Dec 04, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
hey, I'm a bi married guy with zero sex at home (and my wife is aware of my m2m play. we have a great relationship, although clearly not a "normal" one), and in the past had a monog 5 year situation with a young bi guy i met playing soccer. after a year of trust and testing, we went raw, and it worked great. both of us committed to not messing around outside of our relatationship, except for non-contact jo. he was not into other guys at all, and so there was no safety issue. we "broke-up" when he decided he wanted a committed bf that he could build a life with, so i went back on the market. i've recently met a great guy, bi with gf, who would like to go raw. however, i know he is big into getting sucked by other guys, although he is not into fucking other guys and if we go raw would only fuck with me. i have done a lot of reading, and it is clear that he could pick up gon, syph and chlamydia just by getting sucked, and pass it on to me in my butt or elsewhere, although the risk of hiv seems low. the sex with this guy is amazing, we have a great connection, i'd appreciate your thoughts on whether we go raw or not.