I just told my mom I like Boys... and I don't know what happened. :shock: (rewritten so you guys can understand it sorry I was drunk)

  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Nov 20, 2009 9:40 PM GMT
    Okay I told my mom I like boys and She was like.... DUH and I was shocked. I thought she was going to like slap me and yell and get all crazy. I had all was going to say to her ready but I was left in shock kind of. But Its a good thing that she was cool with it.
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:44 PM GMT
    Try again when you're not tipsy.
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa saidTry again when you're not tipsy.



    Believe me she wasn't drunk she knows we were watching sex and the city when I told her she I can tell she wasn't happy but she didn't miss a beat.
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:50 PM GMT
    hahah when I told my mum she was so relaxed about it that I didn´t even get the "I still love you hug"... it was more like "yeah I know, but why did you tell me today.. it´s been really busy and my feet hurt"... I guess that´s good. My Dad was hyper relaxed too. My brother said he was glad for me.

    Some people are cool... what can i say?
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    She's probably known for years.. but sit her down and have a bit of a serious talk and make sure she remembers the discussion...
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    Red_Vespa saidTry again when you're not tipsy.



    Believe me she wasn't drunk she knows we were watching sex and the city when I told her she I can tell she wasn't happy but she didn't miss a beat.

    I meant when YOU'RE not tipsy. Maybe she just dismissed your declaration as the bottle talking.

    In any case, a worthwhile discussion should be conducted when sober, on a matter this important. You say alcohol helped you to tell her. OK, now she knows, maybe. Any further talk deserves clear minds.
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:54 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidhahah when I told my mum she was so relaxed about it that I didn´t even get the "I still love you hug"... it was more like "yeah I know, but why did you tell me today.. it´s been really busy and my feet hurt"... I guess that´s good. My Dad was hyper relaxed too. My brother said he was glad for me.

    Some people are cool... what can i say?



    Yeah I'm like can I get a slap in the face at least I need some reaction I've need torturing myself for years. I was expecting a execution
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    Nov 20, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidShe's probably known for years.. but sit her down and have a bit of a serious talk and make sure she remembers the discussion...



    yeah good idea. I will make sure she remembers.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:01 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    Red_Vespa saidTry again when you're not tipsy.



    Believe me she wasn't drunk she knows we were watching sex and the city when I told her she I can tell she wasn't happy but she didn't miss a beat.

    I meant when YOU'RE not tipsy. Maybe she just dismissed your declaration as the bottle talking.

    In any case, a worthwhile discussion should be conducted when sober, on a matter this important. You say alcohol helped you to tell her. OK, now she knows, maybe. Any further talk deserves clear minds.



    No I told her about this gay kid that took advantage of me and I told her he wasn't my type and she asked me so are you Bi and I said yeah I am
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:18 PM GMT
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:19 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidhahah when I told my mum she was so relaxed about it that I didn´t even get the "I still love you hug"... it was more like "yeah I know, but why did you tell me today.. it´s been really busy and my feet hurt"... I guess that´s good. My Dad was hyper relaxed too. My brother said he was glad for me.

    Some people are cool... what can i say?


    yeah I'm happy that my mom is cool about it now I wonder how my dad is going to react he's in Iraq so idk how he will react... but I know my mom is going to tell him.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:19 PM GMT
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    haha how? well ask me and I'll break it down for you.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:26 PM GMT
    Well when I told my mom that I was not really attracted to women she took it very personal and said to me...."Johnny, I know you have never liked me and had issues with me." I said mom...this is NOT about you. I am NOT attracted to women sexually!!

    She still thinks I hate her. Why are women like this? They are so emotional and it is gross. If I hate anything it's the barbie attitude they have. So to bad. I am not into pussy anymore.....HA!

    A mom should just be there when you need them. Unfortunately mine was not and it changed how she feels about me. I guess now I really do not like my own mom any more....Sad...but now true!
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:27 PM GMT
    theantijock saidShe's known every since that lederhosen incident.



    Shut up LOL I live in Germany so that doesn't even count maybe it was the gay porn she found on the comp... but I'm sure she has known but still you know?
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:27 PM GMT
    Dude, it's all good. Obviously your mom already figured it out, so she had already accepted it and was not surprised. Moms are good for that.

    My mom was pretty much the same way when I came out, kind of like, "well duh". It completely surprised me, because I shocked everyone else I came out to.. I just don't act gay and nobody suspected except mom. Moms tend to have a really good insight into their kids, at least mine did.

    Sorry you were expecting some kind of major reaction and were disappointed, but honestly you should feel happy that it was no big deal to her.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:30 PM GMT
    Mystic_Man saidWell when I told my mom that I was not really attracted to women she took it very personal and said to me...."Johnny, I know you have never liked me and had issues with me." I said mom...this is NOT about you. I am NOT attracted to women sexually!!

    She still thinks I hate her. Why are women like this? They are so emotional and it is gross. If I hate anything it's the barbie attitude they have. So to bad. I am not into pussy anymore.....HA!

    A mom should just be there when you need them. Unfortunately mine was not and it changed how she feels about me. I guess now I really do not like my own mom any more....Sad...but now true!


    Yeah my mom told me before that she would not accept a fag for a son but now she's totally chill... and I'm sorry about you and your mom... remember there is always time to fix relationships.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:31 PM GMT
    bryanhard saidDude, it's all good. Obviously your mom already figured it out, so she had already accepted it and was not surprised. Moms are good for that.

    My mom was pretty much the same way when I came out, kind of like, "well duh". It completely surprised me, because I shocked everyone else I came out to.. I just don't act gay and nobody suspected except mom. Moms tend to have a really good insight into their kids, at least mine did.

    Sorry you were expecting some kind of major reaction and were disappointed, but honestly you should feel happy that it was no big deal to her.



    Haha yeah I guess I was expecting the world to end. And she asked brought up my sexuality before but I just denied it.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:32 PM GMT
    Agreed with Bryanhard that you should be happy. I wish my mom reacted like that...

    Mystic_Man said
    A mom should just be there when you need them. Unfortunately mine was not and it changed how she feels about me. I guess now I really do not like my own mom any more....Sad...but now true!


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    Nov 20, 2009 10:32 PM GMT
    some people are not immediately expressive, she might need time to mull things over and see how she feels about it.

    Give her a little time (a day at most) and then broach the subject again.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:34 PM GMT
    Well, I can see how it's sort of anticlimactic. You get yourself all worked up to deal with whatever she throws at you... and then it's just, "okay".
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:35 PM GMT
    BronzeChew saidAgreed with Bryanhard that you should be happy. I wish my mom reacted like that...

    Mystic_Man said
    A mom should just be there when you need them. Unfortunately mine was not and it changed how she feels about me. I guess now I really do not like my own mom any more....Sad...but now true!


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    Yeah I know I should be happy but I'm just hoping it lasts and doesn't like come back to bite me in the ass.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:36 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidsome people are not immediately expressive, she might need time to mull things over and see how she feels about it.

    Give her a little time (a day at most) and then broach the subject again.


    I'm going to bring it up again in the Morning since I have to take me sister to Cheer camp I'll talk to my mom in the car.
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:37 PM GMT
    drypin saidWell, I can see how it's sort of anticlimactic. You get yourself all worked up to deal with whatever she throws at you... and then it's just, "okay".



    YEAH! and I didn't even gat an Okay it was just kind of like "so you like dick".
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:43 PM GMT
    theantijock saidShe's known every since that lederhosen incident.

    Gott im Himmel, der Lederhosenvorfall! Why did you have to bring THAT up, just when things were getting back to normal, and memories fading?
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    Nov 20, 2009 10:45 PM GMT
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    theantijock saidShe's known every since that lederhosen incident.

    Gott im Himmel, der Lederhosenvorfall! Why did you have to bring THAT up, just when things were getting back to normal, and memories fading?



    haha she bought it for me lol