Christmas gift idea for a gay man?

  • mcwclewis

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    Dec 06, 2009 9:30 PM GMT
    My fraternity is doing a secret santa. I drew one of our new brothers, who is gay ( slightly more effeminate ) and I have NO IDEA what to get him.


    Any ideas?
  • Acorns

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    Dec 06, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    Something he's interested in. lol

    Or if you want to get him a gift for gay people, get him underwear or something.
  • mcwclewis

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    Dec 06, 2009 9:52 PM GMT
    Haha...

    Thats the problem, he doesn't talk about himself much so I kind of need something generic.

    I don't know about the underwear thing... he might get the wrong impression icon_razz.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 06, 2009 10:04 PM GMT
    Is he just a friend...or someone you may want to get to know a little better? icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 06, 2009 10:06 PM GMT
    http://www.divine-interventions.com/jackhammer.html

    What about a Jack Hammer Jesus, who doesn't want to be touched!
  • mcwclewis

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    Dec 06, 2009 10:29 PM GMT
    Just a friend. I'd love to be better friends with him but that's about it.



    Jackhammer Jesus would be funny, but since he's going to be opening it in front of the whole fraternity, I don't know that it would be such a good idea icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 06, 2009 10:47 PM GMT
    lilTanker said

    What about a Jack Hammer Jesus, who doesn't want to be touched!


    I'm guessing that is nothing like the Big Butter Jesus?
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  • Timbales

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    Dec 06, 2009 11:00 PM GMT
    scented candles
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    Dec 06, 2009 11:02 PM GMT
    Gift card to Starbucks, Borders, or even a bus-pass, if available. Practical, yet sexless. Unless you ARE trying to get him into bed.
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    Dec 07, 2009 3:22 AM GMT
    A pair of ginch gonch. They're humorous in and of themselves!
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    Dec 07, 2009 3:47 AM GMT
    An ant farm. Everybody loves an ant farm.
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    Dec 07, 2009 3:51 AM GMT
    Fleshlight?
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:14 AM GMT
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:16 AM GMT
    All of the Bring It On Movies in a nice box set.
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:20 AM GMT
    A nice Pillow is always good.
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:21 AM GMT
    Maybe ask yourself what sort of sexless gift would you want from a gay man? The canadles isn't bad thing, or a scented soap kit, yeah maybe takcy -- maybe something kitcheney like fancy olive oil and vinegar, or something Williams and Sonoma? I don't know, but if you'd like it, or at least be happy with it, then you're probably safe.
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:36 AM GMT
    A scarf or pair of gloves?
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:37 AM GMT
    something you'd get a straight man.
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    Dec 07, 2009 4:41 AM GMT
    a cool t-shirt
  • Celticmusl

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    Dec 07, 2009 4:58 AM GMT
    I heard the gays like shiny things.


    -maybe an umbrella with matching scarf of the college colors/emblem. Che magnifique!

    -mango rum with a flask inscribed with his initials. What gay doesn't like mango rum?

    -A Starbuck's gift card with a cool coffee mug. The gays loves them some Starbuck.
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    Dec 07, 2009 5:00 AM GMT
    GNR7600 saidsomething you'd get a straight man.

    a small booklet of sexual explorational favors that can be redeemed at any time???
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    Dec 07, 2009 5:00 AM GMT
    glitter...either the substance of the mariah carey flick.
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    Dec 07, 2009 5:05 AM GMT
    Is there a price limit?
    It's easier to suggest things when we know the limit.
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  • mcwclewis

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    Dec 07, 2009 5:19 AM GMT
    $15 is the suggested price, but we're allowed to go higher if we want.


    Big Butter Jesus would be great, but Im not sure how I would have it delivered.

    Candles work, good possibility

    Gift Cards are always a good default but Id rather leave them as a lasy resort.

    Antfarm, probably not icon_razz.gif

    The Bring It On movies.... probably not... sorry icon_razz.gif The first one was acceptable but after that I'd feel really bad having anyone watch them.

    Fleshlight? Maybe if he didn't have to open in front of the fraternity.

    T-shirt would be difficult because Im not really sure what size he would take and Id feel like an asshole if I got one that was too big, or too small.



    Hmmm... this is going to take some debating. I think he's developing a crush on me so I don't want to give him something that would give him the wrong impression.
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    Dec 07, 2009 8:50 AM GMT
    Fleshlights are $70~ But they can be pimp-out!
    http://www.fleshjack.com/dyo.php?link=75979&gclid=CMHtpcH1w54CFRQpawodWghiqg&ad=3232494914
    To me they say... 'because you are too ugly to ever be able to experience the real thing....'
    Kind of harsh.
    Gift Cards are throw away gifts. Something you pick up at a gas station last minute along with a pack of smokes. No cards. Unless they have pokemon on them.
    Sense he is on the fem side...
    You can get him something from Sanrio
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    $30 Although I'm not sure If he loves seasonal japanese things.

    Dont give sexual gifts or gift cards. Buy him some practical clothing. NY--->winter--->scarf/gloves. You just have to find out what his personal style is....
    Fems can be anything.