Obsessed

  • Nayro

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    Nov 03, 2009 2:14 PM GMT
    Hey,
    have any of you guys ever been obsessed with someone? Even if you know you probably will never meet this person? There is this guy in a t.v show i watch every now and then and I keep thinking about him too much. Even when I'm in class my mind wonders off. When im doing homework... I had this before a couple of times and it always ends in like a month or two and after that I just feel normal again. Right now I feel very down cause I know I will never meet this guy, and if I ever would he will not be the same as in the tv show cause he's an actor... its really stupid but I cant control it..
    I really need to get a life icon_razz.gif
    Anyway, any of you had anything similar?
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    Nov 04, 2009 12:01 AM GMT
    obsessed ? yes
    from tv ? no, it was someone I actually did meet and it should have been obvious that I'm not his type and nothing more than friendship would ever come of it
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    Nov 04, 2009 12:16 AM GMT
    I was obsessed with a guy I dated for a while... not stalker obsessed but couldn't stop thinking about, didn't function well unless we had seen each other and that relationship kept me from having healthy ones with other guys.
    It lasted for about 2 years, it was doomed for failure for a dozen or so reasons. I saw the writing on the wall well ahead of time but refused to heed the warning.
    When I think about him... I realize it was ridiculous. The thought of how sucked in I became is disturbing.

    I also had a stalker. *He* was obsessed and in a horribly, wrong, psychopath way.
    Obsessed = Bad... very, very bad
    (unless it's on a TV character, then it's actually kinda funny) icon_wink.gif
  • Nayro

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    Nov 04, 2009 12:56 AM GMT
    well im not obsessed in a sick way... I hope :p
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    Nov 04, 2009 1:12 AM GMT
    I don't think I'm obsessed...but...it's just...I mean if they'd just leave their wife and kids like they promised me after that magical weekend we spent in Cape Cod...I wouldn't keep having to run them off the road into the cliffs below and stage it as an accident...keep moving to a different town...change my name...*sigh*

    Hey there, sexy icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 04, 2009 1:16 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo7 saidI don't think I'm obsessed...but...it's just...I mean if they'd just leave their wife and kids like they promised me after that magical weekend we spent in Cape Cod...I wouldn't keep having to run off the off the road into the cliffs below and stage it as an accident...keep moving to a different town...change my name...*sigh*

    Hey there, sexy icon_wink.gif

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  • trl_

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    Nov 04, 2009 1:21 AM GMT
    Last year I was obsessed with this kid that goes to my school. It was so dumb and such a waste of time but it did help me come out which I guess is a benefit.
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    Nov 04, 2009 1:24 AM GMT
    the occasional intangible straight guy every now and then.
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    Nov 04, 2009 1:33 AM GMT
    Maybe not obsessed but I've had a lot of crushes on guys I've met online and actors. It's probably unhealthy since it's not reality and just a fantasy. I think if you can separate the two then it's okay.

    You're not alone buddy, just don't let it eat you up.
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    Nov 04, 2009 1:45 AM GMT
    When I was a college sophomore I was obsessed with a guy in my residential house. We never spoke, had no mutual friends, and weren't in any of the same classes. He was just someone I saw across the dining hall three times a day. Nevertheless he dominated my thoughts for an entire year.
    It was totally irrational but it hindsight it may have been some subconscious mechanism to postpone dealing with the reality of coming out to real people.
    I still cringe whenever I recall how foolish I was. Fortunately you're only 19 for a year.
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    Nov 04, 2009 5:26 PM GMT
    TexDef07 saidWhen I was a college sophomore I was obsessed with a guy in my residential house. We never spoke, had no mutual friends, and weren't in any of the same classes. He was just someone I saw across the dining hall three times a day. Nevertheless he dominated my thoughts for an entire year.
    It was totally irrational but it hindsight it may have been some subconscious mechanism to postpone dealing with the reality of coming out to real people.
    I still cringe whenever I recall how foolish I was. Fortunately you're only 19 for a year.


    This is basically the exact same experience I had! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 06, 2009 3:00 PM GMT
    I had, what the book "Quirkyalone" calls, a romantic obsession on guy about 5 years ago....really bad, which drove me bonkers.

    To my defence though, the flirting that took place wasn't one sided. Our paths crossed several times, and each time, the sexual tension between us became heavier, but we were both too shy to do anything about it.

    Finally I decided to say something....then he introduced me to his girlfriend. Felt like a kick to the balls.icon_evil.gif

    I ran into him again last March, and the look on his face was priceless. He was with his then girlfriend, now wife, and their newborn son. When he saw me, he turned completely white, and became increasingly uncomfortable. I laughed to myself, as my feelings for him had long subsided, but I was friendly and congratulated him on his marriage and son.icon_biggrin.gif

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