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Many of us are big RJ supporters. I think this is a great site and really enjoy it. We all get the usual stuff you get on gay sites, but here its limited
(I just don't IM at all) and the usual camming or phone bs is limited.

But odd things do happen as did this morning. Another Wichita RJ member in his 30's, nice looking guy (new to RJ) ( whom I don't know) messages me.

Title of message: Important

"Have you had sex with (insert name of local 19 year old member)?


No hello, no background or explanation, that was it.

I responded. "No" I've never met him.... or you either".

Gotta love how the internet has taken social etiquette out of social networking.

I wouldn't walk up to a stranger and ask if he/she has slept with so-and-so, neither will I do something like that online. Just because you can't hear my voice doesn't mean I should act like a neanderthal.

that´s what the block and delete buttons are for.

That's why I keep my RJ IM feature switched off. I did use the chat w/cam for a while, but it was always pretty much the same few guys. Nice enough fellas, but after a while it seemed we were covering old ground. Not to mention it being too much effort to keep the view of the office area behind me looking tidy for the cam all the time. LOL!

HndsmKansan saidMany of us are big RJ supporters. I think this is a great site and really enjoy it. We all get the usual stuff you get on gay sites, but here its limited
(I just don't IM at all) and the usual camming or phone bs is limited.

But odd things do happen as did this morning. Another Wichita RJ member in his 30's, nice looking guy (new to RJ) ( whom I don't know) messages me.

Title of message: Important

"Have you had sex with (insert name of local 19 year old member)?


No hello, no background or explanation, that was it.

I responded. "No" I've never met him.... or you either".

Do you want to have sex with the 19 year old?