Missed out on great sex

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    Dec 10, 2009 8:55 PM GMT
    Who has not taken the bait or responded to a come on from a hot guy and regrets it and realises it would have probably been a great screw

  • Dec 10, 2009 9:47 PM GMT
    I would have to say that I am definitely guilty of this. I simply didn't realize that I was being hit on. My friends tell me that I am oblivious to attention that I get all around me. They are right, I don't have a clue when I'm being hit on unless, he grabs my ass. That's a pretty good sign, right? icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 10, 2009 9:57 PM GMT
    Yes. After I broke up someone once, I was pretty messed up, and refused advances from a few guyys at bars and clubs because I was so upset. Probably would have had lots of fun with them. Oh well, not really a big deal anyways.
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    Dec 10, 2009 10:23 PM GMT
    I came on to myself last night but I was just to tired so I turned myself down....now I regret it because it think I would have had the best sex with myself ever!! lmao...I couldn't resist.
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    Dec 10, 2009 10:47 PM GMT
    "Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard / Are sweeter"

    What you're regretting is fantasy, right? Fantasy is always better than reality. (After all, Keats said so, and he's always right.)
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    Dec 10, 2009 11:10 PM GMT
    mountain_rider saidI would have to say that I am definitely guilty of this. I simply didn't realize that I was being hit on. My friends tell me that I am oblivious to attention that I get all around me. They are right, I don't have a clue when I'm being hit on unless, he grabs my ass. That's a pretty good sign, right? icon_eek.gif


    I have the same problem. This has happened to me with some straight guys more than once and gay guys too.


    Or I'm too polite and insecure to believe this really hot guy wants to do me...

    I always realize it after the fact and kick myself for it!


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    Dec 11, 2009 12:23 AM GMT
    It use to bother me when I thought back about how closeted and scared I was in my youth. I have since made up for it and I now realize missing out on hot sex is not missing out on much in the long run. I love hot sex but the euphoria is ephemeral. Missing out on a potential love affair is much worse.
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    Dec 11, 2009 12:30 AM GMT
    Not totally an answer to the question, but I had an ex boyfriend who I loved wholeheartedly. I had only topped him and I had wanted to bottom for him because I wanted to experience everything with him, but we broke up before that could happen.

    Yeah, yeah, probably too much information. haha icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 11, 2009 12:45 AM GMT
    Not really. I see life as things happening for a reason, so if it's meant to be, I'd be with the guy. If it's not, then I'm not.
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    Dec 11, 2009 12:57 AM GMT
    syd_hockey_79 saidNot really. I see life as things happening for a reason, so if it's meant to be, I'd be with the guy. If it's not, then I'm not.


    Me too. One guy in particular wanted to cheat his boyfriend with me, and I didn't want to do to him what I wouldn't like being done to me.
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    Dec 11, 2009 2:47 AM GMT
    I've turned down three threesomes.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:02 AM GMT
    RunnerBen said "Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard / Are sweeter"
    What you're regretting is fantasy, right? Fantasy is always better than reality. (After all, Keats said so, and he's always right.)


    No he isn't. Keats also said "beauty is truth, and truth, beauty," and gay men know better than anyone that beauty can be as false as a three dollar bill.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:03 AM GMT
    no hot guy ever hits on me.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:06 AM GMT
    AggieBoy saidno hot guy ever hits on me.


    Perhaps they're intimidated? I would be.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:09 AM GMT
    AggieBoy saidno hot guy ever hits on me.

    Why don't you try hitting on them? You might be pleasantly surprised.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:09 AM GMT
    I don't miss on bit sex
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
    I think about it all the time.icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:12 AM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    AggieBoy saidno hot guy ever hits on me.

    Why don't you try hitting on them? You might be pleasantly surprised.


    Aww texdef, you are like my fairy god mother. you are always so encouraging. I love you!
  • styrgan

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    Dec 11, 2009 3:15 AM GMT
    "No excuses, no apologies, no regrets."

    There's plenty of fish in the sea, and you do not have any guarantee that it would have been a great screw. It's just as likely to have been mediocre or bad - in which case you could have saved yourself that awkward moment where you needed to tell someone to grab a breath mint..
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:17 AM GMT
    redbull saidI came on to myself last night but I was just to tired so I turned myself down....now I regret it because it think I would have had the best sex with myself ever!! lmao...I couldn't resist.



    HA!!!! I love it. I never turn myself down.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:22 AM GMT
    AggieBoy said you are always so encouraging.


    Thanks! Just remember, attitude is everything. If you project a sense that you have something good to offer, people will think they'd miss out on something great if they don't get to meet you.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:30 AM GMT
    In life I've learned that when good things go unnoticed the first time around they tend to come back around....eventually. With that being said I just don't sweat the small stuff since I'm sure another opportunity will come around.
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    Dec 11, 2009 3:41 AM GMT
    mountain_rider saidI would have to say that I am definitely guilty of this. I simply didn't realize that I was being hit on. My friends tell me that I am oblivious to attention that I get all around me. They are right, I don't have a clue when I'm being hit on unless, he grabs my ass. That's a pretty good sign, right? icon_eek.gif


    this has been my whole life... my friends in HS thought I was retarded. Course I was crushing so hard on my GF that didnt help either.