BITCHY GUYS!!

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    Dec 29, 2007 9:03 PM GMT
    so i've had my first experience with a very very bitchy guy on this site... here's the situation... "this guy" sent me a few messages... starting out with "you're hot" the usual playful stuff.. anyways, after a few messages he said he'd be in my area for a month... I figured, "cool, we can maybe hang out sometime when he's here" so I IM'd him... with the honest intent of getting to know him... through the course of our short conversation i'm doing all the initial work of "what's your name?" "you're cute" "why are you still single" the usual flirty stuff... honestly trying to get to know him, basic questions... to which he responds "bad pickup lines dude" and "you can't get to know people on the internet"

    This guy made me feel like a complete assssss in trying to get to know him.. I did nothing wrong! he sent the initial message, he showed interest in me... what's up with that! I guess I just needed to vent!!!
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    Dec 29, 2007 11:57 PM GMT
    That's too bad. Yeah, there are a few guys like that on here (less than on most sites, it seems), but most of the guys here are pretty cool, really. Luckily, those few guys are pretty ignorable...so don't let them get you feeling bad about yourself.
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    Dec 30, 2007 12:31 AM GMT
    Yeah, I've had those IM conversations.

    Random jerk: 'Sup?

    Me: Hi.

    Random: What u doin

    Me: Not much.

    Ramdom: Yeh just chillin'


    Followed by 15 minutes of silence. Why did he bother?
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    Dec 30, 2007 4:17 AM GMT
    You ARE a good looking guy. Don't let one bitter person turn you off.

    fuck em.
  • GQjock

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    Dec 30, 2007 12:13 PM GMT
    It ain't your problem if someone's an ass

    Your response to someone like that should always be >>>>> absolutely nothing
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    Dec 31, 2007 5:59 AM GMT
    The usual coch ass hole eh. its understood that one will run into these shallow self centered lame asses on profiles sites such as this. vanity and attitude are a hallmark a great and common defense mechanisms for insecure weak fear full confused insincere fags. bam bitches bring it! hahaha you all suck
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    Dec 31, 2007 8:19 PM GMT
    Dude...don't take it to heart...there r plenty of guys like that out there and we've all had experienced with these assholes...it has nothing to do with you or youe approach. This guy probably is the type that just likes playing games. Don't waste your time worrying about it.

    Needless to say...you are very hot and will have no trouble finding the guy that deserves to be with uicon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 04, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    thanks for responding to my post guys icon_smile.gif at least I know i'm not the only one out that who's experienced this haha icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 04, 2008 11:01 AM GMT
    oh yeah, also stay away from those profiles with headless pics, let alone those without! you don't wanna be associated with their issues.

    i never thought i'll be joining any gay-oriented sites again... facebook saved me from the depressing sites such as gaydar and manjam (in particular)... deleted them for good.

    i'm happy that this site actually gives the opportunity for us to "humanize" the profiles... as i am not popular for putting my best foot forward... just low maintenance and very much against the 'metrosexual' complex!

    and i love the more outspoken members of this site;)

    HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!


    Kisses from the dustbowl called Dubai,
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    Jan 04, 2008 11:11 AM GMT
    jprichva saidYeah, I've had those IM conversations.

    Random jerk: 'Sup?

    Me: Hi.

    Random: What u doin

    Me: Not much.

    Ramdom: Yeh just chillin'


    Followed by 15 minutes of silence. Why did he bother?


    hahahahah!!! i just got reminded of one group on facebook called,"BRB... IM NOT REALLY GOING ANYWHERE, BUT NEITHER IS THIS CONVERSATION"

    but i guess mr.random there didn't even bother to type BRB... that turd. x

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    Jan 05, 2008 4:43 PM GMT
    Sorry that you had such an experience. Somehow jerks and idiots have infiltrated all orientations, races, religions and websites. Its just too bad that we need to deal with them before we find this fact out. Keep the faith, most of the guys on this site, so far, are legit and good guys.
    Take Care.
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  • BlackJock79

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    Jan 05, 2008 7:21 PM GMT
    There are lots of bitchy guys on this site... have you ever read any of the responses to questions that someone may ask? LOL, I've seen some pretty harsh responses to some pretty simple questions. Am I the only one that thought that Kalamazoo was a made up place? LOL, I looked at your profile Derek and I was like he just made that up, Kalamazoo doesn't exist... then I googled it and found out that it is an actual place. icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 05, 2008 8:00 PM GMT
    Derek, I say you are lucky. You found this out about this guy before you met him in person. The dickhead gave himself away beforehand and now someone as cool as you won't have to abide someone as boorish has him. It's win/win!
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    Jan 26, 2008 2:38 AM GMT
    Haha - my guess is, he's a faker and had to 'derail' things before you actually had to meet him and found out he was 200# and 5'1".
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    Apr 12, 2008 6:26 PM GMT
    DerekisHot said...i'm doing all the initial work of "what's your name?" "you're cute" "why are you still single" the usual flirty stuff... honestly trying to get to know him, basic questions... to which he responds "bad pickup lines dude" and "you can't get to know people on the internet"

    This is what is called "projecting". He thinks he's king stud with the best pickup lines in the world. He thinks that's how everyone tries to operate. In his shallow world, there is no such thing as taking an honest interest in someone. There is only perfecting the means of getting into someone's pants.

    See it for what it is, he's a guy with an overinflated sense of self-importance who gets a kick at trying to make himself feel big by making others feel belittled.

    Write it off. Be thankful that you're not on his level. His level is not a place to aspire to. There are plenty of nice, courteous guys on here. No sense in bothering with the assholes. Just close the session and forget it.
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    Apr 12, 2008 6:47 PM GMT
    The net is full of bithcy a-holes... you shouldn't care so much, really.
    Besides... there's a sea full of cute guys and you are pretty hot yourself - you shouldn't be worried ;)
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:01 PM GMT
    guys are dumb...and u are hella cute!!!!!
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    Apr 13, 2008 11:11 AM GMT
    uh-huuuh *nods with Moudi*

    Well, man, at least you TRIED making conversation.

    (BTW, This thread is 5 months old LOL)
  • Kirby_Atwood

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    Apr 13, 2008 4:09 PM GMT
    prefer to send notes first...just to start a bit slow in the very beginning...to see if we have mutual interests...really!