How do you guys find that

  • Quirky

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    Nov 18, 2009 7:33 PM GMT
    So after being here for a few weeks I've read some pretty crazy stuff. Guys fucking in closets, giving hand jobs in the back of the classroom, etc.

    My question is, how do you find the guys to do that with? Seriously, looking at most of yalls pictures, no one can tell you are gay. So when in the world outside of the bar/club how do y'all find guys who are also into guys bi, pan, or othersexual? Good gaydars, etc?
    And not to mention how gay the straight guy friends can act with each other.
    How do yall separate gay from gay-kidding-around straight etc?

    Being in high school, all the gay people here who are out are major queens and that is actually a turn off sexually for me. All the guys here who are of my taste are straight and I'm scared of making any sort of move unless im sure of the guy, which I'm not.
    Teenage boys act so gay, its confusing to tell when they are seriously hitting on you/giving you hints/acting on repressed feelings or just being funny guys. D:
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    Nov 18, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
    Do a quick search for any one of a billion threads on here about gaydar. Sometimes, you just 'know'.

    And really? You can't tell from our profile pictures? Kiddo, no straight man is as vain about his perfectly chiseled body (or as handy with photoshop) as us homosexicals. There's more cleavage on this site than in the Playboy archives.
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    Nov 18, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    Quirky saidSo after being here for a few weeks I've read some pretty crazy stuff. Guys fucking in closets, giving hand jobs in the back of the classroom, etc.

    My question is, how do you find the guys to do that with? Seriously, looking at most of yalls pictures, no one can tell you are gay. So when in the world outside of the bar/club how do y'all find guys who are also into guys bi, pan, or othersexual? Good gaydars, etc?
    And not to mention how gay the straight guy friends can act with each other.
    How do yall separate gay from gay-kidding-around straight etc?

    Being in high school, all the gay people here who are out are major queens and that is actually a turn off sexually for me. All the guys here who are of my taste are straight and I'm scared of making any sort of move unless im sure of the guy, which I'm not.
    Teenage boys act so gay, its confusing to tell when they are seriously hitting on you/giving you hints/acting on repressed feelings or just being funny guys. D:


    Go on a gay site like this or gay. com or manhunt or adam4adam, or LifeOut and you will find out who is gay in your area. icon_smile.gif I've met ALL my gay friends through these sites because I am not a gay bar guy. There's too many queens at the gay bars for my tastes.
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    Nov 18, 2009 9:52 PM GMT
    zdrew saidDo a quick search for any one of a billion threads on here about gaydar. Sometimes, you just 'know'.

    And really? You can't tell from our profile pictures? Kiddo, no straight man is as vain about his perfectly chiseled body (or as handy with photoshop) as us homosexicals. There's more cleavage on this site than in the Playboy archives.


    There's plenty of chiseled bodies on the str8 sites, too. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 18, 2009 9:54 PM GMT
    G_Force said
    zdrew saidDo a quick search for any one of a billion threads on here about gaydar. Sometimes, you just 'know'.

    And really? You can't tell from our profile pictures? Kiddo, no straight man is as vain about his perfectly chiseled body (or as handy with photoshop) as us homosexicals. There's more cleavage on this site than in the Playboy archives.


    There's plenty of chiseled bodies on the str8 sites, too. icon_smile.gif


    Well...ehmm...you got me there. But there's none of the subtle tongue-in-cheek self-deprecating wit!
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    Nov 18, 2009 9:57 PM GMT
    When you go on these gay sites, you may be pleasantly surprised that the guy at school whom you thought was str8 is not really so str8 at all. hehe
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    Nov 19, 2009 2:02 AM GMT
    I just searched RJ for members in Houston 18 to 30 years old - over 800 guys. Maybe you could start meeting guys for sports, training or other activities - if you get a bunch of guys together, eventually there will be sex.......................I've read.icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 19, 2009 2:22 AM GMT

    zdrew said

    Kiddo, no straight man is as vain about his perfectly chiseled body (or as handy with photoshop) as us homosexicals. There's more cleavage on this site than in the Playboy archives.


    I feel really targeted and really quite offended. cute bear emoticon Pictures, Images and Photos

    To the op, do you really want to be that guy? I remember in High School there was that sort, but they weren't respected, even by their tricks. Their tricks wouldn't even admit to have had anything to do with them.
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    Nov 19, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
    jawrhed saidI just searched RJ for members in Houston 18 to 30 years old - over 800 guys. Maybe you could start meeting guys for sports, training or other activities - if you get a bunch of guys together, eventually there will be sex.......................I've read.icon_smile.gif


    Brilliant! I'm developing a crush on jawrhed. I'm man enough to admit it.
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    Nov 19, 2009 6:21 AM GMT
    drypin said
    jawrhed saidI just searched RJ for members in Houston 18 to 30 years old - over 800 guys. Maybe you could start meeting guys for sports, training or other activities - if you get a bunch of guys together, eventually there will be sex.......................I've read.icon_smile.gif


    Brilliant! I'm developing a crush on jawrhed. I'm man enough to admit it.


    Aw shucks icon_redface.gif (I'm gettin' a budgy)
  • Quirky

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    Dec 03, 2009 2:22 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    zdrew said

    Kiddo, no straight man is as vain about his perfectly chiseled body (or as handy with photoshop) as us homosexicals. There's more cleavage on this site than in the Playboy archives.


    I feel really targeted and really quite offended. cute bear emoticon Pictures, Images and Photos

    To the op, do you really want to be that guy? I remember in High School there was that sort, but they weren't respected, even by their tricks. Their tricks wouldn't even admit to have had anything to do with them.


    All im saying is how do yall find another gay man, period. Not how do you find someone to fuck.
    In my high school the s8s act gay sometimes, yea its natural, but i cant help but feel attacted to a guy in the hallway.
    Now i ask how do yall go on finding out if they are gay/bi/whatev too?
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    Dec 04, 2009 11:57 AM GMT
    yes i also want to know that how you can get guys and what type of pleasure you find in them rather with girl
  • tajsreve

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    Dec 06, 2009 5:10 PM GMT
    The Problem is that there is no one single answer to your question. There is no way to tell you one single thing and/behavior will get a guy to reveal his sexuality. So there is Gaydar. It is not something learnable... it comes with experience. Even guys with the best Gaydar... have total failures in detection. The underlying problem is that people are fickle and like everyone else, if I am not interested in someone... I don't let on that I am gay.
    In your teen years it is the worst time when trying to figure it all out. Everyone is too busy worrying about what someone else thinks and trying to fit in.
    My suggestion at a way around this is to get to know the "flamers." Even though they may not be what your interested in, they are, in essence just one of the "gossipy girl" crowd. The girls talk to them about their experiences with guys at school. etc. etc. etc. The only drawback is that you have deal with what others think about your association with them. However, you will learn alot about who is doing what with whom, but what you do with that information will be up to you.
    One last thing that I can tell you is that you were asking how you go about finding guys to "play around" with. I can only tell you from personal experience that finding someone to play around with (gay, bi, straight or otherwise) is not a matter of sexual orientation... (not in the teen years anyway) Most gay men can tell you about their sexual escapades and how much fun they have, but what you're not hearing is that these fun times were purely sexual. They are 90% of the time not relationship material. just sex. In high school, gays who are not "out," not sexually aggressive, and/or not willing to take risks with their reputations never have these experiences. I have lots of these experiences to tell, but I also paid a price for some of them. Some of the prices were pretty high, and some were worth every minute... but not one of them ever evolved into a relationship.