Wanna cuddle?

  • GoodPup

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    Dec 05, 2009 1:44 AM GMT
    So I like cuddling as much as anyone... well, maybe a little less than most. I always feel a little claustrophobic, and worried if I move too much the other person will be unconfortable... and then my arm always falls asleep and I try putting up with it as long as I can until I finally gotta move it and then he feels bad and I feel bad for just not saying anything.

    Anyways, lately I have had guys hitting on me and asking if I wanna come over and cuddle. Is it cause I say I don't like hook ups so they are hoping its step one to get me in their bed? Or does anyone really go meet some guy and just cuddle for a few hours and then go home... cause that seems highly unlikely to me.

    Its not that I don't hookup... I do, if I like the guy. But I don't necessarily just come online to look for them. So to try and trick me into bed with the hope of cuddling... its sort of laughable to me.

    So I guess my question is... no one really just goes to meet a stranger to cuddle, right? If so, speak now and prove me wrong.
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    Dec 05, 2009 3:49 AM GMT
    Don't know about every guy out there, but when my boyfriend says he wants to 'cuddle,' it's code that he wants to get naked and do all sorts of dirty raunchy stuff under the sheets. It's entirely possible the guys who want to go home and cuddle with you figure that if they get you all close and snuggley, heavy petting might lead to more exciting activities.
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    Dec 05, 2009 4:46 AM GMT
    *note to self* NEVER ask zDrew for a cuddle unless wearing lose pants...
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    Dec 05, 2009 4:48 AM GMT
    well, I kinda have, although we'd talked online for ages... he was having a hard time and wanted a hug... although as is inevitable, get up close to me like that and I start getting horny.. so.. erm.. it ended up being a cuddle with "friction"
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    Dec 05, 2009 1:53 PM GMT
    "note to self" ask Tank for a hug ASAP
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    Dec 05, 2009 2:02 PM GMT
    Cuddle is internet speak for get sexual without fucking. A spade a spade.
  • drypin

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    Dec 05, 2009 2:26 PM GMT
    If I'm going to cuddle with a guy on the sofa, I would assume some necking and petting will be involved but that I have the right to keep my pants on if I don't want it to go further.

    Still, I would not go cuddle with someone I wasn't interested in eventually taking it further.
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    Dec 05, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    If someone says over internet it is pretty much for lets start with cuddling and then fondling and then... you know.