Has anybody met their / a soul mate through an online site?

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    Nov 23, 2009 4:26 AM GMT
    Just wondering if it's possible.
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    Nov 23, 2009 5:31 AM GMT
    Yes it sure is. Not us, but people we know on here. We'll tell them about your topic and perhaps they'll tell you themselves. icon_wink.gif
  • Melos

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    Nov 23, 2009 5:33 AM GMT
    Yup, met my bf on this site late June of last year and have been together for over a year now. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 23, 2009 5:40 AM GMT
    Melos saidYup, met my bf on this site late June of last year and have been together for over a year now. icon_biggrin.gif


    is your bf your soul mate?
  • drypin

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    Nov 23, 2009 5:41 AM GMT
    It wasn't online, but we met through a penpal organization... while not looking for partners. 14 years later, still going strong.
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    Nov 23, 2009 5:43 AM GMT
    just past 10 months on the 17th of this month and i love him more than ever before. I can't see my life without him at this point.

    So yea, i think that makes it a yes for me too.
  • MercuryMax

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    Nov 23, 2009 5:53 AM GMT
    aawwww u guys.....its so sweeeeeticon_redface.gif
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    Nov 23, 2009 5:56 AM GMT
    I wouldnt mind meeting someone off of realjock
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    Nov 23, 2009 5:58 AM GMT
    I've met some really good friends that I feel were meant to be in my life and they mean the world to me. Soul mates in that sense, yes.

    Still single, though
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    Nov 23, 2009 6:09 AM GMT
    yes, I have met special people online. I went out on my first date with a guy when I was 14, he was 22 back then and we are still very good friends. I don't know if he is my soulmate but he could easily be the best guy for me.
  • UncleverName

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    Nov 23, 2009 6:34 AM GMT
    My partner and I met through Lavalife's gay website.
    Are we soul mates? I'd say yes, as much as anyone can be the soul mate of anyone else.
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    Nov 23, 2009 6:34 AM GMT
    You could say that... might my now husband on an internet site about 9 years ago. It can happen!
  • MercuryMax

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    Nov 23, 2009 6:38 AM GMT
    fulldelight saidyes, I have met special people online. I went out on my first date with a guy when I was 14, he was 22 back then and we are still very good friends. I don't know if he is my soulmate but he could easily be the best guy for me.


    you were 14 and he was 22? lol....creepy but I admit when I was about 15 or so I was talkin to a 29yr old that live in TN.......
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    Nov 23, 2009 6:43 AM GMT
    I met my soul mate online...He is fantastic!
  • Melos

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    Nov 23, 2009 6:58 AM GMT
    Blondizgd said
    Melos saidYup, met my bf on this site late June of last year and have been together for over a year now. icon_biggrin.gif


    is your bf your soul mate?


    As close to it as I've ever met. Our interests are 95% the same (only difference I can think of off the top of my head is music and tv shows), we have very similar personalities and outlooks on life. In the time we've been together we still have yet to have our first fight.
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    Nov 23, 2009 11:39 AM GMT
    Jeez....

    Don't you ever watch see all those eHarmoney ads, or do you have TIVO?
  • DamienUltra

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    Nov 23, 2009 12:25 PM GMT
    js wondering tha same. I meet frogs my fireinds 2.bet its possibleicon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
  • DamienUltra

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    Nov 23, 2009 12:25 PM GMT
    js wondering tha same. I meet frogs my fireinds 2.bet its possibleicon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 23, 2009 12:39 PM GMT
    Nope - did it the old fashion way icon_smile.gif But then again Al Gore hadn't quite worked out the bugs on the internet he invented!
  • Akula

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    Nov 23, 2009 2:13 PM GMT
    Met my husband on gay.com he is my soul mate and we've been togeather almost 10 years now.
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    Nov 23, 2009 2:34 PM GMT
    Met my BF on the OLD Aol..years ago...12 years ago actually...we are very much soul mates.

    Would like to add though, someone mentioned shared interests as a criteria for soul mate.

    My partner and only share a few similar interests, what we do share is a similar value system. It is my contention that a value based relationship is one that has greater longevity than a system based on shared interests...that said, the two are not always mutually exclusive.

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    Nov 23, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    I don't know if I subscribe to the idea of a "soul mate", I'd like to think that there are multiple people out there who fulfill different needs at different times of my life. That said, if I were to believe in a soul mate, I'd say "Yes, I met him online."
    We were together for six years, he is still my best friend. When I look at him it still makes me want to be a better person. When I'm with him I'm calm and feel safe and understood. He is still the only person I can confide the crazy workings of my monkey mind and the fears and insecurities that roll around up there and there are many!
    Being separated from him has made me love him all the more because its shown me the real depth of his character and made painfully apparent what a stellar human he really is... and what I had to give up.
    By merely existing he makes me a better person and I met him online. I aspire to love and respect someone as much as I have loved and respected him for over 8 years. No one has ever loved me without condition the way he does...

    I don't know if that's a "soul mate" but it's something pretty fucking special... and I'd be lost in life without him. Thank god for gay.com that funky ass site brought me him.
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    Nov 23, 2009 2:53 PM GMT
    YES…He had me at “view profile”
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    Nov 23, 2009 3:11 PM GMT
    Don't believe in soul mates but I met my BF online while neither of us were looking for anything romantic (I was in another relationship at the time). Even though I don't like the term soul mate, my BF and I are as close to it as the come. Several years ago met another BF online and we dated for over a year. Definitely not soul mates. So it's possible!
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    Nov 23, 2009 3:21 PM GMT
    Yup i met mine through a site that is not so recommendable for true love...