Would you guys do it alone?

  • phunkie

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    Nov 27, 2009 7:58 PM GMT
    Go to a club I mean. Or is it a friends/groups thing only?
  • jgymnast733

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    Nov 27, 2009 9:08 PM GMT
    Hell yeah i go alone sometimes,
    I always run into someone i know everywhere.
    At one time i hated going to clubs alone but i guess with age comes confidence...
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    Nov 27, 2009 9:31 PM GMT
    With the hours he's been working and all the traveling for my job & his family's health....that's all I do anymore is do it alone!!! icon_twisted.gif
















    go to a bar, I mean. Sheesh! Get your mind out of the gutters! LOLicon_lol.gif
  • drypin

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    Nov 27, 2009 10:20 PM GMT
    No... age has not brought this guy that much confidence.
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    Nov 28, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    I just go with friends. I don't know how to talk to random people I get too nervous.

    So I wait for them to approach me, yay! icon_biggrin.gif





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  • mcwclewis

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    Nov 28, 2009 12:25 AM GMT
    When I used to go I'd go alone a lot.


    I'd always end up making some friends if I didn't have any there already
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    Nov 28, 2009 4:20 AM GMT
    I have not been to the bar for about two years now. However, when I did venture out, it was alone.

    Why? The freedom to come and go as I please without being tied to a group of people. Sometimes being circled with friends inhibits meeting different types of people if newbies don't seemingly fit the group mould.
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    Nov 28, 2009 6:14 AM GMT
    In a heartbeat! HELL YES!...how else am I gonna hook up! LOL!...depends on why I am going out as to alone or with buds...really...icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 28, 2009 6:25 AM GMT
    . . . oh sure, fortune favors the brave, and all that . . .

    . . . and when did a single guy need permission to do anything? . . . don't be silly . . .

    . . . just go ye therefore and do what you want . . .
  • Crucializer

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    Nov 28, 2009 6:35 AM GMT
    I have never gone alone - but these days, I'm wanting to go more than my friends do, so I might venture out alone ... soon ... . icon_confused.gif
  • rdberg1957

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    Nov 28, 2009 7:23 AM GMT
    I sing at a piano bar as part of an open mic night. I come alone, but meet people I know there. I used to hook-up at bars and clubs, mostly in the 1980's, but very rarely now. Most nights, if I am alone, I prefer being at home, reading, cooking, writing, doing music. I go to potlucks, sometimes with others, sometimes by myself on a regular basis. I find it very difficult to talk with strangers in a bar or club even when I am confident. The conversations are pretty stilted because I don't know what we have in common and it is difficult to find out. The club is not a relaxed setting conducive to getting to know others. It is more fun when you know people and dance.
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    Nov 28, 2009 7:23 AM GMT
    in the past I have always went alone, and met up with friends at the bar/club. It did not seem as rude, when I would go home with some one(me and my platonic buddies would part ways). Now that I am a little more mature(and not a slut), I tend to go out with friends, for the music, drinks, dancing, conversation, ambiance etc. Not for a hook up.
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    Nov 28, 2009 12:59 PM GMT
    Don’t mind going alone, it’s the best way to people watch—the leaving alone

    is barely tolerable.
  • GQjock

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    Nov 28, 2009 1:40 PM GMT
    I have ......



    When I don't wanna go HOME alone icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 28, 2009 1:50 PM GMT
    Of course! Why not?
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    Nov 28, 2009 2:01 PM GMT
    Yup! I did and met great friends there. There's nothing wrong about it. It can be fun, exciting and also scary sometimes. ;)
  • Neon_Dreams

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    Nov 28, 2009 2:47 PM GMT
    Whether I go to a club with friends or alone, I am a Lone Wolf. I usually prefer doing my own thing, having freedom to walk about and come or go as I please.

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    Joe
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    Nov 28, 2009 2:54 PM GMT
    YUP, i get much more attention when i go alone and usually find someone nice to chat with!
  • Neon_Dreams

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    Nov 28, 2009 2:57 PM GMT
    AggieBoy,

    I am with you... I always meet a nice guy when I'm sitting alone in the patio area of a club, hanging out. I guess it's about attitude...

    When I am a wallflower I'm not putting off a shyness vibe. A man can be Silent And Strong!


    Joe
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    Nov 28, 2009 3:16 PM GMT
    I always have fun when I go alone. I'm more motivated to meet new people since I don't have the option to just hang with my friends.
  • Celticmusl

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    Nov 28, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    I hate going alone, especially driving alone, but lately I've had to and it turns out quite fun! Usually however, I do find a few friends I already know and it turns into a night of bar hopping.

    I lost my wingman due to a serious dating relationship that he is in right now. The prognosis looks grim. I need a new wingman!
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    Nov 28, 2009 4:08 PM GMT
    Sure do. Sometimes I prefer being alone at a bar actually. I can show up when I want to, leave when I feel like it and talk to anyone I want to. I am very capable of having a good time and enjoying the ambience by myself, but always welcome others too.
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    Nov 28, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
    Sure, got not problem being by myself. I've been comfortable alone for many years.