Do you kiss with your eyes closed?

  • 8Always_Hard8

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    Dec 05, 2009 11:03 PM GMT
    So I have noticed when I kiss guys that they close their eyes... is this common? I usually keep them open and if I really dont care about them I start looking around. I am a bitch like that haha

    But does anyone else keep their eyes open or do all of you keep them closed? And why?
  • drypin

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    Dec 05, 2009 11:07 PM GMT
    I might briefly close them, but open them right back up again. I like to look at the guy. However, if I'm on an escort job with a fugly guy, I'll generally close my eyes and imagine he's Eric Bana.
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    Dec 05, 2009 11:21 PM GMT
    If we are both really into the kiss I close my eyes and just use my lips to see.
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    Dec 05, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    I just blogged about this yesterday, so funny you should ask:

    http://www.devonhunter.info/archives/1324/

    Devon:I could go on, but in the interest of brevity I will focus on one third detail. Eyes. I don’t remember where I read it (probably an out-dated book on Southern manners), but I agree with it for some reason I do not understand: Do not trust someone who kisses with his eyes open. It’s fine to open and look some, but a person who kisses with the eyes constantly wide open will often be a selfish person, both in and out of bed. I don’t know why this is. It would require analysis by a professional psychologist. But I do know this: Whenever I have opened my eyes briefly and found the man glaring back at me, I have found (upon retrospect) that these are the men who have later hurt me the most. Kissers who stare give themselves away. CLOSE YOUR EYES, AND LET YOUR MIND BE YOUR SIGHT.
  • Acorns

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    Dec 05, 2009 11:28 PM GMT
    If there is too much kissing, I'll open my eyes.

  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 05, 2009 11:33 PM GMT
    Depends on where I'm kissing icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 06, 2009 12:11 AM GMT
    malefeet saidDepends on where I'm kissing icon_redface.gif



    how about here... and here... and here...
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 06, 2009 12:14 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidhow about here... and here... and here...


    Sure..as long as I can start at your feet icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 06, 2009 12:20 AM GMT
    How can you keep your eyes open during kissing? Surely this means you're bored?
  • 8Always_Hard8

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    Dec 06, 2009 12:22 AM GMT
    Ghen saidHow can you keep your eyes open during kissing? Surely this means you're bored?


    i like to look around or in his eyes

    and who knows who is going to come in... a robber and then BAM everyone will be thanking me for kissing with my eyes open icon_smile.gif

    hehe
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    Dec 06, 2009 1:04 AM GMT
    Ghen saidHow can you keep your eyes open during kissing? Surely this means you're bored?


    sometimes haha
    I usually close my eyes if I really like the guy, but it's also fun to watch them when they are not watching you
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    Dec 06, 2009 1:50 AM GMT
    I keep them closed 98% of the time, but there are those brief moments, where ou can just feel that his are closed as well, and you open them at the same time and make direct eye contact. Totally intensifies everything.

    On the other hand, there have been a few guys who I noticed just GLARING at me... or looking me up and down like a guido in a club. You're already kissing me, you don't need to intimidate me into bed. And I'm not a south jersey chick. Totally took me out of the moment.
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    Dec 06, 2009 1:52 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidI keep them closed 98% of the time, but there are those brief moments, where ou can just feel that his are closed as well, and you open them at the same time and make direct eye contact. Totally intensifies everything.



    ahhh i love that!!!
  • DCEric

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    Dec 06, 2009 1:56 AM GMT
    Pattison saidBut I know women keep their eyes shut during sex, because they can't stand to see men enjoy themselves.


    I need a new monitor, I just spit V8 all over mine. Thanks for the laugh.
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    Dec 06, 2009 1:57 AM GMT
    Pattison saidDepends who I'm kissing icon_wink.gif

    But I know women keep their eyes shut during sex, because they can't stand to see men enjoy themselves.


    I lol'd
  • Celticmusl

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    Dec 06, 2009 1:58 AM GMT
    The only time I open my eyes is to locate which article of clothing I will "accidentally" remove next. I must be going out with some fine gentlemen, because I have rarely caught anyone with their eyes open when they are kissing me.

    That eyes-open-kissing thing sounds alien-pod-people-ish.
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    Dec 06, 2009 1:59 AM GMT

    Open so's I can case the jernt.
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:00 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidI keep them closed 98% of the time, but there are those brief moments, where ou can just feel that his are closed as well, and you open them at the same time and make direct eye contact. Totally intensifies everything.

    On the other hand, there have been a few guys who I noticed just GLARING at me... or looking me up and down like a guido in a club. You're already kissing me, you don't need to intimidate me into bed. And I'm not a south jersey chick. Totally took me out of the moment.


    just wanna clarify that the people from MTV's Jersey Shore are from Staten Island, NY and were staying in NJ, we are not like that lol

    Also I agree with seeing with your lips as the best mode of seeing while making out lol
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:06 AM GMT
    AntiHer017 said

    just wanna clarify that the people from MTV's Jersey Shore are from Staten Island, NY and were staying in NJ, we are not like that lol

    Also I agree with seeing with your lips as the best mode of seeing while making out lol



    I forgot about that show! I needs to go watch clips on Youtube. Thanks icon_smile.gif

    Just as gay stereotypes can't account for all, or even most. Neither can these. But it was a good way to reference what I was talking about. Not meant to offend.

    Furthermore, you'd think Jersey boys would EASILY be able to see with their lips, if anyone could. They practice!!
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:11 AM GMT
    Open, close, open, close, open, close... A little of both I think...
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:20 AM GMT
    Closed most of the time. Open eyed kissing is freaky icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:42 AM GMT
    I close my eyesicon_wink.gif Maybe cause I feel it adds some kind of sentimental value when I kiss but I honestly don't know why I close them.
    Why I don't know, but does it really matter if they are open or closed?
    I mean I can still smell a dudes breath regardlessicon_lol.gif
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:47 AM GMT

    wow... i honestly can't even remember! which means that either i just get lost in the moment when making out with a guy, or its been way too long.

    (unfortunately for my lips, i think its the latter)
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:49 AM GMT
    I close my eyes. it makes it more adventurous because you can imagine what Might happen or what is happening.
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    Dec 06, 2009 2:59 AM GMT
    syd_hockey_79 saidClosed most of the time. Open eyed kissing is freaky icon_eek.gif



    LOL I also agree...
    It looks as if you're trying to suck out each others souls icon_eek.gif

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