Never had this said to me.

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    Nov 25, 2009 5:15 AM GMT
    I was at a gay get together this week and got introduced to this really great looking group of white guys. As soon as I started being introduced, one of those dudes told me "Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".
    I am normally strong about these kinds of things, but for the first time, i felt just flat out ugly...
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    Nov 25, 2009 5:17 AM GMT
    this is what the back of your hand is for sweety...
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    Nov 25, 2009 5:22 AM GMT
    AggieBoy saidI was at a gay get together this week and got introduced to this really great looking group of white guys. As soon as I started being introduced, one of those dudes told me "Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".
    I am normally strong about these kinds of things, but for the first time, i felt just flat out ugly...


    Why would you feel ugly in the presence a bunch of bigot white country boys? if you held your composure and just walked away you probably make them feel really ugly, and rightfully so!!


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    Nov 25, 2009 5:42 AM GMT
    The perfect opportunity for you to be a smart ass, if you ask me.
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    Nov 25, 2009 5:49 AM GMT
    What an asshole! what a queen! Ugh! It's so hard to know what to do in a situation like that - I confess that throwing a punch to the gut is my first impulse ( but it's just an impulse, ok? ) U could get charged with aussalt/battery - so - since it's a gay gathering you could throw a drink in his face ( he should probably get used to that sort of thing anyway ) -

    What kind of party was this? A 1950's sorority theme maybe? Houston - oh brother! Are they in the same time warp as Louisiana?
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    Nov 25, 2009 6:31 AM GMT

    White guy- Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind.

    You- It's okay, I was kinda nervous coming over here anyways ya know. I never met quasi moto before.

    (if he were to say)


    White guy- Excuse me?! or ha your funny (in a sarcastic way) or say aww hell naw( doubt it)

    You-well, I see you don't have your circus balls with you so I guess I'm going to leave. Have a nice night icon_wink.gif

    ( If he were to try to say something back, ignore him after that. It usually gets under peoples skin)

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    Nov 25, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    I forgot to mention, YOU'RE NOT UGLY ahahah ohh plzz, Bitchez just be crazy


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    Nov 25, 2009 7:14 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidThe perfect opportunity for you to be a smart ass, if you ask me.

    ^I agree with this. If someone said that to me, I would have a few choice words with the guy.
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    Nov 25, 2009 8:26 AM GMT

    I have a favorite image I like to apply to all gay men.

    ................judgemental queens

    This way if they find favor in me, I'm much obliged. And if they turn up their nose and say "You're NOKD (not our kind, dear)"...I remain but a humble servant.
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    Nov 25, 2009 8:33 AM GMT
    I'm speechless AggieBoy,

    That someone, no matter what their feelings, would have the gall to insult you like that without having even met you before, just shames me as a human being.

    Shake off their hate and bigotry, because it's only their lives that should be diminished because of it, not yours. And count yourself fortunate that they had the "courtesy" of letting you know what perfect cunts they are upfront... saved you the trouble of wasting another precious second of your life on them.
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    Nov 25, 2009 9:05 AM GMT
    WOw. Definitely time for use of the word "cunt". What did the guy who was introducing you say? If it had been me the white boy in question would have been flayed alive. I´m not sure if anyone has noticed, but I can be rather straightforward with my use of language

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    Then I would have talked about him in Spanish to his face and laughed as I did so.
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    Nov 25, 2009 9:30 AM GMT
    I was just reading a bit on racism within the gay community. I think it was on 365gay.com...I don't remember, but anyway, I had to bring up the difference
    between prejudice and preference.

    because of "P.C.ness" people have stopped making distinctions between stuff like that.

    Sorry, I know this doesn't make you feel better, but maybe...maybeeeee...it came out wrong and what he meant was he and his friends only date other white guys, and maybe they thought you were looking to hook up?...mayyybeeeee?
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    Nov 25, 2009 9:36 AM GMT
    Wow... "your kind"... Does he realize what kind he is? A kind that is much more "acceptable" to "not mingle with" in this society. The Gay kind.
    I'm sure he knows how that feels in Texas.

    I hope you fucking peeled out in the lawn on your way out. And grabbed as much free booze as possible.
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    Nov 25, 2009 9:40 AM GMT
    wachwurd saidI was just reading a bit on racism within the gay community. I think it was on 365gay.com...I don't remember, but anyway, I had to bring up the difference
    between prejudice and preference.

    because of "P.C.ness" people have stopped making distinctions between stuff like that.

    Sorry, I know this doesn't make you feel better, but maybe...maybeeeee...it came out wrong and what he meant was he and his friends only date other white guys, and maybe they thought you were looking to hook up?...mayyybeeeee?


    A) To assume someone walking up to you in a party is looking to "hook up" is flat out disrespectful.
    B) To tell someone they wouldn't hookup with them because of their race is flat out disrespectful.
    C) Flat out disrespectful.

    There is no justification.

    Even IF that were the case... do you tell every person you choose not to have sex with the reason why? You'd spend a lot of time saying "Sorry, I know we're working out at the same gym, but I'm not gonna fuck you because you're probably straight and we've never met". Etc etc etc.

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    Nov 25, 2009 12:33 PM GMT
    jawrhed said What kind of party was this? A 1950's sorority theme maybe? Houston - oh brother! Are they in the same time warp as Louisiana?


    Hard to believe. I've lived in Houston most of my life and never seen anything like this. Maybe there was some ironic twist or clumsy attempt at humor that didn't come out right?

    But whatever issues we may have in Houston we're still in a different century from Louisiana.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:05 PM GMT
    lol, how about this?

    The guy,"Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".

    You reply, "Mind reader, I was just thinking that." icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:12 PM GMT
    WTF? Yeah it kinda made me feel sick reading it just now. Whoever you know that has them as friends, dump his ass.
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:12 PM GMT
    Maybe I'm the only one here but I'd have picked a fight with the guy, not a fist to fist one but a verbal and mental one, just flat out in front of him and everyone, make a total scene and make every feel how wrong that was and make and show him that he is a total fucking loser and should step in front of a bus icon_twisted.gif

    But that's just me, I've had that happen before and let me tell you I had soo much fun at his expense when I see him in person now he avoids me lol oh it's such fun making them look like the trash they are. icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:45 PM GMT
    That would have required a response of some thing like ' Thats OK sweetie I don't date outside my species and cro magnon is outside my species"
    My bf had a similar experience down in SF a couple years ago some of the meds he's on has made him gain some weight and he was out with 2 friends just having fun and some fucking prissy queen turns to him and says "Aw look at the fat little asian boy", He called me in tears ready to come home from what was supposed to be a fun get away for him and his friends. Needless to say I was LIVID and was ready to fly down and beat the fuck out the queen. We plan on going to SF for our 10th anniverisry and PLEASE let me run into that cunt!
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:45 PM GMT
    AggieBoy saidI was at a gay get together this week and got introduced to this really great looking group of white guys. As soon as I started being introduced, one of those dudes told me "Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".
    I am normally strong about these kinds of things, but for the first time, i felt just flat out ugly...


    What the hell?! Is this 2009 or 1964?

    I'm afraid I'd have said "Well that's a relief, I don't mingle with your kind either... stupid, ignorant, socially inept, insecure bigots - THANK YOU, you just took all the pressure off and now I can enjoy the evening.
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:46 PM GMT
    Disgusting. Witty comeback: I see you prefer the company of nelly, bitchey, queens.
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:48 PM GMT
    meninlove said lol, how about this?

    The guy,"Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".

    You reply, "Mind reader, I was just thinking that." icon_lol.gif


    haha... I confess i have been thinking of put downs too they involve the phrases "twink queen" and "trailer park". But I prefer not to plan: I can normally think of something more aptly horrible to say to people in person.


    (that said some variation of "your looks won´t last long, you insipid twink, and you need to do some serious work on your body or you´ll just be a plain, bitter old queen with no personality" is always amusing to contemplate". icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    AggieBoy saidI was at a gay get together this week and got introduced to this really great looking group of white guys. As soon as I started being introduced, one of those dudes told me "Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".
    I am normally strong about these kinds of things, but for the first time, i felt just flat out ugly...
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Excuse me AggieBoy, but you and the word 'ugly' don't belong in the same sentence. your very handsome as a matter of fact. I can understand that that comment was like a slap in the face, but my god, your not ugly and certainly don't have to make any excuses. The next time anyone says any such thing (I doubt it happening again though) simply say - you and your group aren't worth the breath it takes to describe 'your kind', and then walk away.
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:53 PM GMT
    That's really shameful. Fuck those guys (not literally), they sound like people you wouldn't want to talk to anyway.

    Who says that to someone anyway? It sounds like it's from an 80's afterschool special. lame.
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    Nov 25, 2009 3:57 PM GMT
    AggieBoy saidI was at a gay get together this week and got introduced to this really great looking group of white guys. As soon as I started being introduced, one of those dudes told me "Just so you know, we don't really mingle with your kind".
    I am normally strong about these kinds of things, but for the first time, i felt just flat out ugly...

    Why didn't you just confront the bloody pig right there? Handle it verbally, and if no satisfaction is received, handle it physically. What did you do? Just walked away? You have got to confront people like this EVERY time!!
    And just where was the host of this get together?!? icon_eek.gif
    If I were the host, I would have kicked their arses out of my get together!
    Now there is NO EXCUSE for them saying what they said. But are you sure it was racial? Are you very feminine/queeny? I don't like to be around fem/queens at all. When I meet them, I'm cordial but I tend to ignore them.
    Well regardless of the reason those dolts spoke to you that way, I am sorry this happened to you. It is bad enough that we have to hear that type of non-sense from the RWcN (Right Wing christian Nazi) breeders of this world
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