Well this is embarrassing, and I need a little advice on what to do...

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    Dec 03, 2009 7:49 PM GMT
    My boyfriend tells me that when he is inside me that my legs tend to tense up, and this causes me to push him out. The thing is I really enjoy when he is inside, the little power bottom that I am, but I don't want to push him out. I think somewhere along the line when I was pleasuring myself or having sex, I got into the habit of tensing up. Does anyone have any sort of advice on how to not be tense (And Chucky, I swear to God, if all you say is "loosen up", then I'll fucking scream.) when I'm getting railed?
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    Dec 03, 2009 7:53 PM GMT
    I'm assuming your in "missionary" position?

    One of those ramps could work, keeps you butt higher in the air. You can also try a different position, like you being on your side with him straddling your lower leg and holding your top leg out of the way. You still get to see and feel each other, but the angle can feel great.
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    Dec 03, 2009 9:43 PM GMT
    Try positions where you ride him. If you have to use your legs tensing up can't be an automated response. Do that for a while and then try the other positions where you don't have to use your legs.

    I am more than willing to take a look at video footage to help out. I am selfless like that. icon_biggrin.gif