When women hit on you....

  • Quirky

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    Dec 12, 2009 3:02 AM GMT
    Is it awkward? Do you tell them "sorry I'm gay", do you briskly ignore them and walk away?

    Share your experiences!..lol

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    Dec 12, 2009 5:33 AM GMT
    I just say "thanks but I'm not interested" if they push, I tell'em I'm gay and if like most women they go "Oh, thats a shame" I go "Yeah, poor you!"
  • zakariahzol

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    Dec 12, 2009 5:42 AM GMT
    That happen to me before. I just ignore it. But some girl are determined , no matter what. They thought I am a good catch. Good job, adventurer, single, no bad habit, mature but responsible. If only they know, I am more a bottom and a first class cocksucker...... To get them of my back, I be like "I like mature women", "I have a gf in other city", "I am into richer women".....you know
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    Dec 12, 2009 5:43 AM GMT
    Girls used to hit on me when I was younger, and I'd just awkwardly deflect their advances. I think the entire female population now realizes I don't play for that team and I haven't gotten hit on by a single girl in years and years.
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    Dec 12, 2009 5:44 AM GMT
    I make out with them and tell them thats all they're gonna get.
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    Dec 12, 2009 5:46 AM GMT
    In my position I cant tell them I'm gay so instead I fart that usually does the trickicon_wink.gif
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    Dec 12, 2009 5:47 AM GMT
    For me, I typically flirt back. Yeah yeah, leading them on... blah blah blah....

    If it gets to them actually wanting to date or whatever, I let them know that they're not selling what I'm buying.

    If they -still- don't get it, I just tell them that I'm celibate.... haha.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Dec 12, 2009 5:52 AM GMT
    kaicho saidFor me, I typically flirt back. Yeah yeah, leading them on... blah blah blah....

    If it gets to them actually wanting to date or whatever, I let them know that they're not selling what I'm buying.

    If they -still- don't get it, I just tell them that I'm celibate.... haha.


    Yeah, I do that too. Not the celibate thing, but the flirting back thing. No harm, no foul.
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    Dec 12, 2009 6:27 AM GMT
    . . . a few weeks ago I was partying with a colleague and her entourage on her birthday and a young woman sent over a drink (Hennessy) to me . . .

    . . . I didn't know what to do . . . I wanted to be gracious and acknowledge the drink, but I didn't know what to say . . . anything I could say seemed awkward . . . "thank you, but your gaydar is abyssmal?" . . . "thank you, but females are just sadly misshapen and don't interest me?" . . .

    . . . I just gave the drink to my friend Michele, the birthday girl . . . and then Michele and I danced the night away . . .
  • jrs1

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    Dec 12, 2009 6:49 AM GMT
    lilTanker said... "Oh, thats a shame" ... "Yeah, poor you!"


    it happens often, but I simply nod and smile, but make no attempts to engage them. it can be awkward, especially when it's someone's mom.
  • allatonce

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    Dec 12, 2009 7:00 AM GMT
    I've been "jumped" by girls a few times (generally alcohol was involved). Sometimes it can cause some awkwardness but you have to nip it in the bud, most girls get the vibe that I'm not interested. Tonight my friend told me her friends saw pictures of me and refer to me as her hot Canadian friend. I appreciated that a lot.
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    Dec 12, 2009 9:58 AM GMT
    They flirt and get turned on by us because we're not hitting on them or glaring at their tits. They find our "approach" new and different. That makes them want to find out more about us or even chase us. They want what they can't have. When I tell them I'm gay, sometimes they think they can be the "one" who is beautiful enough or bright enough to straighten me out. All you can do is just thank them over and over for their compliments but never call them and just ignore it when they lay a hand on you. Funny how they do that - putting their hands on our wrist or arm / shoulder, or brushing a few fingers through our hair - usually in a casual way to accentuate a point and get closer.
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    Dec 12, 2009 10:31 AM GMT
    Depends. A lot of times I flirt back for fun. Sometimes I blush and smile uncontrollably and maybe become flustered. I'm pretty bashful sometimes.

    I never tell them about my sexuality or any of my personal business....not a perfect stranger....not anyone, unless I feel a friendship developing. I would never ignore them...well, there was the crackhead girl with a missing tooth on the bus that one time that said, "Damn you foin!, let me get ya numba". I laughed with her and politely turned to look out the window.
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    Dec 12, 2009 11:04 AM GMT
    Say do what?

    Ain't nobody going to be doing any of that queer stuff around me; yuk......
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    Dec 13, 2009 7:40 PM GMT
    I can never recognize when I'm being hit on, I just think they're being nice or polite so I'll do the same in return and be polite and carry on the conversation or something and then when I walk away all my buddies are like "oh man she was so hitting on you!!" and I feel bad b/c I totally didn't realize and probably lead the poor girl on.
  • westdave

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    Dec 13, 2009 7:57 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidThey flirt and get turned on by us because we're not hitting on them or glaring at their tits. They find our "approach" new and different. That makes them want to find out more about us or even chase us. They want what they can't have. When I tell them I'm gay, sometimes they think they can be the "one" who is beautiful enough or bright enough to straighten me out. All you can do is just thank them over and over for their compliments but never call them and just ignore it when they lay a hand on you. Funny how they do that - putting their hands on our wrist or arm / shoulder, or brushing a few fingers through our hair - usually in a casual way to accentuate a point and get closer.



    this hits home with me....I call it the "Will and Grace" phenomenon.
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    Dec 13, 2009 8:50 PM GMT
    I run away with my hands over my head
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    Dec 13, 2009 9:57 PM GMT
    I have a nasty habit of playing along with it, which I don't recommend. I always find myself hurting their feelings... a result I was trying to avoid by not being up front with them to begin with.
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    Dec 13, 2009 10:05 PM GMT
    I accept it as a compliment, but do let them know that I'm not interested in girls for anything more than friends early on.
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    Dec 14, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    noren said . . . a few weeks ago I was partying with a colleague and her entourage on her birthday and a young woman sent over a drink (Hennessy) to me . . .

    . . . I didn't know what to do . . .. . .



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    Dec 14, 2009 2:21 AM GMT
    Its not awkward. I usually flirt back and when things start to escalate I break it to them. Some still totally don't care and wanna have sex, lol. I decline.
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    Dec 14, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    I went to a block party over the summer at my lesbian friend's neighborhood. Her next door neighbor did not know she was a lesbian and thought we were a couple. When he found out we were not, the guy tried to hook up me up on a date with his daughter. My friend later told me the daughter is in her late 30's , never married, and has been hanging on to her parents for everything her whole life. They've been trying desperately to marry her off. So I've been hit on via the father.
  • SanEsteban

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    Dec 14, 2009 2:40 AM GMT
    I always try to be very kind and polite and social. As soon as the lady makes further advances, I simply look her in the eyes and tell her what a kind compliment that she paid me but that I am gay. They always seem to be very cool about it. Some don't care and still want to go home with me... I just simply decline.
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    Dec 15, 2009 9:39 AM GMT
    inmotion1 saidIts not awkward. I usually flirt back and when things start to escalate I break it to them. Some still totally don't care and wanna have sex, lol. I decline.


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  • MercuryMax

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    Dec 15, 2009 9:40 AM GMT
    Women don't hit on me. Only recently have guys started to. I like it.