What made you finally decide to...

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    Dec 09, 2009 1:22 AM GMT
    mess around with, or date a guy of a different ethnic background?

    For me it had to do with the influence of Television......i had an subdued interest in men of different cultural and ethnic backgrounds..but i didn't act on them. Then i started to watch OZ from HBO. And all those shower scenes and shots of tanned asses just started to look so yummy.....not to mention the full frontal nudity. Then the next series i watched which made me finally act on my impulses was Six Feet Under. The series had a interracial couple.....that were perfect for each other in my eyes....it was fiction yes but shortly after i started dating white guys.......and surprisingly i actually enjoyed dating them and im kinda hooked. Been in 2 very long term relationships with two men of a different race. Best times ever.....Even though the relationships ended i am still in contact with them daily as they either call me or i call them to chat. How did you guys finally muster up the courage to get with the swirl.

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    Dec 09, 2009 1:27 AM GMT
    Because I finally noticed just how hermoso y guapo those Hispanic guys really are. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 09, 2009 1:28 AM GMT
    It wasn't a decision, I've just always found guys of various races hot. Plus being biracial kinda makes it hard to only be with guys from your own racial background.
  • jgymnast733

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    Dec 09, 2009 1:49 AM GMT
    Growing up the only black kid in my entire elementary school was a factor, and guess what happened--in the 6th grade a latino named "Orlando' was the new kid and i pursued him like crazy until he busted my cherry..
    I still date white men though mostly italians because they shamelessly pursue me as well as latino men....and i'm not complaining at all..icon_exclaim.gif
  • drypin

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    Dec 09, 2009 1:57 AM GMT
    Well, it wasn't in my upbringing to see them as off limits in any way.

    My first bf ever was Cree Indian, in college there was a really sweet Raetoromanian guy, after college one v*e*r*y hot black guy, and I finally ended up with a German man as my husband.

    I think I would add that the cultural differences give me a kind of kick and make a relationship a touch exotic somehow.
  • Sparkycat

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    Dec 09, 2009 7:48 AM GMT
    He had a huge dick. I couldn't resist.
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    Dec 09, 2009 8:11 AM GMT
    I find this topic interesting, being that it's a black male who wouldn't date non-black men. You don't really hear of this that often. Media portrayals? Possibly. I love the juxtaposition icon_smile.gif

    I've never dated outside of my race? Am I open to it? Of course. But in Nebraska the non-white gay population is amazingly slim, and if you factor in the already slim pickings of datable guys... well, there you have it.