"I'm not gay or anything, but...

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    Dec 01, 2009 4:26 AM GMT
    ...you're a good-looking guy"

    Why do some straight guys feel a need to preface certain statements with: "I'm not gay or anything, but..."

    Fear I might pounce on them?
  • Webster666

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    Dec 01, 2009 4:28 AM GMT
    There's still a stigma attached to being gay...
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    Dec 01, 2009 4:30 AM GMT
    boarderbuddy said...you're a good-looking guy"

    Why do some straight guys feel a need to preface certain statements with: "I'm not gay or anything, but..."

    Fear I might pounce on them?


    because they want to bone you, but it's not okay to say that.
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    Dec 01, 2009 4:38 AM GMT
    ...because straight guys, the great ones, like to be able to compliment their gay friends without it being interpreted as a come-on. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 01, 2009 5:11 AM GMT
    Doesn't bother me. At least you know not to chat them up. Saves some embarrassment for both of us. Plus if some guy I didn't know well told me I was good looking, I would be pumped and the thought would pass through mind.
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    Dec 01, 2009 5:18 AM GMT
    I really don't get that line that much.

    Usually I get, "I'm not gay but I like to get head from a guy every now and then."

    This is also after I've already pointed out the tan line on the finger with the wife and kids at home. Gotta love those crazies.
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    Dec 01, 2009 9:24 AM GMT
    _donovan_ saidI really don't get that line that much.

    Usually I get, "I'm not gay but I like to get head from a guy every now and then."

    This is also after I've already pointed out the tan line on the finger with the wife and kids at home. Gotta love those crazies.


    Why does he keep his ring finger at home with the wife and kids? And how did you get a glimpse of it?
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    Dec 01, 2009 1:25 PM GMT
    drypin said
    _donovan_ saidI really don't get that line that much.

    Usually I get, "I'm not gay but I like to get head from a guy every now and then."

    This is also after I've already pointed out the tan line on the finger with the wife and kids at home. Gotta love those crazies.


    Why does he keep his ring finger at home with the wife and kids? And how did you get a glimpse of it?


    It's easy to spot a tan line when you live where there's over 350 days of sun.

    I have a friend that ONLY wears her wedding ring to work because she doesn't want anyone to know she just got divorced- Now that's funny- people do crazy things.
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    Jun 06, 2010 2:52 PM GMT