What/who Turned You Gay?


  • Dec 22, 2007 4:08 AM GMT
    For me it started with being that cute lovable boy always in center of attention and the fact that i was thin and admiring the musc. boys cuz of wanting to b like them but changed into attraction plus that in highschool i was surrounded by mean girls that were f...ing ugly(for real they were, i still like super sexy girls) and so boys were cool and had fun with.one thing that always got things badly was that my friends were to say not that attractive as i was (still am ;))
    and were always left behind when meeting girls,so i started looking for good-looking friends and i guess it turn out diff. than i expected and of course a very important role had miss legendary Britney S.(explanation later on)
    Now your turn...
    Update: You ppl are so funny , you keep on saying you were born gay and give me examples that prove my theory.
    icon_smile.gif)) Love u though
    Update: ''it feels so good i don't wanna lose this feeling no matter what'', right?
    But u ain't gonna baby , relax cuz it's just destiny that ...
    Update i'm on mobile and tryin to keep it short and forgive misspelings ...
    Update: i'm here 4 u
    Update:You wish...
    Biologicaly speaking the male is created to ''mate(and b attracted by the oposite sex)''with a female, so Don't U think it's something more complex?because it is, so do not Deny an entire history of the human specie!!!
    P.S. Did i mention i was gay,i 'd almost forgot (gotta have sex now)
    Update : can you control yourself?
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    Dec 22, 2007 4:24 AM GMT
    Curiosity and a gorgeous guy at my old gym who made an offer i couldn't refuseicon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 22, 2007 4:55 AM GMT
    I believe I was born gay, tried to fight it my whole life and have finally accepted who I am and am out to everyone and living my life as me. I dont think everyone is born gay...maybe they become that way for one reason or another but I know I was born this way. I had a strong attraction for men as a young child before I even knew what sex was, but knew enough that my attraction was not "normal".
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    Dec 22, 2007 7:47 AM GMT
    I too believe I was born gay.
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    Dec 22, 2007 11:52 AM GMT
    I was definetly born gay!!
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    Dec 22, 2007 12:04 PM GMT
    I was a very slow leaner (and maturer) and knew nothing about sex, was the only male in an all female family. I guess I must have been about 18 when a buddy amd I went out rabbiting. Through the night we were talking about this, that and the other, and suddenly I was (very gently) being raped. And enjoyed it. I have not come out, as I believe that it's only my business, and although I've never had any partners, I woould (I think) enjoy a night or two. Possibly more. But these days it's a bit difficult with HIV etc. I think that I would rather just enjoy a bloke's company and talk or listen. I love music and books and so can fill in my time.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 22, 2007 12:54 PM GMT
    I was born gay and for me it felt right and very normal. That was never the issue. It was other closed minded people telling me that it wasn't.

    Thank GOD I always did what I wanted and never listened.

    Other wise I would had girl friend, I could never be with a woman just to prove something to someone else or live that kind of lie.

    I'm just talking about me. No anyone else, let me that clear before you guys blow a gasket!

    I'm not talking about you because I don't know you.

  • Dec 22, 2007 12:56 PM GMT
    bigmuscledone saidI was definetly born gay!!

    Yeah but what do u think about: ''There is always an explanation ''

  • Dec 22, 2007 1:04 PM GMT
    Ducky44 saidI was born gay ...

    And i'm not saying that being gay is good or bad,normal or not ,just saying that there Is one thing or another that lead to this. peace ;)
  • GQjock

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    Dec 22, 2007 1:05 PM GMT
    Can't remember ever being different
    I was gay before I even knew what sex was icon_smile.gif

  • Dec 22, 2007 1:39 PM GMT
    Ok so you say ''it's just the way i was'' but since that was the first ''option''(later to be considered) u were presented to ,due to the enviroment, From That Point You jujded what it is ''different or not''.


    P.S. Love is in the air
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    Dec 22, 2007 2:41 PM GMT
    I dont think things in your environment can "turn" you gay. I wonder if what you're really asking is "what happened to make you notice your attraction to dudes?"

    For me, when I was a kid my family belonged to a club, where we'd go every weekend and my parents would workout and my brothers and sisters and I would swim or play basketball or other sports. There was this older guy, Greg (he was probably about 25) and I thought he was the coolest dude ever, I know I even thought he was very good looking. Anyway, one day we had all been playing basketball, us kids, my parents and this guy and his friends. Afterwards I went into the showers with my dad and my brother. Greg was in there. I remember that my brother just rinsed off cause he was going swimming which left me and my dad and Greg in the shower. I can CLEARLY remember looking at his body and his dick and my dick getting rock hard. I dont think either of them noticed what I was looking at when I got hard, but eventually my dad noticed my boner.

    He kinda laughed and said "you know...if you snap the end of that thing it'll go down." The other guy laughed too. I know my face was red, but I snapped it a few times. It hurt but didnt go away.

    I dont remember what happened after that, but I do know I had my eye on Greg for a long time after that...
  • Salubrious

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    Dec 22, 2007 2:50 PM GMT
    I think tommysguns has it right. I doubt many people on this believe they were turned gay.

    For me, it would probably be my sitter that lived across the street. I think around this time he would have been in the his late teens early 20s. Anyways, he was a football player and marine, and I wouldn't say he was so much handsome ad he just had this allure around him. I was really drawn to him, and relished the time when he would come over, heh. I suppose it really hit home in high school back when I played football, when I had to hide my boner a few times in the locker room.
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    Dec 22, 2007 2:55 PM GMT
    If you rephrased the question, "When did you first start to realize...." you might get different responses.

    Like most of the other guys who've posted so far, I just am. When I first started to realize though was when I got a huge crush on a friend in 7th grade. Think Zach Morris from Saved by the Bell. I have consequently loved blonds ever since!
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    Dec 22, 2007 2:56 PM GMT
    Gigaram saidIf you rephrased the question, "When did you first start to realize...." you might get different responses.

    Like most of the other guys who've posted so far, I just am. When I first started to realize though was when I got a huge crush on a friend in 7th grade. Think Zach Morris from Saved by the Bell. I have consequently loved blonds ever since!


    Zach? Really? ew... heh.
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    Dec 22, 2007 3:04 PM GMT
    the devil made me do it
  • Salubrious

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    Dec 22, 2007 3:05 PM GMT
    McGay saidthe devil made me do it


    psh, I doubt he had to do much encouraging.
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    Dec 22, 2007 3:08 PM GMT
    He was a handsome devil.
  • Salubrious

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    Dec 22, 2007 3:12 PM GMT
    I won't lie, McGay, that one made me groan. You do have a way with puns.
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    Dec 22, 2007 3:15 PM GMT
    Turned gay? Didn't realize I had a choice in the matter.
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    Dec 22, 2007 3:36 PM GMT
    I am curious if, like Marcus and myself, all males with only female siblings turn out gay. Anyone know a straight guy who only has female siblings?
    But again, I feel I was born gay. I have always had a queer attachment to members of the male species since third grade!

  • Dec 22, 2007 3:39 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidI dont think things in your environment can "turn" you
    you don't but they do according to statistics on personality show that sociodemographical and historical factors affect ur sexuality.
    Why are far more gay people in Open-Minded countries than in the rest.It's a continously process of influencing.
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    Dec 22, 2007 3:46 PM GMT
    NWM-

    Yes I said I was born gay and I stand by that. Do you still have sex women and are you totally out?

    I'm having trouble undrstanding your point what are you saying?

    Oh the young????icon_rolleyes.gif
  • fryblock

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    Dec 22, 2007 3:54 PM GMT
    there are probably more gay people in open-minded countries because they are allowed to be out. who knows how many closet cases there are in the middle east.

  • Dec 22, 2007 4:04 PM GMT
    Dear tommyguns2000, what made GREG the coolest guy and compared to Whom? You see there is a cause for every effect.( I'm not tryin to''turn''no one to str8 or gay cuz i like u just the way u are;) )
    P.S. Well maybe str8 to gays ooops...