth any more than before. It has many more years yet after birth before it is fully developed and is able to take care of itself. However, soon after our body is developed, it begins to deteriate and sometimes it deteriates so much that it no longer can take care of itself anymore, but is dependent on others. ALL of the elderly in nursing homes and some even in their own home are no longer able to take care of themself anymore, But that doesn't mean that it's ok to take life away from someone who is no longer able to take care of themselves. There are literally billions from babies and children to the elderly who are not able to survive on their own, but need to be cared for. My parents took care of me when I could not survive on my own. I will do no less for them. I owe it to them. That doesn't mean that it's wrong to put them in a nursing home when it becomes necessary to do so because often times they need help to do basic things like dress themself, eat , go to the bathroom ,that we just take for granted. But I certainly would never think of getting rid of them just because I am not able to personally take care of all their needs. But I will see to it that their needs are taken care of well by others when I can not be with them.
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Nov 02, 2009 11:17 PM GMT
There are times when abortion could be necessary.
But the use of abortion as a means of whole sale mass contraception is ridiculous and disgustingly shameful.
And we are supposed to be an enlightened society.
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Nov 02, 2009 11:39 PM GMT
The rest of the story....
The surgery occurred in 1999. Samuel's parents are still trying to pay off the $257,000 medical bill that the surgery incurred, but was not covered by insurance because the insurance company said Samuel's operation was an "experimental" procedure. In that same time, thousands of babies and mothers suffered because they lacked adequate prenatal and pediatric care. Apparently, the religious righties are more concerned about birthing the unborn, than in caring for the fetuses that do eventually see the light of day. Every day I drive by a corner that has an abortion clinic on one corner and a rescue mission on the other. Religious righties are picketing the abortion clinic constantly, even on the coldest days, showing pictures of aborted fetuses to cars of children driving by. I've never been inside the abortion clinic but I've served dinners on holidays to people at the rescue mission. I've often wondered how much the picketers could contribute to the general human condition if they put their signs down and came across the street and served meals. Religious righties are more concerned about promoting their viewpoint than they are in promoting God's viewpoint. When Jesus said, feed the hungry, what do these people think that he meant? That it's better to picket against abortion or against gay people than to really help a fellow human being?Wealthy people aren't getting abortions. It's the poor and destitute that know that they can't provide for a child that are driven to that end. Once those potential aborted fetuses are saved and end up on the other side of the street as adults, they are quickly forgotten by the religious righties.
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Nov 02, 2009 11:52 PM GMT
GotBiceps saidstyrgan saidDevon_Fury said Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
Do you marginalize everyone else under the age of 18 then? Really?
Not nearly the same.
A child, even a baby several weeks old is not BIOLOGICALLY dependent on a single provider for survival. The fetus has a nearly parasitic relationship with the mother that is not replicated anywhere else.
Well then the mother should have thought a little harder before allowing the "parasite" to infect her body. If she didn't want to have a baby, she should have never had unprotected sex with a man. Simple. If it's inconvenient to have a growing baby inside of you, then you more than likely aren't fit to be a parent. Choice starts before you decide to have sex with someone, much like responsibility. But who needs responsibility when you can get rid of all evidence? Wouldn't that get in the way of all that hedonistic fun you so whole-heartedly embrace??
I find it utterly repulsive that babies have largely become thought of as unintended consequences. With that logic, if you view it as inconvenient to have HIV, you should never have sex with a man again. It's easy for someone who's gay to come down hard on women who have abortions when they don't have to worry about a similar set of responsibilities. Spare us the hysteria. Most of us who are pro-choice are arguing for a certain degree of sense - not for free abortion on demand in as many cases as possible. Sex is messy and no contraception is 100 percent. Some forms of contraception (such as NFP) barely reach above 80 percent. Who are you to determine what forms should be used in a sexual relationship in violation of people's religious beliefs or cultural customs? Do you really want more unwanted children in this world? Sure, it's easy to argue yes. But what happens to these kids who are being raised themselves by children or unprepared parents or a lousy adoption system? Poor adjustment, drugs, crime, prison? If you and other "pro-lifers" really argued for real respect for life from conception to natural death, I might take your arguments seriously. But all it amounts to is exactly what your last line implies - further sexual oppression of women, further attempts to control their lives and their bodies.
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Nov 03, 2009 12:41 AM GMT
Want to reduce the number of abortions? Reduce poverty. Provide better education. Make birth control more affordable. Give more access to reproductive health clinics.
But in my experience, most pro-lifers aren't actually interested in reducing the number of abortions. It is just all hot air about how sacred life it and blah blah blah.
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Nov 03, 2009 12:57 AM GMT
styrgan saidGotBiceps saidstyrgan saidDevon_Fury said Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
Do you marginalize everyone else under the age of 18 then? Really?
Not nearly the same.
A child, even a baby several weeks old is not BIOLOGICALLY dependent on a single provider for survival. The fetus has a nearly parasitic relationship with the mother that is not replicated anywhere else.
Well then the mother should have thought a little harder before allowing the "parasite" to infect her body. If she didn't want to have a baby, she should have never had unprotected sex with a man. Simple. If it's inconvenient to have a growing baby inside of you, then you more than likely aren't fit to be a parent. Choice starts before you decide to have sex with someone, much like responsibility. But who needs responsibility when you can get rid of all evidence? Wouldn't that get in the way of all that hedonistic fun you so whole-heartedly embrace??
I find it utterly repulsive that babies have largely become thought of as unintended consequences.
With that logic, if you view it as inconvenient to have HIV, you should never have sex with a man again. It's easy for someone who's gay to come down hard on women who have abortions when they don't have to worry about a similar set of responsibilities.
Spare us the hysteria. Most of us who are pro-choice are arguing for a certain degree of sense - not for free abortion on demand in as many cases as possible.
Sex is messy and no contraception is 100 percent. Some forms of contraception (such as NFP) barely reach above 80 percent. Who are you to determine what forms should be used in a sexual relationship in violation of people's religious beliefs or cultural customs?
Do you really want more unwanted children in this world? Sure, it's easy to argue yes. But what happens to these kids who are being raised themselves by children or unprepared parents or a lousy adoption system? Poor adjustment, drugs, crime, prison?
If you and other "pro-lifers" really argued for real respect for life from conception to natural death, I might take your arguments seriously. But all it amounts to is exactly what your last line implies - further sexual oppression of women, further attempts to control their lives and their bodies.
I'm not trying to control anyone's life or anyone's body. And you have absolutely zero credibility when trying to read my mind, so I suggest you quit trying altogether. But to answer your question about gay men with HIV never having sex again...yes, I would argue that same point. If you have HIV (whether you are a man or woman, straight, gay, or otherwise) and you decide to have sex with another person, even with a condom, you are still running the risk of infecting that person, regardless of how small that risk may be. So, to be completely safe about it, don't have sex. I completely support that position. It's like anything else in life that inherently has risks: If you don't agree with facing potential consequences, don't engage in the behavior. It's simple, really. If I don't want to run the risk of getting a speeding ticket, you know what I do? I don't go above the speed limit. If I don't want to pass out from alcohol, I don't pick up a bottle. So quit trying to claim that we are free from consequences whenever we consciously choose to act in certain ways. Even if we don't particularly like the possibilities, they still exist and we still have to deal with them. So, if you decide to have sex with your partner and you infect him or her, then YOU ARE partly responsible for having infected that person. There is no way around it. I don't care if you used half a dozen condoms and even pulled out...if you infected them, YOU ARE PARTLY RESPONSIBLE. It's a risk that's understood before you even decide to have sex, so there is no room for wiggling out once you've made that decision. Just because you don't like the consequences doesn't mean you are exempt from paying them. Sorry, none of us is that entitled.
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Nov 03, 2009 1:29 AM GMT
Well i'm anti-abortion so i'd believe it just to beat down those who have abortions with intense guilty that they've taken a life that has yet to start. If you don't want kids "HELLO double stack that condom dumbass" 
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Nov 03, 2009 1:56 AM GMT
Blackguy4you saidThere are times when abortion could be necessary.
But the use of abortion as a means of whole sale mass contraception is ridiculous and disgustingly shameful.
And we are supposed to be an enlightened society. I agree with you completely. There is a small percentage of abortions today where there is no choice and the abortion needs to be done for medical and health reasons. But str8's are having sex today WITHOUT CONDOMS when they don't want a kid yet because the attitude is, it's no big deal now because, if it happens, it's very easy to get an abortion, so why use a condom. When a condom is used today, it's because of STD's not the fear of a pregnancy. Pregnancies don't scare anyone anymore because what's there to be scared about when all you got to do is have an abortion.
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Nov 03, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
Gay men discussing abortion. THAT is novel.
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Nov 03, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
gymlocker saidThe rest of the story....
The surgery occurred in 1999. Samuel's parents are still trying to pay off the $257,000 medical bill that the surgery incurred, but was not covered by insurance because the insurance company said Samuel's operation was an "experimental" procedure. In that same time, thousands of babies and mothers suffered because they lacked adequate prenatal and pediatric care. Apparently, the religious righties are more concerned about birthing the unborn, than in caring for the fetuses that do eventually see the light of day. Every day I drive by a corner that has an abortion clinic on one corner and a rescue mission on the other. Religious righties are picketing the abortion clinic constantly, even on the coldest days, showing pictures of aborted fetuses to cars of children driving by. I've never been inside the abortion clinic but I've served dinners on holidays to people at the rescue mission. I've often wondered how much the picketers could contribute to the general human condition if they put their signs down and came across the street and served meals. Religious righties are more concerned about promoting their viewpoint than they are in promoting God's viewpoint. When Jesus said, feed the hungry, what do these people think that he meant? That it's better to picket against abortion or against gay people than to really help a fellow human being?Wealthy people aren't getting abortions. It's the poor and destitute that know that they can't provide for a child that are driven to that end. Once those potential aborted fetuses are saved and end up on the other side of the street as adults, they are quickly forgotten by the religious righties. The lack of adequarte and prenatal care is not Samuel's fault. Why punish him? And ask Samuel some day, if the $257,000 that was spent on him was worth it? Would you spend $257,000 on your son, if it meant he could live and perhaps even have children of his own? I don't know of a sane parent who would not say their son was worth every penny of that and even more. There are certain things in life that are so much more important than all the money in the world and they are our own offspring. Let's treat them with the dignity and respect they deserve as our very own flesh blood. The SINS OF OTHERS ARE NOT REASONS TO PUNISH SAMUEL AND TAKE HIS LIFE AWAY!
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Nov 03, 2009 2:31 AM GMT
If the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all.
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Nov 03, 2009 2:43 AM GMT
"When Jesus said, feed the hungry, what do these people think that he meant?"
I know he didn't mean we should end someone's life in order to feed another. You are to feed and take care of them ALL, not just who you choose to feed.
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Nov 03, 2009 2:53 AM GMT
G_Force saidIf the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all. There's a big difference between a sentient human being and an only somewhat developed one that's not capable of being biologically self-sustaining. The luxury of that choice does not exist when the child is a year old.
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Nov 03, 2009 2:53 AM GMT
The reason I am against wholesale and unlimited abortions is because it just doesn't make any sense to my rational mind. I just don't see how anyone can see how this is solving anything. Are mother's being taken care of better today than before 1974? Absolutely not! It is much worse today than ever. IT'S NOT WORKING. Why do we keep doing stuff that history has shown DOES NOT WORK!
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Nov 03, 2009 2:58 AM GMT
GotBiceps saidstyrgan saidGotBiceps saidstyrgan saidDevon_Fury said Those of us who are pro-choice do not marginalize the fetus as something "non-human." We marginalize it as a biological entity with fewer rights than that of an actual adult on whom it is dependent for survival.
Do you marginalize everyone else under the age of 18 then? Really?
Not nearly the same.
A child, even a baby several weeks old is not BIOLOGICALLY dependent on a single provider for survival. The fetus has a nearly parasitic relationship with the mother that is not replicated anywhere else.
Well then the mother should have thought a little harder before allowing the "parasite" to infect her body. If she didn't want to have a baby, she should have never had unprotected sex with a man. Simple. If it's inconvenient to have a growing baby inside of you, then you more than likely aren't fit to be a parent. Choice starts before you decide to have sex with someone, much like responsibility. But who needs responsibility when you can get rid of all evidence? Wouldn't that get in the way of all that hedonistic fun you so whole-heartedly embrace??
I find it utterly repulsive that babies have largely become thought of as unintended consequences.
With that logic, if you view it as inconvenient to have HIV, you should never have sex with a man again.
I'm not trying to control anyone's life or anyone's body.
So, to be completely safe about it, don't have sex. I completely support that position. It's like anything else in life that inherently has risks: If you don't agree with facing potential consequences, don't engage in the behavior. It's simple, really. If I don't want to run the risk of getting a speeding ticket, you know what I do? I don't go above the speed limit. There's a sustainable position if there ever was one.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:00 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidIf the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all.
There's a big difference between a sentient human being and an only somewhat developed one that's not capable of being biologically self-sustaining.
The luxury of that choice does not exist when the child is a year old. Why not? The 1 year old is still not able to biologically sustain himself at that age. He is still TOTALLY dependent on other for his very life. Try to let a 1 year old survive on his own. He would die.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
G_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidIf the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all.
There's a big difference between a sentient human being and an only somewhat developed one that's not capable of being biologically self-sustaining.
The luxury of that choice does not exist when the child is a year old.
Why not? The 1 year old is still not able to biologically sustain himself at that age. He is still TOTALLY dependent on other for his very life. Try to let a 1 year old survive on his own. He would die. A one-year old is dependent on others, but not in an anatomical sense. He's not physically connected to another single person, sharing her nutrients and resources - existing in a way as a part of her organism. You could take that one year old and give him to your aunt (or a perfect stranger) to take care of for the rest of his childhood, without serious physical consequence.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:12 AM GMT
We are talking only about a difference in bodily development. 1 year olds are still not developed enough to survive on their own. Babies can't even talk yet, so someone may contend that they aren't fully human yet. That's nonsense! At conception a real SEXUAL HUMAN BODY is developing and at 1 year old that body is continuing to develop even more. And this development continues through puberty.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
No, we're talking about the difference between complete biological dependence and dependence on a caretaker.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:25 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidIf the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all.
There's a big difference between a sentient human being and an only somewhat developed one that's not capable of being biologically self-sustaining.
The luxury of that choice does not exist when the child is a year old.
Why not? The 1 year old is still not able to biologically sustain himself at that age. He is still TOTALLY dependent on other for his very life. Try to let a 1 year old survive on his own. He would die.
A one-year old is dependent on others, but not in an anatomical sense. He's not physically connected to another single person, sharing her nutrients and resources - existing in a way as a part of her organism.
You could take that one year old and give him to your aunt (or a perfect stranger) to take care of for the rest of his childhood, without serious physical consequence. What difference does it make whether you receive your nutrients through the mouth and organs of your mother or your own? No baby is able to get any nutrients into him without someone giving those nutrients to him. No matter how you get those nutients is inmaterial. In either case it SUSTAINS YOUR LIFE AND KEEPS YOUR OWN HEART BEATING AND PUMPING. At times even adults are not able to get nutrients through their own bodily functions and have to rely on being fed intravenously. This DOES NOT make them less of a human being just because all of their own organs are not able to process food themselves. Some day you yourself may temporarily not be able to biologicallysustain yourself. So are you not a human being anymore during that time? That argument makes no sense to me.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:36 AM GMT
G_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidIf the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all.
There's a big difference between a sentient human being and an only somewhat developed one that's not capable of being biologically self-sustaining.
The luxury of that choice does not exist when the child is a year old.
Why not? The 1 year old is still not able to biologically sustain himself at that age. He is still TOTALLY dependent on other for his very life. Try to let a 1 year old survive on his own. He would die.
A one-year old is dependent on others, but not in an anatomical sense. He's not physically connected to another single person, sharing her nutrients and resources - existing in a way as a part of her organism.
You could take that one year old and give him to your aunt (or a perfect stranger) to take care of for the rest of his childhood, without serious physical consequence.
What difference does it make whether you receive your nutrients through the mouth and organs of your mother or your own? No baby is able to get any nutrients into him without someone giving those nutrients to him. No matter how you get those nutients is inmaterial. In either case it SUSTAINS YOUR LIFE AND KEEPS YOUR OWN HEART BEATING AND PUMPING. At times even adults are not able to get nutrients through their own bodily functions and have rely on being fed intravenously. This DOES NOT make them less of a human being just because all of their own organs are not able to process food themselves. Actually, it does. Science recognizes self-sustaining biological processes as an unequivocal definition of "life." An organism without self-sustaining processes cannot truly be considered "alive." A fetus that is unable to consume food by way of its mouth without the help of an umbilical cord cannot be considered self-sustaining in the same way as a child who is fed by a caretaker. It is completely sustained by the biological processes of someone else. The distinction is abstract, but it represents the fundamental basis for the philosophy behind being pro-choice.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:39 AM GMT
styrgan saidNo, we're talking about the difference between complete biological dependence and dependence on a caretaker. There are some LIVING ADULTS who at times are temporarily completely biologically dependent on another life support system other than their own. So during that time are they no longer a human being because biologically they are not sustaining themself? This is nonsense.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:44 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidIf the argument for abortion is so that we don't have unwanted children, then when children are in abusive homes, why don't we just take all of these kids and painlessly put them to death, too, so that they are not abused? And while we are doing this, many gays are not wanted either, so lets take all of them, too, and painless end their life, because then we won't have any gays feeling unwanted. And then lets gather all the elderly that are finacially burdening their families and painlessly end their life. And while we are doing that why don't we all just kill ourself because then nobody will be financially burdened at all.
There's a big difference between a sentient human being and an only somewhat developed one that's not capable of being biologically self-sustaining.
The luxury of that choice does not exist when the child is a year old.
Why not? The 1 year old is still not able to biologically sustain himself at that age. He is still TOTALLY dependent on other for his very life. Try to let a 1 year old survive on his own. He would die.
A one-year old is dependent on others, but not in an anatomical sense. He's not physically connected to another single person, sharing her nutrients and resources - existing in a way as a part of her organism.
You could take that one year old and give him to your aunt (or a perfect stranger) to take care of for the rest of his childhood, without serious physical consequence.
What difference does it make whether you receive your nutrients through the mouth and organs of your mother or your own? No baby is able to get any nutrients into him without someone giving those nutrients to him. No matter how you get those nutients is inmaterial. In either case it SUSTAINS YOUR LIFE AND KEEPS YOUR OWN HEART BEATING AND PUMPING. At times even adults are not able to get nutrients through their own bodily functions and have rely on being fed intravenously. This DOES NOT make them less of a human being just because all of their own organs are not able to process food themselves.
Actually, it does. Science recognizes self-sustaining biological processes as an unequivocal definition of "life." An organism without self-sustaining processes cannot truly be considered "alive." A fetus that is unable to consume food by way of its mouth without the help of an umbilical cord cannot be considered self-sustaining in the same way as a child who is fed by a caretaker. It is completely sustained by the biological processes of someone else. The distinction is abstract, but it represents the fundamental basis for the philosophy behind being pro-choice. According to your definition then, then we have had lots of bodily resurrections because it happens all the time. LOL
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Nov 03, 2009 3:45 AM GMT
G_Force saidstyrgan saidNo, we're talking about the difference between complete biological dependence and dependence on a caretaker.
There are some LIVING ADULTS who at times are temporarily completely biologically dependent on another life support system other than their own. So during that time are they no longer a human being because biologically they are not sustaining themself? This is nonsense. And those adults on whom they are dependent should not be FORCED to continue that relationship in the same way that a woman in the first few months of pregnancy should be forced to continue to sustain a fetus. Either way, do not confuse illness with "biologically self-sustaining processes." Usually, in the case of illness, those processes are in place; they are simply not functioning within normal operational parameters.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:49 AM GMT
Wow, according to you then we got lots of people in hospitals dead and nobody is burying them because they are going to come back to life. lol Now you know why I don't beleive in abortion because of nonsense like this.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
G_Force saidWow, according to you then we got lots of people in hospitals dead and nobody is burying them because they are going to come back to life. lol I have no idea what that means.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
 Some people have a hard time coming down to reality.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:53 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidNo, we're talking about the difference between complete biological dependence and dependence on a caretaker.
There are some LIVING ADULTS who at times are temporarily completely biologically dependent on another life support system other than their own. So during that time are they no longer a human being because biologically they are not sustaining themself? This is nonsense.
And those adults on whom they are dependent should not be FORCED to continue that relationship in the same way that a woman in the first few months of pregnancy should be forced to continue to sustain a fetus.
Either way, do not confuse illness with "biologically self-sustaining processes." Usually, in the case of illness, those processes are in place; they are simply not functioning within normal operational parameters. The processes ARE NOT IN PLACE because they are not working-- absolutely no difference.
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Nov 03, 2009 3:57 AM GMT
Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't everyone regardless of what age they are dependent of someone or something?
I'm curious now.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:00 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidWow, according to you then we got lots of people in hospitals dead and nobody is burying them because they are going to come back to life. lol
I have no idea what that means. Because you just said that if a person is not biologically self sustaining themself ,they are not alive.  So according to you there are lots of people in hospitals right now who are dead, but they are going to come back to life again because these people will biolgically self sustain themself again. Your definitiion of life is nonsense and makes bodily resurrections a common occurence today.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:04 AM GMT
Not technically correct. Take a common example of serious illness. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heart_attackNote the language. Ischemia (RESTRICTION in blood supply) and Oxygen SHORTAGE. Your heart is in fact continuing circulation, just not enough to keep you alive indefinitely. But the process is there...
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Nov 03, 2009 4:08 AM GMT
Guy101 saidCorrect me if I'm wrong but isn't everyone regardless of what age they are dependent of someone or something?
I'm curious now. That's a different type of dependent. We covered that five posts ago...
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Nov 03, 2009 4:10 AM GMT
And so according to you, if someone murdered a person in that condition, he could not be charged with murder because according you there technically there was no life at that moment. I'd like to see that presented as a case in court for why that wasn't a murder and see if the court will agree with that argument. lol
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Nov 03, 2009 4:13 AM GMT
G_Force saidAnd so according to you, if someone murdered a person in that condition, he could not be charged with murder because according you there technically there was no life at that moment. I'd like to see that presented as a case in court for why that wasn't a murder and see if the court will agree with that argument. lol Someone who was in what condition? I've just presented an argument as to why someone who is having a heart attack is more alive than a fetus. I don't know what else you want me to do.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:19 AM GMT
styrgan saidNot technically correct. Take a common example of serious illness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heart_attack
Note the language. Ischemia (RESTRICTION in blood supply) and Oxygen SHORTAGE.
Your heart is in fact continuing circulation, just not enough to keep you alive indefinitely. But the process is there...
This is true of the unborn as well. My daughter's heart was functioning very healthy and well at 12 weeks after conception. The doctor knew what her sex was by the sound of her heart. He's able to determine the sex of babies with a 90% accurancy just by the sound of their heart. He was right again.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:20 AM GMT
G_Force saidstyrgan saidNot technically correct. Take a common example of serious illness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heart_attack
Note the language. Ischemia (RESTRICTION in blood supply) and Oxygen SHORTAGE.
Your heart is in fact continuing circulation, just not enough to keep you alive indefinitely. But the process is there...
This is true of the unborn as well. My daughter's heart was functioning very healthy and well at 12 weeks after conception. The doctor knew what her sex was by the sound of her heart. He's able to determine the sex of babies with a 90% accurancy just by the sound of their heart. He was right again. And if your daughter had been removed from her mother at 12 weeks, would she have survived? That is by definition not self-sustaining.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:25 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidAnd so according to you, if someone murdered a person in that condition, he could not be charged with murder because according you there technically there was no life at that moment. I'd like to see that presented as a case in court for why that wasn't a murder and see if the court will agree with that argument. lol
Someone who was in what condition?
I've just presented an argument as to why someone who is having a heart attack is more alive than a fetus. I don't know what else you want me to do. I am talking about people in the hospital who are not biologically sustaining themself for a time. According to you they are not alive in that condition so according to you if they were murdered in that condition ,they could not be charged with murder because according to you when they are in that condition they are not alive,  even though they will get well and will once again biologically be able to sustain themself.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:32 AM GMT
G_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidAnd so according to you, if someone murdered a person in that condition, he could not be charged with murder because according you there technically there was no life at that moment. I'd like to see that presented as a case in court for why that wasn't a murder and see if the court will agree with that argument. lol
Someone who was in what condition?
I've just presented an argument as to why someone who is having a heart attack is more alive than a fetus. I don't know what else you want me to do.
I am talking about people in the hospital who are not biologically sustaining themself for a time. According to you they are not alive in that condition so according to you if they were murdered in that condition ,they could not be charged with murder because according to you when they are in that condition they are not alive, even though they will get well and will once again biologically be able to sustain themself. So you're saying like a Terri Schiavo or a PVS kind of case? Obviously, all those situations are different so it's difficult to use them, but as long as someone is on life support, they are by definition alive. Their processes are simply being sustained by artificial means. I'm not advocating their murder... 
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Nov 03, 2009 4:35 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidNot technically correct. Take a common example of serious illness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heart_attack
Note the language. Ischemia (RESTRICTION in blood supply) and Oxygen SHORTAGE.
Your heart is in fact continuing circulation, just not enough to keep you alive indefinitely. But the process is there...
This is true of the unborn as well. My daughter's heart was functioning very healthy and well at 12 weeks after conception. The doctor knew what her sex was by the sound of her heart. He's able to determine the sex of babies with a 90% accurancy just by the sound of their heart. He was right again.
And if your daughter had been removed from her mother at 12 weeks, would she have survived?
That is by definition not self-sustaining. And if the life support system is removed from the adult, will he survive either? That is not self-sustaining either. You can try to argue this point all you want, but the fetus is NO DIFFERENT than the adult who is not able to biologically sustain himself either. So like I said according to you, if he was murdered in that state, you would say he can't be charged with murder because while he was in that state he was not biologically able to sustain himself any more than the fetus can. But a court would not agree with that. They would say it still is murder, even though in that conditon he was not able to biologically sustain himself.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
Does a woman have the right to defend her life if complications of the pregnancy risk her life?
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Nov 03, 2009 4:45 AM GMT
coolarmydude saidDoes a woman have the right to defend her life if complications of the pregnancy risk her life? Yes, absolutely.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:47 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidstyrgan saidG_Force saidAnd so according to you, if someone murdered a person in that condition, he could not be charged with murder because according you there technically there was no life at that moment. I'd like to see that presented as a case in court for why that wasn't a murder and see if the court will agree with that argument. lol
Someone who was in what condition?
I've just presented an argument as to why someone who is having a heart attack is more alive than a fetus. I don't know what else you want me to do.
I am talking about people in the hospital who are not biologically sustaining themself for a time. According to you they are not alive in that condition so according to you if they were murdered in that condition ,they could not be charged with murder because according to you when they are in that condition they are not alive, even though they will get well and will once again biologically be able to sustain themself.
So you're saying like a Terri Schiavo or a PVS kind of case?
Obviously, all those situations are different so it's difficult to use them, but as long as someone is on life support, they are by definition alive. Their processes are simply being sustained by artificial means. I'm not advocating their murder...
 The same is true of the fetus. As long as they are connected to the life support system of the mother, THEY ARE ALIVE. But you are approving of their death, but not the death of others who are receiving life support system from a machine. This is a DOUBLE STANDARD. In either case they are both not biologically sustaing themself and are receiving life support by another means. But you think its ok to end the life support system that the fetus has through its mother, but you don't think its ok to end the life support of the adult. THIS IS NONSENSE because they BOTH are receiving a life support system to keep them alive and yet in one case you say its ok to end the life support but in the other it's not.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:49 AM GMT
coolarmydude saidDoes a woman have the right to defend her life if complications of the pregnancy risk her life? Yes, absolutely.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:53 AM GMT
I finally get your argument, G_Force.
I don't necessarily think you understand the idea of "biologically self-sustaining." That simply means that the organism has the systems in place to accomplish basic processes such as respiration and circulation, and digestion without directly relying on another organism.
If you have someone in a PVS scenario, they are accomplishing those processes. They may need a feeding tube or an oxygen tank, but their bodies are capable of breaking down nutrients and oxygen and distributing throughout their system. In that sense, they are self-sustaining.
If you were to remove a fetus at 12 weeks, do you really think it could accomplish the same processes? In fact, though there has been great progress, premature newborns have poor mortality rates (65 percent?) and future complications.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:54 AM GMT
So there is room for legal abortions at any stage of the pregnancy...
The problem with the pro-life argument on abortion is that it uses abortion to act righteous on some people's bad decisions and treats all who advocate abortion as irresponsible murderers. Conservatives want government intrusion on abortion and euthanasia, but it's socialism when it comes to healthcare!! This is the double-standard that creates the vitriol in today's political debate.
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Nov 03, 2009 4:55 AM GMT
I think it is unseemly and in bad taste for men to make pronouncements about abortion.
As someone said once, if men could bear children, abortion would be a sacrament.
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Nov 03, 2009 5:03 AM GMT
G_Force saidBut you think its ok to end the life support system that the fetus has through its mother, but you don't think its ok to end the life support of the adult. Being that there is another person involved in the former circumstance, I think it's logical to consider her desires as well. And same thing with the PVS scenario. If someone decides they do not want to live like that or have a family member live like that, I don't think you or I should stand in the way.
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Nov 03, 2009 5:03 AM GMT
Doctors will also permit life support systems to be removed from an adult when the person will NOT ever be able to biologically sustain themself. again. Then it is not murder. But to remove a life support system (either machine or mother) from a life that is fully capable of continuing is wrong. A LIFE DOES END when either the life support system of the mother is removed or the machine is removed. But when there are complications in a pregnancy, it may medically be absolutely necessary that an abortion be performed to save the mother's life. Then it is not wrong any more than it is wrong to remove the plug from a terminally ill patient. We are NOT to prolong someone's death. To prolong someone's death is just as bad as shortening someone's life.
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Nov 03, 2009 5:15 AM GMT
styrgan saidG_Force saidBut you think its ok to end the life support system that the fetus has through its mother, but you don't think its ok to end the life support of the adult.
Being that there is another person involved in the former circumstance, I think it's logical to consider her desires as well.
And same thing with the PVS scenario. If someone decides they do not want to live like that or have a family member live like that, I don't think you or I should stand in the way. It is NEVER logical to hurt, harm, or END ANY LIFE that is viable and healthy with no complications to mother or child. THIS IS INSANE, just as it would be insane to pull the plug on an adult who will get well again and who with medical treatment will be able to biologically sustain themself again. I never said where there are complications or where the life is no longer viable or able to ever sustain themself again, that we should prolong someone's death. Actually prolonging death is also wrong..
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Nov 03, 2009 5:37 AM GMT
With this kind of insane logic with abortion, I can see why some people actually think that sometimes it is ok to to kill another person, when they think that allowing that person to live may infringe on their own rights or affect the quality of their own life because it is this same logic used with abortion and is no different.
But we NEVER have the right to end anyone's life, no matter if that person is physically or even emotionally hurting us and affecting our qaulity of living. We may have to get a restraining order, but DO NOT MURDER.
If you want to know why some people can kill other people and have no remorse over it, it is coming from this same insane logic as abortion. They think that under certain circumstances, it is not wrong to murder.
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Nov 03, 2009 5:48 AM GMT
I'm sorry but in some case it's better to let a person pass on then to drag it out and watch them suffer and they don't want to suffer either.
You should watch Aliens. The scene where a woman is plastered to the wall and she is whispering "Kill me. Please Kill me." it's the equivalent of that for some people when they are li.ving but in so much pain that they really really rahter dir then to continue living like.
I'm not saying it's right or wrong to decide something like that for a person. I'm just saying it happens. I know if my parents or someone I loved dearly gave me the authority to end their life because they couldn't bare to live on I would respect their wish despite my personal feelings.
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Nov 03, 2009 7:03 AM GMT
The issue of pro-life vs. pro-choice is an obfuscation of the legal decision handed down by the Supreme Court in Roe v Wade. The decision was concerning privacy, particularly medical privacy, argued under Section 1 of the Fourteenth Amendment,
"All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws."
The decision then defined the parameters at which a fetus may be considered viable and not lawfully aborted, and exemptions from limitations, considering the life of the mother.
It did not argue whether or not abortion was a bad or good idea, or whether it was moral. A person may find abortion morally repugnant, but still support the decision to abort and the right to privacy.
The obfuscation is meant as a straw man trap, to enlist moral soldiers who oppose abortion clinics, by portraying the abortionist as a licentious, sociopathic murderer. The aim is entirely political. Photos of fetuses, either aborted or heroically salvaged are presented to evoke maternalistic (and paternalistic) empathy and rage, further demonizing supporters of a woman's right to privacy over her body.
Although many women are strong opponents to right-to-privacy, a greater vocal majority are men, whose motivations range from pure paternalism (truly caring about the fetus) to opportunists (politicians) and misogynists.
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Nov 03, 2009 7:25 AM GMT
Um, I liked it better when they did it on House. Him stopping cold when the fetus he wanted to abort grabbed his finger was all touching 'n shit. This picture, on the other hand, kind of reminds me of the remake of Dawn of the Dead and that preggers zombie chick. 
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Nov 03, 2009 7:49 AM GMT
jprichva saidI think it is unseemly and in bad taste for men to make pronouncements about abortion.
As someone said once, if men could bear children, abortion would be a sacrament. And if we ever discover a "gay gene", gays would become the biggest pro-life advocates the world has ever seen so that gay babies wouldn't be aborted. Funny how convenience is so easily able to sway values.
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Nov 03, 2009 8:07 AM GMT
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Nov 03, 2009 8:25 AM GMT
I find it interesting that members of a minority community with less rights than the majority would subjugate other life forms to their same fate, even their own destruction, when they themselves pine for basic rights as well. Be thankful that we have the right to be as living people.
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Nov 03, 2009 11:20 AM GMT
Life is not sacred. It's abundant, cheap, and rather easy to create. Additionally, overpopulation is destroying the Earth.
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Nov 03, 2009 11:23 AM GMT
McGay saidLife is not sacred. It's abundant, cheap, and rather easy to create. Additionally, overpopulation is destroying the Earth. Not from scratch....
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Nov 03, 2009 11:40 AM GMT
It's a beautiful story but I as much figured there was an agenda attached to it without really having to go digging for anything. I personally don't like the idea of abortion, and, if by some Godly miracle, were to have sex with a woman (which I highly doubt will ever happen) I would want for her to keep the baby but I think it is ultimately her choice. I remember one the hardest thing I ever had to do with take my friend to get hers done and seeing a crowd of pro-life & pro-choice people having a picket along the sidewalk of the clinic. They assumed I was the father and were giving me all kind of shit like saying... "baby killer" "murderer" and the likes of that. I remember this one pro-choice woman coming up to me and said... I respect her decision but I want to know that we are praying for both of you and don't those people get to you. I thank her for that cause actually It was kind of hard for me even though It wasn't my kid. I guess in a way I found myself feeling kind of like I would feel if it were my kid. I told them she wasn't my gf and that it wasn't my kid that she was just a friend from college that said she needed help and someone to take care of her. What is a friend to do? She said still... you have a look on your face like if you had a say... you would choose differently and just know we support you both and that it was very admirable that I was helping out a friend. Next thing I know is some pro-life asshat comes at me and is like "Your girl should keep her legs closed next time. How does it feel to be a murderer? Don't you feel like a big man now" my reply: "She isn't my girl and that isn't my baby. I'm gay you moron and I am here helping out a friend even if I don't agree with it because she is my friend and its the right thing to do." He doesn't believe me and starts going on as I am walking away so I tell him. "Drop your pants right here and now poppa and I'll deep throat you better than your wife EVER will." Gave them a chuckle and so after that he left with his little posse. That by far was one of the worst experiences of my life.
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Nov 03, 2009 12:02 PM GMT
You know what? All you guys who are so hopped up on helping embryos make it to becoming more people Why don't you put some more effort into helping the ones that are already here? Hypocrits  You're being used by the republican party to fabricate a wedge issue They don't want anything to do with stopping Roe vs Wade Then they'll have nothing to run with Infant Mortality: U.S. Ranks 29th U.S. Ties Slovakia, Poland for 29th Place in Infant Deaths By Daniel J. DeNoon WebMD Health News Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD Oct. 15, 2008 -- The U.S. ranks 29th worldwide in infant mortality, tying Slovakia and Poland but lagging behind Cuba, the CDC reports. [url]http://www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/news/20081015/infant-mortality-us-ranks-29th [/url]
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Nov 04, 2009 5:18 PM GMT
G_Force saidBabies that are born are not able to survive on their own any more than before they are born. Born babies are not dependent on the mother's body as a fetus is. Without the mother's body, the fetus WILL NOT survive. A baby can survive, even if the mother is dead. G_Force said So do babies that are born have less rights to live than adults who can survive on their own? Babies, and even fetuses, have the exact same rights as adults do, with respect to the use of another's body. You have no legal right whatsover to take or use ANY part of my body without my consent, even if you will die without the use of my body. If your kidney is failing, you have no right whatsoever to take or use my kidney without my consent. The same is true of a fetus, who has no right whatsoever to use the uterus of the mother, without the mother's consent. The fetus has no legal right to so much as a single drop of blood from the mother's body without her consent. Nor do you have the legal right to so much as one drop of blood from my body, without my consent, even if you will die without it. Why don't you just come clean and admit what you really support is FORCED organ donation, such that a woman may be FORCED to donate the entirety of her bodily resources for a period of 9 months to insure the physical survival of a fetus? Why don't you come clean and ADMIT you would NEVER suggest the same rule should apply to you, such that I could legally FORCE you to hook my body up to yours for a nine months period, to insure my own physical survival? G_Force said Will we next legalize infanticide with the argument that infants are not able to survive on their own yet?. Will you next offer an argument in support of your position that is NOT absurd? 35 years after Roe, can you point to ANY bill proposed in Congress to legalize infanticide? No, you can not. Can you point to ANY bill proposed in ANY western democracy with legal abortion that proposed to legalize infanticide? No, you can not. Sure legalized abortion could lead to legalized infanticide, just as surely as it could lead to monkeys flying out of my behind tomorrow at precisely 9:38 AM EST.
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Nov 04, 2009 5:27 PM GMT
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Nov 04, 2009 5:30 PM GMT
GQjock saidUmmmm .....
In case you didn't know babies are born with a clutch reflex  exactly!!! any baby would have grabbed whatever came in contact with its hand. nothing spectacular about that.
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Nov 04, 2009 5:31 PM GMT
My favorite : 
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