needing help, crap sex!

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    Nov 08, 2009 1:14 AM GMT
    so, im gonna gather this sight is mainly guys, but im gonna ask you for help anywayyyyss, im a girl, and a flaming lesbian at that, problem is, my girlfriend is a virgin, and dosnt want to lose her virginity to a dildo (understandable) i want to take things further and use toys but god knows she dosnt want to but we wot break up either, any suggestions?

    and boys if yous lost on the subject perhaps ou have a female lesbian friend who could help me out??
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    Nov 08, 2009 2:14 AM GMT
    lol, Hey hellychick!

    Just who does your girlfriend think she'll loose her virginity to? A man?

    If so, why?

    We know another lesbian that shuns toys etc - she says it's because she's Catholic. She also won't look after herself when horny and her partner isn't. She feels it's her partner's duty to service her whenever she has the craving.

    Needless to say this put enormous pressure on the partner, who's begun looking at sex as a chore.


    -us two
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    Nov 08, 2009 6:40 AM GMT
    Have you suggested fucking her with a strap on?

    Maybe she wants your arm up her?

    I've really got no idea.
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    Nov 08, 2009 7:12 AM GMT
    I'll ask my sister - that ought to be pretty funny. I have a feeling she's not a dildo girl - just a lot of bumping - but I'll ask.
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    Nov 08, 2009 8:14 AM GMT
    This is a matter of communication between you and your girlfriend. What she wants, what you can provide, what she idealizes, all goes into creating what her first experience will be like.

    As others ask, is she expecting a man? Not a "guilty" experience like some sort of repressed Catholic?

    She is obviously apprehensive... patience and talking through it will resolve this. Give her confidence, express how much you care, and talk with her what she desires exactly in order for you to feel the best partner for her through this experience.
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    Nov 08, 2009 1:38 PM GMT
    Do people find this attractive? I have no fucking idea... leaves me cold, but welcome to RJ anyway (and donĀ“t tell anyone I put this pic up, mkay?)

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    Close your eyes now, as I have to do something to neutralize that..

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    Nov 08, 2009 2:50 PM GMT
    Why do you have to use a dildo? Only 25% of women can have an orgasm from penetrative sex. So, you might be trying to ram a dildo in her when a vibrator will make her shoot like a fountain.

    I am not sure what the problem is here. What do you mean she doesn't want to lose her virginity? Hello, she is having lesbian sex! Cherry obliterated. Does she not want you to pop her hymen? Why do you want to pop it? Are you communicating your sexual needs? Are you accommodating her sexual needs? Why is the break up imminent?

    There is not nearly enough detail in this post, and I suspect the reason you think the relationship might end has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with a lack of communication.
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    Nov 09, 2009 12:47 AM GMT
    hey guys, thank you for all your advice so far, its actually really helped, you wer completely right and it was a lack of comunication, since reading your replies i spoke to her and we have discussed our wants and needs etc and as it turns out, she is quite into the whole strap on thingggg, shes ust scared of the hymen going bye bye. so we had a talk and its fine now. thank you guys for all your help, your actually alot more help than the lesbian forum i found and posted the same problem on. infact i had no replies from the lezzers and 6 from the gents so thank you all kindly.

    much love!!!
    xx
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    Nov 09, 2009 1:46 AM GMT
    Lostboy said

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    Wow, Obama was HOT...I'm surprised the repugs haven't jumped all over this yet. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 09, 2009 2:05 AM GMT
    hellychick saidhey guys, thank you for all your advice so far, its actually really helped, you wer completely right and it was a lack of comunication, since reading your replies i spoke to her and we have discussed our wants and needs etc and as it turns out, she is quite into the whole strap on thingggg, shes ust scared of the hymen going bye bye. so we had a talk and its fine now. thank you guys for all your help, your actually alot more help than the lesbian forum i found and posted the same problem on. infact i had no replies from the lezzers and 6 from the gents so thank you all kindly.

    much love!!!
    xx



    Hahaha, but look at the quality of what was posted... pictures of naked guys. How hilariously stereotypical!