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SoDakGuy Posts: 745
May 11, 2007 3:15 PM GMT
Besides me, are there any other gay boxers out there?
May 11, 2007 5:02 PM GMT
Right here. Boxing and Muay Thai.
TallGWMvballe... Posts: 1853
May 11, 2007 5:04 PM GMT
There are many gay fighters in the NHB cage fighting circuit,,,and I studied Karate (Tang Soo Do) for many years myself.
marko313 Posts: 22
May 11, 2007 9:38 PM GMT
Im one, i do MMA
May 12, 2007 7:35 AM GMT
boxed div 1 in my undergrad years not too long ago. i graduated, but i still love the sport...
SoDakGuy Posts: 745
May 15, 2007 9:26 PM GMT
So, do any of you still box in a ring?
wc2boy Posts: 36
May 15, 2007 10:55 PM GMT
I do Muay Thai (it's starting to become really popular in the UK - there is even a gay friendly camp in London).

A couple of my friends were amateur boxers but they felt they had to leave that behind when they came out - the boxing community was so homophobic they genuinely thought they would be killed. It's really sad.
May 16, 2007 12:50 AM GMT
SoDakGuy- yea I still box in a ring.

I'm also not out at my gym. There are a few homophobic guys there and I figure it's better to lay low and keep the peace.
hotversguy Posts: 146
May 18, 2007 6:20 AM GMT
i walk by Gleason's every day and dream....
kayokid Posts: 1
Jun 17, 2007 2:07 PM GMT
There are a lot of us out there. I've been boxing for more than 20 years and have met a lot of gay fighters (not pros, just recreational or amateur boxers). I trained at a club in DC where more than half of us were gay. In the early 1990s there were several gay boxing tournaments in the Bay Area called the Rainbow Gloves. I competed in one of them. Many unsuccessful attempts have been made to get boxing into the Gay Games. Don't know what the problem is. I still train and spar (in a ring) at Trinity Boxing Club in Manhattan and hope to box until I can't hold up my hands any more.
boxjim06 Posts: 1
Jul 04, 2007 10:21 AM GMT
There certainly are other gay boxers out there - and KO, the last poster, is an old friend! I'm a coach at a big Amateur Club in the UK and the guys know I'm gay and couldn't care less. It's not an issue. I still spar regularly and when in the USA train at the clubs in NYC and DC where KO trains (or trained) and it's not an issue there either.
Jul 04, 2007 10:52 AM GMT
I am not a gay boxer eventhough I wish I am. But I do love (more like fanatic) Muay Thai. I have collection of CDs . Each time I when to Thailand , going to Muay Thai competition is a must.
bratprince Posts: 1
Sep 10, 2007 1:15 AM GMT
i am boxing is so my thing
Sep 12, 2007 12:34 AM GMT
Not a gay man, but "go John Duddy!!"" Gotta respect his last fight.
jock_1 Posts: 190
Sep 12, 2007 12:40 AM GMT
never boxed, but like to wrestle and starting martial arts training
Blkboxer Posts: 1
Sep 30, 2007 3:50 AM GMT

Hay! I am in Norfolk Va lookin for someone in to boxing work out(in body work) I am 5`7/169lbs/built/Athlete tone/SLim/blkbmale. lookin for any slim or athlete guy that r in shape to sparrd with me.If interstady look me up....
Oct 21, 2007 3:05 AM GMT
I'm looking to get into boxing... dunno if there's anything where I live, though lol
flex556 Posts: 2
Oct 21, 2007 3:21 PM GMT
Been boxing since I was 19, train at a str8 gym but I have sparred and trained alot of gay guys thru the yrs.
Dec 02, 2007 3:27 AM GMT
Competition is a need not a fetish. When I fight is never about sex but to measure my strength with another man. I have the ultimate respect for ma opponent... but I do wanna win always.
schnauzer Posts: 1
Dec 25, 2007 2:53 PM GMT
yeah right here schnauzer
Jan 03, 2008 5:33 PM GMT
Something me'n a sparring partner found out: Volleyball court = great training spot for boxing, lotta other general stuff too. Something about working on the sand made me speed up a ton, it was great. Get some weird marks on you from hitting the sand hard too many times, though (we did a lot of throwing and stuff, too).
SoDakGuy Posts: 745
Jan 17, 2008 6:02 PM GMT
I'm having problems (Well, last night I did) getting into the guy, popping him in the ribs and then immediately giving him a hook to the face.

Do any of you have some issues in boxing that comes up from time to time?
Glover69UK Posts: 2
Jan 27, 2008 9:20 PM GMT
Hi lads,

Great forum thread. I'm Keith and I'm from London. I've box and I love it. I'm sure that there are a whole load of curious and covertly gay blokes who box. It's just that they're not obvious and choose to keep it under wraps because they think it will affect their image. We know that's not true, of course. The fact that we prefer guys to birds (English slang for girls. LOL) doesn't mean we're bot masculine and can't hold our own in a fight, does it?

I'm intrigued about the whole UFC thing. You may know that UFC 80 was staged in Newcastle and I watched it back on video. I've heard the rumours that a number of fighters on the circuit are gay/ bi. Any truth to that do you think, lads?

By the way, if you do box, please feel free to message me. Be great to chat with you.

Cheers, fellas.

boxerterry Posts: 1
Jun 23, 2008 11:47 PM GMT
HEY GUYS. SERIOUS BOXER 5'8, 190, SHAVED HEAD GO-TEE HERE IN LOS ANGELES. I AM ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WORK OUT PARTNERS AND SPARRING PARTNERS ...I AM GAY AND OUT AND TOUGH. I HAVE ACCESS TO BOXING RING AND LOTS OF GEAR SO HIT ME UP IF YOUR INTERESTED OR HEADING INTO LOS ANGLES AND WE CAN SWAP SOME LEATHER & SWEAT.
a1972guy Posts: 3008
Jun 24, 2008 12:19 AM GMT
Getting back in to it again!!!
mickeytopogig... Posts: 2614
Jun 25, 2008 8:53 PM GMT
1969er saidPhotobucket

I'm so pissed you beat me to it.

But, I'd have picked something stretchier.
SoDakGuy Posts: 745
Jun 25, 2008 9:56 PM GMT
I have my first amateur fight this summer. I'm excited!!

Say ... I'm heading to Chicago. Where are some gyms in the Boystown area I can use that has bags for practice?
Jul 15, 2008 6:53 AM GMT
I fought 4 years in HS and still own the record as being the only undefeated boxer ever to fight in my HS. I also fought in college, and never lost, but I came much closer to being beaten in college than I ever did in HS. I am not the best boxer, by far, but I was the most determined never to lose. Never did, though I fought some brutal fights and if the judges had awarded them to my opponents, I would have understood. Such is the fight game.
Jul 15, 2008 7:05 AM GMT
They would never make boxing part of the Gay Games...
But if they ever did, I would come out of 20 years retirement to fight again. Definitely. 45yo's old, and I would take on all comers, any weight, any age.

I fought at 160's. Roughly middleweight. I fought heavyweights in HS. I definitely would give it a shot. 180's now, but built bigger than I was in HS.

MMA? I just took on a 25yo Jui-jutsu guy and pummeled him. He had no stand up game at all. Maybe on the ground he would have dominated me, but he never had a chance. He was a Gracie- guy that never had been hit in the face.
joemax Posts: 2
Jul 22, 2008 1:50 AM GMT
I'm an [amateur] boxer, in NYC.

The homophobia sucks in boxing community cause otherwise most boxers are actually super nice, down-to-earth people. It doesn't seem worth the grief to "come out" in the sport honestly, even though I came out in high school in a rather public way. And for the most part, it doesn't even really come up, boxers like to talk about boxing and that's just fine by me, but there is always homophobic crap tossed around too, and I hate biting my tongue.

And... I'm out in every other aspect of my life, so I get a little nervous because NYC, as anyone lives here can tell you, can be extremely small and it wouldn't surprise me if the two worlds inadvertently mixed at some point. I've brought dates to fights and even my ex to work out with me at the gym once.

Still, boxing's the best sport in the world, and I've found there are a surprising number of gay men in sport, including ex-military boxers and I even met a UFC fighter and Olympian. So, we are around, we just keep a low profile.

I *wish* the Gay Games would do boxing events!!
joemax Posts: 2
Jul 22, 2008 1:53 AM GMT
By the way, there's a new book out I'm reading about the most famous gay boxer of all time, Emile Griffith:

http://www.amazon.com/NINE-TEN-OUT-Worlds-Emile-Griffith/dp/0979994721
Aug 18, 2008 5:26 AM GMT
Emile Griffith was a fantastic boxer but I would not call him the most famous boxer of all time. Ali, Robinson, definitely Louis, my idol Jack Dempsey, the Manassa Mauler and one of the all time greats, Jack Johnson who was untouchable and so far beyond any of his competition, Sugar Ray Leanord who really was special in his prime, Marciano who was famous for never losing but in reality was not so great, Ezzard Charles who was great but under rated, Willie Pep. Lots of guys more famous than Emile, but Emile was a damn good fighter. Dempsey was my fave and listed as 3rd best Heavyweight Champion by Ring Magazine. Small for a heavyweight at maybe 190lbs. but fought guys 240lbs and pummeled them. Back when the champs fought 4-5 times a year instead of once or twice like today. Started fighting in railroad yards and miner camps when rules did not apply. Just one tough fucker. Lost to Tunney in the Famous Long Count fight. A boxing classic. First time when the rules said you had to go to a neutral corner when you knocked down an opponent. Dempsey was not used to that and hovered over Tunney after decking him and it took 17 seconds for the ref to get him to a neutral corner allowing Tunney time to recover. Dempsey was living the high life and had not trained enough and gassed and lost, but still a great fight.
Aug 18, 2008 5:37 AM GMT
Whoops. Sorry. You said most famous "gay" boxer and in my excitement I missed that. He may have been the most famous gay boxer, but I don't think he was out during his career, but that is neither here nor there.

I met Leon Spinks once. He was the guy who won Olympic Gold and in only his 6-7 pro fight beat Ali in the late 70's. One of the biggest upsets in boxing history, but in reality Ali had been winning fights after beating Foreman to regain the title mostly on reputation. I watched it with my Dad and actually got so excited I broke the chair I was sitting in. And then Ali beat him in the rematch which was unbelievable.

By the time I met him he was a greeter at Mike Ditka's Steak House in Chicago in 1988 or so. Kinda sad. Now he is a janitor in St. Louis, I think, sleeping in the boiler room. SI just had a story on him. Too bad. His brother Michael made millions and held on to them.
Oct 25, 2008 10:41 AM GMT
I have been into boxing on an off since my teens but didn't get into it till my late 20's, less about being gay and more about being into it as a fetish, wanting more then just a spar. I often wondered why the only gay men I met into boxing were into it as a sexual outlet. Adrenaline and Testosterone aren't exclusive to straight guys, I agree with the overall consensus that won't make you a champion street fighter but how you carry yourself in walk and confidence can avoid a lot of that too. I think learning to fight to know when and when not to is more important. I have been lucky to meet other gay men into it even if just a couple.
Nov 23, 2008 7:06 PM GMT
Hey, am a boxer here in NYC. 30, 6'1, 175ish with some sparring experience. Please hit me up if you live in the City or are visiting and want to train/spar. Peace.
Xenoboy Posts: 6
Mar 22, 2009 6:14 PM GMT
Im boxing to, i like to make sparring at least once a week.

I dont know any gay boxers in my city, it wolud be great have a gay friend (handsome )to share this hobby.
Mar 22, 2009 6:26 PM GMT
Kickboxing and Tae Kwon Do. New Jersey style.
Apr 06, 2009 11:59 AM GMT
Boxing is dead. MMA is the sport of the future. Coming from a former boxer that loved the sport. But it is dead. Watch an MMA fight. Way more exciting than boxing. I just watched an old Ali fight. I loved it but it was like watching dinosaurs. George St. Pierre is ten times more exciting than the best boxers. Boxing killed itself with too many titles, WBA, WBC, IBF. Tyson used to be the champ. I have no idea who is now. A Klitscho brother? Does anyone care anymore? De LaHoya? Sad and tired. Who cares? His fights are boring. Give me a good UFC card anytime.
Mutty Posts: 1163
Apr 06, 2009 12:04 PM GMT
ROFLMFAO! I can't believe I expected a thread on boxer briefs that look gay!

Hmmz, not a bad idea for a new thread!
Apr 06, 2009 12:42 PM GMT
muttskins saidROFLMFAO! I can't believe I expected a thread on boxer briefs that look gay!

Hmmz, not a bad idea for a new thread!

Agreed! I was kinda hoping this was about gay boxer shorts myself. In fact, I'm wearing some right now, that my partner gave me for Christmas: Hawaiian print with lovely tropical flowers all over, and hula girls, and fruits, and island boys, and vacation snapshots... I could start a thread on these boxers alone.
Johnnyboytoy Posts: 1
Jun 14, 2009 4:04 AM GMT
SoDakGuy saidBesides me, are there any other gay boxers out there?


not me, but I do like watching it
Jun 14, 2009 5:10 AM GMT
Another one right here!
SoDakGuy Posts: 745
Jun 15, 2009 4:55 PM GMT
Yay!

BJJMMAFighter saidAnother one right here!
FreddieMercur... Posts: 3
Jun 17, 2009 6:44 PM GMT
The 1st and 2nd GAY GAMES had Boxing Competitions in them, i vote that those who still box should come together and get boxing in the 2010 Gay Games...we just have to organize the competition ourselves; and i think it can be done. Any Takers? Contact Me.

SoDakGuy Posts: 745
Aug 04, 2009 7:57 PM GMT
http://www.out.com/detail.asp?page=1&id=25631

Woo hoo!

There are other gay boxers out there! Yay!
svengali11 Posts: 168
Aug 04, 2009 8:10 PM GMT
Check out Mikesfightshow on youtube. My ex is a boxer and regularly puts on fight shows in LA.
svengali11 Posts: 168
Aug 04, 2009 8:11 PM GMT
hotversguy saidi walk by Gleason's every day and dream....


Stop into Gleasons sometime---they put on some cool competitions there. A few years ago there was a guy there who went by the name of Pinky----hilarious!
SoDakGuy Posts: 745
Aug 07, 2009 3:18 PM GMT


Now this is a fight and I want to continue to learn to fight like that.
phemt Posts: 976
Aug 07, 2009 3:27 PM GMT
I've done grappling styles of martial arts, but only slight boxing practice.
firecracker1 Posts: 6
Aug 20, 2009 2:37 AM GMT
Boxing, Muai Thai, Submission Wrestling so MMA. Total going on 6 years, started late in life. Love it no matter how busted up I get. Anyone else in my area?
Aug 20, 2009 2:40 AM GMT
Training in some boxing, but no sparring yet.
Aug 22, 2009 1:38 PM GMT
I box. Enjoy the hell out of it and have acquired some knowledge but am nonetheless still a very poor boxer.
Arjento Posts: 4
Oct 01, 2009 6:43 AM GMT
I box now, well starting it up again anyways.
Boxermn Posts: 1
Oct 13, 2009 10:10 PM GMT
Yep I'm a boxer.. have enjoyed it for many years. I got sick of fetishizing it and literally went to a gym and asked them if they could teach me. They did. Hell I competed in the Folsom Fights at Hank Trouts in 99, defeated my opponent and won by a KO. And those guys are now great friends.

If you like this.. DO it. Ive coached guys who needed to exercise their Warrior inside and boxing did this for me. Its a helluva way to gain self confidence and keep guys from messing with you. Yea, its also a way to meet men also.

There are more of us than we think and the wrestlers dont know the thrill rush and rush it is to take a punch and give a punch.

Bob
Dayton OH
Oct 13, 2009 10:33 PM GMT
Mutty saidROFLMFAO! I can't believe I expected a thread on boxer briefs that look gay!

Hmmz, not a bad idea for a new thread!

You need to be a little more proactive. Here:

Nov 06, 2009 7:44 PM GMT
I haven't actually been in the ring, but the training is a kick-ass workout.
Nov 07, 2009 11:07 PM GMT
I just started boxing and I love it. I'm actually using a lot of the martial arts techniques I learned when I was younger. The gym I go to also offers kickboxing and muay thai, both of which I wanna try further down the road