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    Dec 16, 2009 7:11 AM GMT
    Hey everyone. I'm sure this has been discussed before but... well here it goes AGAIN (apologies =D )

    Does gaydar exist? Can someone accurately tell if a guy is gay or not? I know it can be obvious at times... but some people, like a lot of guys on this website, I don't see how anyone can distinguish them from straight, based on first impression.

    Also, if it does exist, can it be taught? lol

  • manpit209

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    Dec 16, 2009 7:19 AM GMT
    Gaydar is a combination of intuition and mannerisms. Gay people have a natural ability to kind of weed out the other possible gay people. They're not always right but a lot of times, you can be right on the money. I know that for me some times a guy just catches my eye. I'm not exactly sure why I picked him out of all the other guys around but somehow I "sense" he's possibly gay. If you pursue it, you may find that he actually is.

    If you are checking him out and watching him, you may notice if he's looking at other guys in a lustful way. That's kind of a giveaway. And by you looking at a guy trying to determine if he's gay, other gay people may notice that and then assume you might be gay as well.

    Today at the gym there was a couple of guys who I think most would think are just workout buddies. They caught my eye and were seemed as straight as straight people can be. Later in the locker room they just so happen to have a locker right near me. They're gay and are together. How'd I pick them out? I'm not sure but I know it's partly intuition and their mannerism.

    Gaydar does exist!
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    Dec 16, 2009 7:55 AM GMT
    I believe it exists. I've only been wrong once (he says he isn't gay), but I still don't think deep down I am wrong about him.