Will you say me NO if i ask you to start dating????

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    Nov 26, 2009 1:37 AM GMT
    This monday i receive a NO...in a beautiful non agressive way...
    i was hitting on this guy for 5 weekends, he and i had 3 friends in common so, the thing is that it was obvious that i was into him and all his friends told me i also liked him (this is the awkward part) last sautrday i just told him i really like him and on monday night we chated and i ask if he though about las weekend
    the conversation was dull but he say : he doesnt want to damage me, he was doesnt want on this moment a relashinship or date some one, and finally that he got a lot of problems whit himself.

    the question is am i atractive enought that if i ask you for a date to say no or yes!???


    ps.- thanks for reading!
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    Nov 26, 2009 1:49 AM GMT
    lol, of course you are! Remember though that looks are only as good as how you act; how you speak and walk and sit and smile and think and feel. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 26, 2009 1:56 AM GMT
    Certainly you're attractive enough to date. Don't ever doubt that. But dating isn't as easy as 1+1=2. Many times you like a guy who doesn't share your feelings, or a guy likes you who isn't your type. That's just how it works, at least in my experience.

    I'd also suggest not telling a guy you're "into" him in the beginning. If he's only just getting to know you, it could be a good way to scare him off. Just hang out with him and let things fall into place. I know this is easier said than done. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 26, 2009 2:10 AM GMT
    thanks.... thanks... and more thank....


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    Nov 26, 2009 2:27 AM GMT
    WEINBENDER saidThis monday i receive a NO...in a beautiful non agressive way...
    i was hitting on this guy for 5 weekends, he and i had 3 friends in common so, the thing is that it was obvious that i was into him and all his friends told me i also liked him (this is the awkward part) last sautrday i just told him i really like him and on monday night we chated and i ask if he though about las weekend
    the conversation was dull but he say : he doesnt want to damage me, he was doesnt want on this moment a relashinship or date some one, and finally that he got a lot of problems whit himself.

    the question is am i atractive enought that if i ask you for a date to say no or yes!???


    ps.- thanks for reading!


    I think I know u very well... Ur not just attractive physically. ur hot... ur body is insanely ripped. (love it). but ur also very intelligent and kind (ur basically a good one). the real answers ARE "maybe hes right and is just passing a bad moment in his life ( u know everyone has that momentsm specially I when everything gets difficult)" and maybe he avoided U becouse ur not his type (thats bad, but maybe the real fact). icon_smile.gif SIEMPRE CUENTA CONMIGO.
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    Nov 26, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    kingjoe said
    WEINBENDER saidThis monday i receive a NO...in a beautiful non agressive way...
    i was hitting on this guy for 5 weekends, he and i had 3 friends in common so, the thing is that it was obvious that i was into him and all his friends told me i also liked him (this is the awkward part) last sautrday i just told him i really like him and on monday night we chated and i ask if he though about las weekend
    the conversation was dull but he say : he doesnt want to damage me, he was doesnt want on this moment a relashinship or date some one, and finally that he got a lot of problems whit himself.

    the question is am i atractive enought that if i ask you for a date to say no or yes!???


    ps.- thanks for reading!


    I think I know u very well... Ur not just attractive physically. ur hot... ur body is insanely ripped. (love it). but ur also very intelligent and kind (ur basically a good one). the real answers ARE "maybe hes right and is just passing a bad moment in his life ( u know everyone has that momentsm specially I when everything gets difficult)" and maybe he avoided U becouse ur not his type (thats bad, but maybe the real fact). icon_smile.gif SIEMPRE CUENTA CONMIGO.



    TE AMO CADA DIA MAS LOKA....Y EL NO VERTE ME HACE PENSARTE MAS .....esto me esta costando una vida asimilar
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    Nov 26, 2009 2:53 AM GMT
    WEINBENDER saidThis monday i receive a NO...in a beautiful non agressive way...
    i was hitting on this guy for 5 weekends, he and i had 3 friends in common so, the thing is that it was obvious that i was into him and all his friends told me i also liked him (this is the awkward part) last sautrday i just told him i really like him and on monday night we chated and i ask if he though about las weekend
    the conversation was dull but he say : he doesnt want to damage me, he was doesnt want on this moment a relashinship or date some one, and finally that he got a lot of problems whit himself.

    the question is am i atractive enought that if i ask you for a date to say no or yes!???


    ps.- thanks for reading!
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    Nov 27, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    thanks for all the support ppl...but im still confused about this...this guy makes em really bad i spend at least 3 4 hours fof my day thinking about himicon_evil.gif
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    Nov 27, 2009 3:33 PM GMT
    Tiger, we all want to be attractive to the guys that we are attracted to..it's natural and getting over it takes..well it takes as much time as it takes...don't add an extra layer of suffering by being the least bit annoyed with yourself for focusing on this.

    And in answer to your question, I would accept the proposal of a date!