People who BUDDY LIST you, but never respond to your EMAILS

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    Dec 18, 2009 8:49 PM GMT
    What's going on with people like that. I've only had one that's done it, not responded to polite emails, but why would people do that. Is it some game?

    It really boggles the mind.
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    Dec 18, 2009 9:40 PM GMT
    I'm so bad about that. icon_sad.gif

    Most of the time I just get online to check my e-mail and leave but never reply to any of them.
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    Dec 19, 2009 12:10 AM GMT

    They want your beauty permanently displayed on their page? I don't get it. I thought BUDDY LISTING was "deeper" than HOT LISTING, but it doesn't seem to be. And usually, I get so tickled when buddy listed. I find myself intrigued and can't wait to get to know this new buddy, but then he never writes. icon_cry.gif

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    Dec 19, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    They want your beauty permanently displayed on their page? I don't get it. I thought BUDDY LISTING was "deeper" than HOT LISTING, but it doesn't seem to be. And usually, I get so tickled when buddy listed. I find myself intrigued and can't wait to get to know this new buddy, but then he never writes. icon_cry.gif

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    I understand. Maybe they meant to hot list, but clicked on buddy list instead. Then again, this guy hotlisted and buddylisted me. Guys these days. Heavens.
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    Dec 19, 2009 2:51 AM GMT
    Always a puzzler, but I chalk it up to the lister's shyness...or maybe he's just shocked that anyone would respond since the previous 20-30 guys didn't and he doesn't know how to react.
    ("OMG, he mailed me! Abort. Sign out!")
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    Dec 19, 2009 2:55 AM GMT
    If it's a good looking guy, then it's cause he's a jerk (and there are PLENTY of those here!) and that's life in the gay world. If it's not a good looking guy, then beats me!
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    Dec 19, 2009 5:08 AM GMT
    Yeah, personally I don't get requesting a buddy listing when we haven't even talked. Hot List me if you dig what you see. That seems to be good enough. Want me on the Buddy List? Hit me up and say something so we have a reason to be buddies. Pretty simple.
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    Dec 19, 2009 5:29 AM GMT
    This happened to me recently. Someone hot and buddy listed me. I'm always flattered when someone hot lists me, but I was flabbergasted that this guy didn't even drop me an email. Everyone on my buddy list, I email (infrequently, but I still at least am interested in their lives). Needless to say, he didn't appear on MY buddy list.
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    Dec 19, 2009 7:18 AM GMT
    Yeah, I"ve never known what to do with the people who do this.
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    Dec 19, 2009 7:26 AM GMT
    I just delete them usually - but the real fun happens when you delete them because they don't respond, and they either a) request you add them *again*, or b) send an actual email asking why you deleted them. Seriously awkward - it's like some form of social autism.
  • Webster666

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    Dec 19, 2009 7:32 AM GMT
    If you make their "Buddy LIst" and/or "Hot List" it simply means that they're collecting hot pics.
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    Dec 19, 2009 7:35 AM GMT
    ...are.... so easy to delete. icon_twisted.gif