How do i ?

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    Dec 02, 2009 2:35 AM GMT
    ok for the past 9 months me and this individual made an oral/ verbal agreement to be each other "friend with benefits" due to our busy schedules. Everything is going good. the relations we have is off the chain and he is really a good man. The thing is....i am beginning to want more..( i know im such a school girl) He has also suggested it would be cool to be with someone. Here is the trick to the issue. .....we like each other but both cant bring ourselves to say or put a definition to what were currently doing with each other......and i find that most men rather go along with something without putting a label on it. Should i continue doing this...or call him on it and ask him if were in a relationship..What strategic steps should i make to turn my f-bud into my boyfriend?
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    Dec 02, 2009 2:43 AM GMT
    9 months?…don’t look now but you’re in a relationship.
  • jgymnast733

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    Dec 02, 2009 3:03 AM GMT
    Ow, this can be tricky if he's anything like my friends with benefits who still claim to be str8.. Instead of demanding or even whinning about wanting more, simply ask him if this is something we should explore..
    GOOD LUCK.
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    Dec 02, 2009 3:14 AM GMT
    A verbal agreement won't work and writing an informal agreement between the parties is the better of valor.