collegemuscleboi saidHow do you spot a straight-acting guy. 3 really hot guys stare at me today at the gym, not after leaving that I have realized they are checking me out. I thought they are straight so I did not look back, cuz it will weird if some straight guy thinks I'm hitting on him. Now, what should I do?
Think they might have been straight as you initially guessed, and were staring because they were wondering if you're gay? What made you "realize" they were checking you out in a gay sense? It might be wiser to not do anything regarding them right now, until you have actual proof they're gay, too, and really interested.
My ex-BF let himself get tangled up with a gym guy who at first claimed he was gay and so they dated, then the guy turned around and said being gay was a sin & perversion. He reported untrue stories to the Y management about my ex and other men fondling him in the naked hot tub, and got them all suspended while an investigation was done.
They eventually got reinstated, while their accuser got tossed out. I judge gym cruising a high-risk proposition, unless the place is known to have a high gay membership, like my current one happens to have.