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Some douche nozzle who got upset over something I said in a thread (imagine that) is now sending me messages (sometimes not entirely coherent), and telling me how stupid and ordinary I am. I suppose this is his way of hurting me. I'd block him, but comments like "your name is dime a dozen" are far too entertaining to lose out on. No, my name is not "dime a dozen," it's "dancerjack." Actually it's Miss Jackson, if you're nasty.

But I digress: What is the most entertaining piece of hatemail you've gotten on here? I don't mean, which is the cruellest or ugliest... but which is the one that made you actually laugh out loudest?

For me it was the random email I got about a year ago from someone I'd never seen before that said, "Your body is hot, but your penga is too small." (http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/452395/) I remember telling y'all about that, and then a flame war broke out about the spelling of "dick" in Spanish (pinga/penga). I have to say... THAT was the funniest piece of hatemail I've gotten here (the randomness of the message, the content, and then people's responses).

There was a topic quite a while back and about names gay people call each other. We said some guys call each other fag. We don't.

Then we got this ape-drool:

"old dickhead....calling each other faggots IS WRONG and you are just another ignorant old pgay piece of shit! "

...the sender has since disappeared off the face of RJ.

omg... someone actually took the time to type and send that? i'm sorry. if it's any consolation, i don't think many people here think of you in that way AT ALL

Well, you're important anyway..... being cybestalked just means you have attained a new level of importance to someone. Still it sucks... sorry you have to deal with the smear.

For whatever it's worth, I'm getting some fascinating correspondence from an RJ member who is not necessarily stalking me, but thinks I am a douche-nozzle because I took offense to something absolutely repulsive he said about my pets. Now he simply can't miss an opportunity to tell people that he once thought I was such a nice guy but now he has since realized that I am just another horrible, self-righteous fag on this website... especially when I disagree with his words and teh way he puts them out there for everyone to trip over.

Ah well... I maybe have it coming to me. I haven't always been sweetness and light myself.

I thought getting stalked meant you had a guy constantly showing up in your "recently viewed me" section. I've got about 5-10 of those. But you're dealing with legitimate stalking. No bueno.

I clearly remember a total psychopath in the chat rooms who called me a bunch of names, threatened to kick my ass (lmfao - good luck with that).

He then called one of the black guys in the chat room who was not even saying anything to him a "nigger."

This same guy was banned no less than six times.

Screwing with him became a sport, but due to the threats from this guy and other nutcases on here I removed my face pics from public view.

I recommend anyone on here make their face pics private for that reason. It's an open community, and anyone can join.

I hope I never read an article about The RealJock Murderer. After careful consideration, I no longer screw with nutcases. I decided to let them take their nutcasery elsewhere.

There have also been a number of youngsters on here, including in the chat room. Three of them so far have confessed that they are under 18. I always have them removed immediately.

Have fun. Be safe.

(1) The spelling is pinga. Penga is a mishearing. No literate spanish speaker will disagree

(2) I was accused yesterday of being American, which, apparently, is a really terrible thing. There were a number of emails, each more amusing than the last from Jetsetter, who, it turns out, despite his thread bemoaning the low cultural levels on RJ, was able to say more than that he liked Annie Get Your Gun and fashion when I tried to engage him in conversation. So not your stereotypical gay then....

lol ThelStrat, are you mixing up stalking with admiration?

(to everyone else; no it's not us)

dancerjack saidSome douche nozzle who got upset over something I said in a thread (imagine that) is now sending me messages (sometimes not entirely coherent), and telling me how stupid and ordinary I am. I suppose this is his way of hurting me. I'd block him, but comments like "your name is dime a dozen" are far too entertaining to lose out on. No, my name is not "dime a dozen," it's "dancerjack." Actually it's Miss Jackson, if you're nasty.

But I digress: What is the most entertaining piece of hatemail you've gotten on here? I don't mean, which is the cruellest or ugliest... but which is the one that made you actually laugh out loudest?

For me it was the random email I got about a year ago from someone I'd never seen before that said, "Your body is hot, but your penga is too small." (http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/452395/) I remember telling y'all about that, and then a flame war broke out about the spelling of "dick" in Spanish (pinga/penga). I have to say... THAT was the funniest piece of hatemail I've gotten here (the randomness of the message, the content, and then people's responses).

Jack, you're not alone. I get hate mail regularly. I wear it proudly :-)

Psst.. It's how they let you know they like you.

Nothing funnier than a resentful queen lashing out at others for their own failures upon rejection.

7 BILLION folks in the world, and some weirdo picked you. You are special.

I don't get hate mail...yet. I have had real life stalkers that started online and somehow they end up meeting me in person, etc. There were maybe two serious issues about stalking a couple of years ago so I guess I am really cautious in meeting people. The ones recently have been very mild, and maybe even humorous, but at some point their actions really are kind of disturbing to me.

In terms of nice emails, I get some from meninlove, sahem62896, and another guy that I am not going to mention here. And I am not stalking him! It just so happens we like each other but he is far away. :-( Although I wouldn't mind stalking someone I liked, I'm just too lazy.

If I do get hatemail I just ignore it and the issue goes away. It is a very long story, but my sister started to receive hate mail from someone online earlier this year and it basically got her fired from her job because she sent not-so-nice responses back(and it was not on a company email account).

I've never once received real honest hate-mail. It makes my heart hurt.

But really, dancerjack, you're got a polarizing personality...and I'm guessing the good it brings far outweighs the bad.

I've never gotten hate-mail on here...but there are plenty of people in and around Detroit that are not my biggest fans. They tend to point that out if/when they see me at the bar, restaurants, ect.

Wouldn't making this thread make you feel better by declaring openly (especially for him to see) your lack of care for his insults, which consequently and inferentially insult him in return?

I don't get a lot of hate mail because I'm way too sweet ^_^

A guy I dated and dumped because he cyberstalked me, and constantly accused me of things that were beyond what a rational mind could dream up, had finally gone silent for about 6 months. Then one of my dogs died. (It was a profoundly sad moment for me and I got a lot of great support here on RJ.)

He saw that I was getting supportive comments here and sent me an email telling me that my dog probably hated me and didn't deserve to have me as his owner, and other such imbecilic statements that it actually made me laugh for the first time in days. The attempt to hurt me was so lame and immature that it read like a joke. I even remember sharing the email with a number of people at the time because I didn't think anyone would believe me if I only told them about it.

Would this be considered? I received several until I blocked him

Not that I ever threatend him. I think I was standing up for JPrichva at the time

From:Football1988
To:Blackguy4you
Subject:that is fine
Date:Sep 09, 2009 at 8:35 PM
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But I will turn you in for threatening me, you nigger bitch. BYE.

Travelstud aka exiled aka his current reincarnation of Jetsetter99-
the poster who doesn't like anything american. made the following remark to me this thread. He also heaped some abuse on others IRRC

Posted this in one of the threads to me

"Blackguy4you - perhaps you should change your name to DumbN4you - now if you are really smart you would know what that means....but if you still don't get it then you really are a ....Dumb... u know what.....LOL."

http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/623109/

dancerjack saidI'd block him, but comments like "your name is dime a dozen" are far too entertaining to lose out on. No, my name is not "dime a dozen," it's "dancerjack."

Dancerjack is a common name. I moan it at least a dozen times a night while masturbating.

And seemingly not content, he then followed up his post in the thread with the following email to me'

"From:travelstud
To:Blackguy4you
Subject:Somewhat of a Subject
Date:Aug 14, 2009 at 8:55 PM
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"Blackguy4you - perhaps you should change your name to DumbN4you - now if you are really smart you would know what that means....but if you still don't get it then you really are a ....Dumb... u know what.....LOL.

I am a european citizen by birth - and your stupidity shines through - when I read statistics about why Blacks in the US are economically and socially backward - I sometimes think is it because of history and their past in the US?? Or is it something else only.... historically a lot of races were mistreated not just blacks - most of Asia was treated badly - but look where Asia has come now - and look where Africa still is. Take another example of Asians in the US - asian neighborhoods are not crime ridden gorforsaken dangerous places to go.... are they?? Asian kids are not having the highest HIV rates or reproducing endless babies from the age of 14??? Rather they are the brightest, most successful and hardworking people... and don't keep pulling out the Race card like you blacks do at every little thing.... oh my gawwdd they made a black doll and called it a monkey... OMG... a black professor was arrested by a white cop... OMG... I am so hot but no one looks at me cuz I am black.... ---- these are just a few of the examples of self-degrading posts i've seen by Blacks just on this website and you are a big part of them - if I do a search there's a lot more. Sorry someone just needs to tell you people where you are wrong!!!

You may claim that USA is your country but fact is - it is not... as much as you wannabe part of the American dream - you will always be looked at as an outsider in America - someone who should have moved to Libya long ago.

Now piss off ......puhleaze!!!!!"

Can't say that I ever got in any yet. prolly because I put out the flame when they ignite and keep it movin. Who has time for that noise. It really is a bunch of noise.

The other thing is there is nothing that anyone of this site can say to personally in attack mode that would affect me because they don't know me.

From:teddyb209
To:Blackguy4you
Subject:Re:
Date:Jul 28, 2009 at 9:44 PM
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your lost black fag fuckin bitch

---- FROM Blackguy4you Jul 28, 2009 at 7:43 PM
thanks, but I have no interest.

best of luck. peace

---- FROM teddyb209 Jul 28, 2009 at 7:37 PM
turn on your im and let me cam you big daddy
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well they don't bother me. i just find it terribly amusing that someone can get so worked up over strangers

I dont think Ive gotten enough attention to have any hate mail thrown my way....but I welcome it.

Soulasphyxi saidWouldn't making this thread make you feel better by declaring openly (especially for him to see) your lack of care for his insults, which consequently and inferentially insult him in return?

I don't get a lot of hate mail because I'm way too sweet ^_^

bingo