If you were to die

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    Nov 12, 2009 10:12 PM GMT
    If you were to die, would whoever goes through your personal belongings be shocked by what they find?
  • DzanMason

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    Nov 12, 2009 10:16 PM GMT
    Nope... The dildo may shake them, but it shouldn't be much of a surprise.
  • drypin

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    Nov 12, 2009 10:42 PM GMT
    oh, if I weren't dead already, by husband would kill me for making him go through all my shit.

    He wouldn't be so much shocked as, "what the f*** did he hold onto THIS for!?"
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    Nov 13, 2009 12:09 AM GMT
    No there are no sex toys or anything like that. But I do joke about the sucker who will have to go though all of my stuff, as I have so much; just in white T/shirts, I must have about 50 white ones alone; albeit diffrent cuts.

    Thats only In my bedroom, I have all my art work, and collectibles too, and an office full of stuff as well, and we have a big house, and way over 50% of the stuff is mine.
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    Nov 13, 2009 12:10 AM GMT
    If they go on my laptop yes.
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    Nov 13, 2009 12:14 AM GMT
    It depends on who goes through my stuff!

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    Nov 13, 2009 12:28 AM GMT
    cupidshold saidIf they go on my laptop yes.


    You know what, even there I'm lucky, as I've put my life in writting, and anything I may of kept a secret, comes out in that. You know, it's a good feeling to be an open book.
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    Nov 13, 2009 12:35 AM GMT
    nope, everything is catalogued and assigned for distribution. nothing shocking to be found, maybe I should plant something icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:18 AM GMT
    Oh ya. The whole thread 'Opinions Wanted' thread that is on my hard drive would be a dead give-a-way.
  • DiverScience

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    Nov 13, 2009 1:21 AM GMT
    If they went through my hard drive, which my family probably would, then yes.
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:22 AM GMT
    Depends on who the person is.icon_biggrin.gif
  • bryjeepguy

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    Nov 13, 2009 1:23 AM GMT
    Yeah probably my family would end up going through my stuff, and that probably be very "interesting" both in the items I keep for fun times with guys and the files I keep on my computer, porn and self images icon_smile.gif.
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:25 AM GMT
    bryjeepguy saidYeah probably my family would end up going through my stuff, and that probably be very "interesting" both in the items I keep for fun times with guys and the files I keep on my computer, porn and self images icon_smile.gif.


    Which maybe I should cleanup things, put things in boxes labeled "Private (If something happens throw away without opening)" or something like that, or tell my friends if something does happen to presort things
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:33 AM GMT
    I am a trust and estate attorney in New York. I have gone through several of my deceased client's personal effects to remove anything that might be an embarrassment to the family. Most attorneys wouldn't bother to do that. I have come across some items and disposed of them. And the family never knows nor can I bill them for it.
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:33 AM GMT
    Well I'm not into pedophilia, bestiality, don't cheat on my taxes or my partner. Butt I do have alot of stuff and it will take FOREVER to go through and divide up..........
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:44 AM GMT
    I don't have nothing to hide. I am clean so does my roomicon_cool.gif
  • OptimusMatt

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    Nov 13, 2009 1:47 AM GMT
    I'm very 'smart-ass' with my family, so for them to discover I have like, 30 gigs of porn videos, well....it wouldn't be a surprise. I doubt they'd go through the vids so the fact that I've got a LOT of vids from TIM would be lost on them.

    Aside from the whooping amount of porn...there's nothing in my life I'm embaressed about, and nothing that would really shock anyone, other than the 40 year old bottle of scotch and the teddy bear I've had since I was born...but those are sentimental shocks, not 'what kind of person was he' shocks.

    Buttt...I'mma be young and pretty forever, I'm never going to die so really...non-issue icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 13, 2009 1:50 AM GMT
    i thought about this last week actually. knock on wood if anything happens to me i would hate for them to see all this stuff....My parents know im gay and cool with it but i got a black plastic garbage bag.. i tossed in all my porn ..all my HX magazines some gay pride posters my porn dvd collection which ranges from genres of bareback to uniform series....and male stripper catalogs...i also deleted all the photos from the laptop and computer..I just dont want my mommy to see that i was into whips and chains..will totally change her views of me.
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    Nov 13, 2009 2:12 AM GMT

    Anime, fashion briefs, some porn, 2 ipods loaded up with half songs that would out me if I wasn't out already and the other half that would lead a responsible person who didn't know better to believe I was Asian, cowboy drag, a memo book with tricks names in it, and more anime shouldn't shock anyone.

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    Nov 13, 2009 2:18 AM GMT
    it depends, if it was my big sister, she'd get a kick out of it, she'd find my porn collection and be watching it hahaha that's why she's getting my notebook when I die hahaha she'd have a hoot and think I was nothing but a deviant sex beast who liked some really far out stuff, which she already thinks I am anyway so it would just be a confirmation for her icon_biggrin.gif

    My brother, hmm, he'd be shocked but he wouldn't go through everything.

    friends wouldn't give a damn, gawd knows I know more about there sex life then they do!
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    Nov 13, 2009 2:20 AM GMT
    I seriously have nothing that everyone hasn't seen. Most of my friends have slept in my bed with me anyway, and they know that my lube is almost always proudly on display
  • bryjeepguy

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    Nov 13, 2009 2:21 AM GMT
    brandohsaurus saidI seriously have nothing that everyone hasn't seen. Most of my friends have slept in my bed with me anyway, and they know that my lube is almost always proudly on display


    Nice icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 13, 2009 2:31 AM GMT
    This thread makes me feel so boring. I have nothing to hide in my house... Just tons and tons of music, a collection of foreign films, clothes, and books on low-brow art, cooking, and running.

    No German porn (unless you count a copy of the film Irreversible), no drug paraphernalia, and no whips or sex toys.

    I am staying with my parents during this Nor'Easter (my house is a few blocks from the mouth of the Chesapeake Bay, so it floods around me), and I haved shocked them with the Danish movie trilogy, Pusher 1-3, and a Jay Brannan song where he sings "c*ck blocker." I think by now they kinda expect that stuff from me though.
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    Nov 13, 2009 2:38 AM GMT
    Memo book???
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    Nov 13, 2009 2:44 AM GMT
    Warning: Thread Derailment Ahead

    steltom saidMemo book???


    You have internet right now?
    I am on my BlackBerry. All the Cox stuff is out here (tv, phone, and internet).
    I am going stir crazy. I am extremely over this storm. I left my running gear behind, so I can't even use the treadmill.