Good for her. Now that she's come out, I totally see it now. Never did before. Lesbians don't usually fall into my gaydar.
I find the concept of not realizing you're homosexual until late in life mind-boggling. Not saying I don't believe it, I just don't understand it. From my very first memories I knew I liked boys more than girls and from my first nocturnal emission I knew I wanted to have sex with men not women. It was always so clear to me. I don't understand how someone could be in their 40s, 30s even 20s and suddenly figure out they're gay.