Help! I can't tell if he's interested!

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    Nov 08, 2009 8:41 PM GMT
    So this semester I am taking "Rudiments of Music Theory". I'm taking the class with my gal pal and her boyfriend. Well, in the class, there is this guy named Solomon. Lately, I noticed that when I'm writing in my "song notebook" or when I look at the chalkboard, he stares at me. My friends notice this too. When I catch him in the corner of my eye, I quickly try to look at him but he looks away. Last Monday, he brought sticks of celery to snack on and my hungry self kept looking at the food and then I noticed that whenever I looked in his direction, he was basically giving the celery sticks a blowjob! My friends caught that too lol! I mean, the class knows I'm gay because me and my friends discuss shit all the time. They don't think he's very attractive or gay but I have a feeling he is gay AND I find him very attractive! I'd totally date him but if he isn't gay, I'm cool with being friends. He just seems to be a very easy going, warm, caring kind of dude. I just don't know what to do! What do you guys think?
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    Nov 08, 2009 9:44 PM GMT
    Go for it. He gave you some sign"he was basically giving the celery sticks a blowjob". No question asks he is indeed gay.icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 08, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    maybe you should approach him?
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    Nov 08, 2009 9:52 PM GMT
    Approach him- you will find out one way or the other if he is or isn't
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    Nov 08, 2009 9:55 PM GMT
    Grope him. If he punches you or reports you for sexual abuse he´s not interested. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 08, 2009 9:59 PM GMT
    Go for it. Its difficult to advise you on how to approach him or what to say........but you have to do SOMETHING! Maybe in his mind, he thinks he has already given you signals and YOU haven't responded.

    If he's not gay, or if he likes guys but it doesn't work out ( no mutual chemistry), are you willing to be friends and still like him because he is all those nice things you say he is?

    Be prepared for another possibility...that he just plain isn't interested and is just playing games with you and likes the attention.
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    Nov 08, 2009 10:14 PM GMT
    Make it easy on yourself and befriend him..... If the potential for more is there it will happen
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    Nov 09, 2009 12:09 AM GMT
    1 - make sure he knows youre gay
    2 - Ask him out for coffee, beer, movies u name it.
    3 - If he wants to hang out with you then its pretty obvious he likes you.
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    Nov 09, 2009 1:59 AM GMT
    The verdict is in! LOL icon_biggrin.gif I'm gonna sit closer to him tomorrow and try and strike some convo with him. If things turn out good, you guys will be the first to know icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 09, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]EENYC said

    Get some carrots and do exactly the same thing he did, and wait to see if he goes for the cucumber...Then you'd know what to do....[/quote]

    Best idea yet. He made you all stoopid with his celery, so now do the same to him with something......more colorful.
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    Nov 09, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    I have baby carrots and...drum roll...celery sticks!!! icon_biggrin.gif so which should i give oral sex to? lolicon_cool.gif
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    Nov 09, 2009 2:18 AM GMT
    sxynycguy saidI have baby carrots and...drum roll...celery sticks!!! icon_biggrin.gif so which should i give oral sex to? lolicon_cool.gif


    Don't use one of those skinny carrots sold in big packages at a supermarket. Get one of those big fat, irrgularly shaped fresh ones at a local farmers market. Or how about a shucked ear of corn? You can try a mango or an avocado, if you can get your mouth around it.
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    Nov 09, 2009 2:19 AM GMT
    KissingPro said[quote][cite]EENYC said

    Get some carrots and do exactly the same thing he did, and wait to see if he goes for the cucumber...Then you'd know what to do....


    Best idea yet. He made you all stoopid with his celery, so now do the same to him with something......more colorful.[/quote]



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    Nov 09, 2009 2:20 AM GMT
    ooh ooh i have big thick carrots! i know what i'll be taking now! lol
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    Nov 09, 2009 11:32 AM GMT
    Ask him if he'd do to your cock what he did with the celery. If he says yes, you're good to go.
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    Nov 09, 2009 11:54 AM GMT
    Tapper saidAsk him if he'd do to your cock what he did with the celery. If he says yes, you're good to go.
    WIN!
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    Nov 09, 2009 12:11 PM GMT
    Look at it this way..... the answer is no if you don't ask.
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    Nov 09, 2009 11:29 PM GMT
    Okay, so I ended up having a long ass talk with him and it was the most easy flowing, warm, gentle conversation I have ever had with a guy. He's amazingful icon_biggrin.gif He doesn't seem to be openly gay and he wants to take things slow and steady. Geez, he's amazing..hehe
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    Nov 09, 2009 11:37 PM GMT
    Just sit next to him sometime in class. be forward its fun! You'll find out for sure!
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    Nov 09, 2009 11:43 PM GMT
    thisisdoyle saidJust sit next to him sometime in class. be forward its fun! You'll find out for sure!


    Doyle, I'd sit next to you in class. And I'd totally help you with your music theory in my dorm room.
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    Nov 09, 2009 11:59 PM GMT
    sxynycguy saidOkay, so I ended up having a long ass talk with him and it was the most easy flowing, warm, gentle conversation I have ever had with a guy. He's amazingful icon_biggrin.gif He doesn't seem to be openly gay and he wants to take things slow and steady. Geez, he's amazing..hehe



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  • Webster666

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    Nov 10, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
    This is great.
    Good for you !