Birds Of A Feather...

  • NyRuinz

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    Dec 19, 2009 5:00 PM GMT
    Question fellas would you refrain from dating a guy based on his friends (drug using, dick crazy, drama queens). I met this guy I like and he really likes me, but the problem is his friends are very chaotic, and they are definitely people I don't want around me or in my business, they are a couple of years older than me and the guy, but it's pretty obvious they have yet to mature.

    The guy I like does like to party a lot, but at the same time he treats me well and goes out of his way for me. Me and they guy have a mutual friend, well they are actually no longer friends due to the drama queens. The mutual friend feels my guy allowed the drama queens to influence his thinking when it came to him, and ruin the friendship. Even though I do like this guy, I am trying to be proactive and avoid any potential drama. icon_confused.gif
  • TexanMan82

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    Dec 19, 2009 5:03 PM GMT
    I would give it a chance. but, it would definitely be a red flag for me and something to keep an eye on.
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    Dec 19, 2009 5:19 PM GMT
    There have been lots of times when I lkes me a guy, and we were getting along well. Then I saw how he was with his friends and the characters he considered friends.

    It was as if he wanted to be a certain way with me, but then be his true stupid self with the rest of his life. For me, it doesn't work that way.

    Yes. Birds of a feather flock together. That is one of the few areas where I will judge a guy and label him as someone I don't like based on his friends.
  • NyRuinz

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    Dec 19, 2009 5:25 PM GMT
    KissingPro saidThere have been lots of times when I lkes me a guy, and we were getting along well. Then I saw how he was with his friends and the characters he considered friends.

    It was as if he wanted to be a certain way with me, but then be his true stupid self with the rest of his life. For me, it doesn't work that way.

    Yes. Birds of a feather flock together. That is one of the few areas where I will judge a guy and label him as someone I don't like based on his friends.


    Yeah man I was feeling the same way, and one of those Drama Queens has been trying to get in my pants for quite some time (aint happening) so I am sure if he found out I was dating this guy he would try and cause problems.
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    Dec 19, 2009 6:11 PM GMT
    NyRuinz saidBirds of a Feather...


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    CONFINE your man....to show the world you love him. Give him cold bars to cling to. Make sure he only see you.

    Sometimes it's HARD to be a warden, giving all your love to just one man. You'll have good times AND he'll have bad times: doing only the things you say he can. If you love him, you'll forgive him for doing things you didn't say he can.

    Oh if you love him, then be proud of him because after all, you CONFINE your man.