My last doctor was so out of touch with what I wanted to talk about that I asked for someone else and I have a great doctor now. He totally understands where I'm coming from and doesn't judge. Guess I got lucky. I also got lucky with my regular medical doctor at the same facility. He's even more "in tune" with where I'm coming from and even suggested a few lab tests that I hadn't even thought about. Yeah, they all came back really good, as we expected, but it's still nice to know.
Point being, you may have to shop around a bit to find a doctor that fits your needs, but you will eventually find one that works for you. Just don't be afraid to ask question after question in the process.