I'm pleased the RJ has such a wide variety of shapes, ages, and fitness levels. I see absolutely no problem with it whatsoever. As a matter of fact I find the information, advice and words of a large number of these so-called "un-RJ" people to be a wonderful addition and voice in an otherwise chaotic and sometimes narcissistic forum.
What I DO have an issue with however is the prattling morons who spout nothing but negative comments and prattle on about non-issues and then proceed to take offense when someone doesn't necessarily agree. It's so much of a turn off that, in one case, when I see this person make a comment I usually leave the forum without bothering to read ... knowing full well that a "flame war" has been instigated (and no, I'm not talking about Chucky...he's actually got some logic behind his madness...:wink
I feel comforted by others however (for example meninlove) when I read their words of encouragement and advice and I have great affection for various others (young/old, fit/unfit) because of their sensitivity, empathy and pathos....also their twisted humour (case in point, Lostboy)