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  • DJZ77

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    Dec 05, 2009 8:20 AM GMT
    BEARS!!!

    This was the first thing that came to mind. So here's what happened... I had told a buddy of mine to meet up with me at a bar we usually hang out at. I get there and I find it somewhat odd that there was a cover, I ask the guy at the door what it was for and he told me that it was for some sort of benefit. Fine, I pay and go in. While there I notice that it's not the usual crowd, I ask the bartender for a drink and sit at the bar browsing through one of those free gay mags they have. I notice that there is a lot of screaming and cheering at the other end of the bar. I grab my drink and walk over only to see that there is a burlesque/strip show going on. As I get closer, I realize that these guys are, shall we say... meatier than usual. THAT'S when it hits me, I do a scan of the guys in there and I realize I'm surrounded by bears! icon_eek.gif I had never been to a bear bar or anything like it. Shit, I know I'm not thin, but I don't think I've ever considered myself to be a bear or cub for that matter. Anyways, can I just say this is the first time I've been hit on the most than any other time or at any other bar for that matter... I LOVED it!! Wait wait... let me elaborate on this, I liked the attention I was getting not so much the scene. Granted, there were some cute chubby guys there that I wouldn't mind playing around with. So does this make me a bear/cub now?? Someone please explain this culture to me.
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    Dec 05, 2009 8:49 AM GMT
    there isn't much to explain, they like'em a little meaty, a little furry.... that's all
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    Dec 05, 2009 6:07 PM GMT
    I'm not sure... when we spent the night at Beorn's house, we all huddled inside by the fire, while the bears danced the night away outside.
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    Dec 05, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    Gummy Bears Pictures, Images and Photos

    You don't have to be a bear to be attractive to one. You don't have to be a muscular to attract a muscular, or twinkish to attract a twink. OK. thankyou.
  • Tiran

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    Dec 05, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    You're a bear. To old to be a cub. I realized long ago I was a bear whether I wanted to be or not lol. The only difference is if you want to socialize in that community. But in my experience it is a much more friendly and welcoming group than your standard club/party scene, so go for it. And it doesn't have to mean fat, there are some hot muscle bears out there, thats what I am aiming for. Check out A Bears Life Magazine, not a lot of pretty muscleboys, but unlike most mainstream gay mags I don't want to bang my head into conrete after reading it.
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    Dec 05, 2009 8:46 PM GMT
    Bears?

    Isn't that just a euphenism for fat and hairy?
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    Dec 06, 2009 1:21 AM GMT
    No, it isn't.


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    Dec 06, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    Thank goodness for Wikipedia. The taxonomy of different types of bears is both interesting and amusing. icon_lol.gif

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bear_(gay_culture)

    My favorite type of bear is the muscle bear. Grrr.

  • DJZ77

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    Dec 06, 2009 8:54 AM GMT
    meninlove said No, it isn't.


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    haha... too funny! Yeah, I guess I do know now and knowing is half the battle!!

    Hey Tiran, meeeeeeeow... wait, no... woof or is it grrrr. Ugh, i'll get this shit eventually LOL.

    GG... Hey who are those fruity ass lookin' bears?? I know they're from disney, but never really liked them.

    Hi lilTanker icon_wink.gificon_redface.gif