The Golden Rule for Dating Gay Men....

  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 10, 2009 4:10 AM GMT
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    The Golden Rule for Dating Gay Men is: Never date anybody crazier than yourself. icon_wink.gif
  • Acorns

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    Dec 10, 2009 4:12 AM GMT
    That's the whole population of gay men though!
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 10, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    Acorns saidThat's the whole population of gay men though!



    lol.....ya think? icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 10, 2009 6:47 AM GMT
    at this point, i'll date a total psycho...icon_rolleyes.gif
  • drypin

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    Dec 10, 2009 6:49 AM GMT
    Thank goodness it takes about 6 months to make a judgment call.
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    Dec 10, 2009 6:52 AM GMT
    Rules....what rules...just be good to each other...is that a rule???
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    Dec 10, 2009 7:09 AM GMT
    Wait, the Golden Rule also applies to the guy you're dating. The Golden Rule therefore has the following...

    Corollary: Only date guys who are as crazy as you.
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    Dec 10, 2009 10:26 AM GMT
    icon_lol.gif you hot god bless you and you family, happy xmas sexi thanks. arturo from denver colorado.
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    Acorns saidThat's the whole population of gay men though!



    lol.....ya think? icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 10, 2009 10:34 AM GMT
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    Acorns saidThat's the whole population of gay men though!
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    Dec 10, 2009 11:04 AM GMT
    zotamorf62 saidWait, the Golden Rule also applies to the guy you're dating. The Golden Rule therefore has the following...

    Corollary: Only date guys who are as crazy as you.


    Yup, that's what I got out of this too. That's the only kind of guy you can date according to the rule.

    This rule sucks. I move to abolish it.
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    Dec 10, 2009 11:16 AM GMT
    Just date guys that are like you. Good guys. Decent guys. Use your natural instincts. Is he too good to be true? Maybe he has a past. Is he beautiful and he wants to be with you? Maybe he is a serial guy. Have you met his family? If not, why? Meet his family. No family? Maybe that is a tell. Guys that are to good to be true are. Don't be stupid. Not that hard. Use your instincts. If it seems too good to be true it probably is. Use your instincts. Beautiful guys are rarely alone unless there is a reason..
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    Dec 10, 2009 11:20 AM GMT
    You forgot to tell everyone that you're 46, Triggerman.
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    Dec 10, 2009 12:47 PM GMT
    malefeet saidgolden-rule.jpg

    Date guys with gold lining their pockets.
  • coolarmydude

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    Dec 10, 2009 12:51 PM GMT
    Triggerman will be lonely...icon_rolleyes.gif


    I mean, that explains why Triggerman is lonely.
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    Dec 10, 2009 12:53 PM GMT
    Acorns saidThat's the whole population of gay men though!


    No they aren't. The crazy ones are just the ones you see all the time when you go out.

    The saner ones aren't so visible or so available.
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    Dec 10, 2009 1:01 PM GMT
    If you are too quick to label a guy as "too good to be true" without taking the time to get to know him, then maybe he IS too good for YOU.

    A guy who is instantly judged as too good to be true may actually be the truest one around. Send them to me. I'd be happy to enjoy him since you dismissed him.
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    Dec 10, 2009 1:03 PM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    Acorns saidThat's the whole population of gay men though!

    No they aren't. The crazy ones are just the ones you see all the time when you go out.

    The saner ones aren't so visible or so available.

    Agree. It's also why the general public, and even some gays ourselves, believe the stereotype of the swishy loud queen being the most common gay personality. You just notice "her" type of attention-grabbing flamboyance in public more, whereas the quiet gays are just -- quiet. And non-crazy gay guys don't draw attention to themselves, either.
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    Dec 10, 2009 1:03 PM GMT
    If u elimante the wacko's your standards might fall below the waist line. Making every Tom,Dick and Harry a possibility. I guess in some cases that might be a good thing!
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    Dec 10, 2009 2:47 PM GMT

    I thought the Golden Rule for dating gay men was : Be Hot.
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    Dec 10, 2009 2:52 PM GMT
    treat others as you wish to be treated...
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    Dec 10, 2009 3:19 PM GMT
    My golden rule is the 3,5,100 rule

    You should never date anyone who's IQ is less than 3 times, can bench less than 5 times or has a credit limit of less than 100 times the size of his waistline

    (in inches, lbs and dollars) icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 11, 2009 1:09 PM GMT
    I have two goldens rules if I think a guy has long term potential

    The "blue balls waiting period" and the "actual talking" rule.

    Wait 3-5 dates before getting naked and doing the nasties. Its ok to remove shirts, but pants stay on, dry humping and kissing is allowed, seeing each other naked in the gym is fine and pressing/grinding is good too. But no sex. ( this rule, theoretically can be broken in emergencies..LOL).

    Talking on the phone is better than texting and emails, at least in the beginning. Its good to hear his actual voice and to pickup the phone when he calls. You get to interact on a more personal level.

    Hookups and booty calls are exempt.