victor8 saidwant to hear your expience on this....i get hit on by lots of youner guys...i like that...but would ultimately enjoy dating a guy around my age...but most guys in my peer group seem uninterested and are chasing young tail...i admit to being a bit guilty too...but i do aproach guys my age and generally get nowhere...opimions...advise...agree...disagree
I was dating a lot when I was exactly your age. And I had a "5-up, 5-down" rule about age, not at all interested in "youngsters" or senior citizens, which I have subsequently become myself.
I don't know what Palm Springs offers you for age peers, but you imply chasing young tail takes a lot of them off the market. Foolish guys! Don't they know the best is their own generation?
What attracts me about a guy is compatibility, and that tends to follow generational lines. It's best for me when we both grew up with the same cultural reference points, the same movies, TV, music and so forth. I can't even understand the vocabulary of young kids, even if they have great bodies. I simply can't relate to them at all.
Perhaps your key is relating to your own age group, and getting them to relate to you. Persuade them that depth is more attractive than shallowness. Offer them something the kids can't: nostalgia and familiarity. Give them the warm & cozy feeling of their own youth, and maybe they won't go off chasing someone else's youth.