Nov 22, 2009 5:58 PM GMT
How many of you have been in a relationship where one of you is unemployed?
My boyfriend is getting increasingly anxious and depressed since this past January because he still can't find a job! Last year he graduated from college with honors and has an impressive job history with excellent recommendations from his previous employers, but even so he still have not been able to find employment!! but that is not all, there seems to be an added dilemma he seems to be dealing with more lately!!
When we first met he was already unemployed, we felt in love, and have been together ever since!! but lately he is worry that I will eventually leave him or get tired of him because he fears I may see him as a looser or that he is a burden on me! I reassured him those thoughts had never crossed my mind, and that I love him for the person that he is and because he makes me happy, and furthermore I don't put a price tag on the people I love!
I don't know what else to tell him to make him feel better? and I sure don't want to loose him!! any good advise or words of encouragement welcome!
♥ Leandro ♥
My boyfriend is getting increasingly anxious and depressed since this past January because he still can't find a job! Last year he graduated from college with honors and has an impressive job history with excellent recommendations from his previous employers, but even so he still have not been able to find employment!! but that is not all, there seems to be an added dilemma he seems to be dealing with more lately!!
When we first met he was already unemployed, we felt in love, and have been together ever since!! but lately he is worry that I will eventually leave him or get tired of him because he fears I may see him as a looser or that he is a burden on me! I reassured him those thoughts had never crossed my mind, and that I love him for the person that he is and because he makes me happy, and furthermore I don't put a price tag on the people I love!
I don't know what else to tell him to make him feel better? and I sure don't want to loose him!! any good advise or words of encouragement welcome!
♥ Leandro ♥