What does 'WHO VIEWED ME RECENTLY' mean to you?

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    Dec 24, 2009 12:48 AM GMT
    I have a question: When a guy looks at your profile and doesn't say hello or anything, would you say it's safe to assume he's not interested?

    I'm pretty shy and don't feel comfortable saying hi to most guys (mostly cause I'm tired of not hearing back from them), so I don't say anything to most guys I look at, even though I may be interested in talking. So what gives?? What is everyone else doing?
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    Dec 24, 2009 12:51 AM GMT
    As long as it never reads, "Who Jerked Off To My Profile Recently" I'm good. icon_biggrin.gif

    Because if some of you only knew....cough...I mean.
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    Dec 24, 2009 1:21 AM GMT
    Doesn’t mean anything to me, guys view me, I view guys.
    Sometimes it’s just to see where you live.
    I don’t think you should stop saying hi, if you see something you like say so. If they don’t respond, that’s cool, move on.
    There are many reasons why someone doesn’t respond don’t take it so personally.
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    Dec 24, 2009 1:23 AM GMT
    Shy just about sums it up here, for me. That, and being at, what seems like, an awkward age where I'm not sure what I should be considering as too young or too old to be realistic.icon_redface.gif
  • islander24

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    Dec 24, 2009 2:04 AM GMT
    Usually something in a response makes me want to know more , not necessarily because I am attracted, but curious.
    Age ?
    Location?

    Maybe attracted. Maybe just to see what caused them to check out me.
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    Dec 24, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
    I don't put too much thought into it. They're probably just browsing. I really don't expect everyone who views my profile to say Hello. That just seems a bit unreasonable.

    I do notice that some guys view my profile on a semi-frequent basis. I think it's because they just want to see what new music I'm listening to or what new links I put up. If they really wanted to say Hello or start a conversation, I'm sure they would.

    It's ok if you're shy. The internet gives you a bit of leeway to step out of your comfort zone. If you send a message and they don't respond, then just move on. Eventually you'll find someone that wants to engage in conversation with you.
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    Dec 24, 2009 2:28 AM GMT
    I almost always check a profile before I make a thread comment about something he's posted. It can be relevant in my reply to know his age and location, maybe background, career and interests. I never randomly scan profiles out of curiosity or to cruise.

    And so I wouldn't read too much into some guy checking your profile.
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    Dec 24, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    Yeah it doesn't mean anything. They view me, I view them back.
    I often (well really most of the time) look at the profiles and don't say hello cause it just feels weird to go there and say "hey, how are you? let's chat!!" haha. And when I do, they just don't answer back so I'm feeling kinda stupid lol ugh!!
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    Dec 24, 2009 2:53 AM GMT
    I never talk to the pretty ones ,I just look at them. It's like they were made for looking at not talking to. icon_biggrin.gif

    plus I'm shy...icon_neutral.gif

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    Dec 24, 2009 3:02 AM GMT
    doesn't mean much -- browsing. like hitting lolcats or perez when you're not sure what you need to do next on your computer. now a hotlist or message, that's something else. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 24, 2009 3:56 AM GMT
    it doesn't mean anything...unless its the same person looking at it over and over again.
  • Webster666

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    Dec 24, 2009 3:57 AM GMT
    It means that somebody viewed me recently, for some reason...
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    Dec 24, 2009 4:39 AM GMT
    nysexy saidit doesn't mean anything...unless its the same person looking at it over and over again.


    icon_biggrin.gif I like your new picture...

    lol jk
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    Dec 24, 2009 5:05 AM GMT
    Is there any way we can get a "Who jerked off to my profile recently" option?
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    Dec 24, 2009 5:15 AM GMT
    when i look at it....it only makes me ask why didnt he say hi?...and thats it.
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    Dec 24, 2009 10:52 AM GMT
    Well, I view other people's profiles and rarely send a message off, but I am a shy bastard so go figure.
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    Dec 24, 2009 11:03 AM GMT
    Love looking at the guys - don't care how they take it icon_biggrin.gif
    Obviously most of the young Deities don't look back - who cares? It's just looking. A lot of the guys I look at are not traditionally attractive, but I think they are sexy anyway ... I like to look at all of them. Plus I can really stop and study faces and bodies in a way that I wouldn't in real life
  • GQjock

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    Dec 24, 2009 11:25 AM GMT
    Gentlemen .... lest it be known

    It's a Website icon_confused.gif

    So you look at a guy's profile
    That's why he posted it in the first place
    and as far as you contacting guys who don't answer
    Does it really mean anything in the scheme of things?
    It's really no where near the same level as a rebuff in person
    just go on to the next one
    If you'd like to chat with someone Say Hello
    If you can't do that here .... where else are you going to do it

    Resolution Time's close

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    Dec 24, 2009 11:54 AM GMT
    NCemtOBX saidShy just about sums it up here, for me. That, and being at, what seems like, an awkward age where I'm not sure what I should be considering as too young or too old to be realistic.icon_redface.gif

    LOL same here....
  • SanEsteban

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    Dec 24, 2009 12:55 PM GMT
    There are many reasons I view a profile. Often the picture captures my attention and I view to see where they are, read about them etc, especially when I am reading forums. I like to know something about the person, ideally, before I respond in a forum so I have an idea where they are "coming from" when they made a forum content.

    Also, there are so many very attractive and sweet guys here BUT I am also very shy making the first contact. I need to say VERY SHY. There are many I would love to message and get to know but I don't because of this shyness. I know, it's kind of lame.

    If someone views my profile, I like to view theirs also. You just never know when you may meet a new friend. icon_biggrin.gif
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Dec 24, 2009 12:58 PM GMT
    NCemtOBX saidShy just about sums it up here, for me. That, and being at, what seems like, an awkward age where I'm not sure what I should be considering as too young or too old to be realistic.icon_redface.gif


    You're pretty good looking, which means you get a free pass. View away!
  • DarkSensation

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    Dec 24, 2009 1:01 PM GMT
    SanEsteban saidThere are many reasons I view a profile. Often the picture captures my attention and I view to see where they are, read about them etc, especially when I am reading forums. I like to know something about the person, ideally, before I respond in a forum so I have an idea where they are "coming from" when they made a forum content.

    Also, there are so many very attractive and sweet guys here BUT I am also very shy making the first contact. I need to say VERY SHY. There are many I would love to message and get to know but I don't because of this shyness. I know, it's kind of lame.

    If someone views my profile, I like to view theirs also. You just never know when you may meet a new friend. icon_biggrin.gif


    A Hot Guy like you and Still Shy? Grow Man icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 24, 2009 1:01 PM GMT
    LOL, just checked out a few members who posted to this tread..
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    Dec 24, 2009 1:04 PM GMT
    The purpose of profiles is to be viewed. It's a great way to be nosey without intrusive and it's the freedom of the web: you get to stare in a way that wouldn't otherwise be acceptable. It's like visiting a real estate open house. Nosing around is not only sanctioned, but encouraged. Think of yourself as a three-bedroom, two and a half bath colonial with a newly redone kitchen and a great back yard for kids.
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    Dec 24, 2009 1:13 PM GMT
    jawrhed saidLove looking at the guys - don't care how they take it icon_biggrin.gif
    Obviously most of the young Deities don't look back - who cares? It's just looking. A lot of the guys I look at are not traditionally attractive, but I think they are sexy anyway ... I like to look at all of them. Plus I can really stop and study faces and bodies in a way that I wouldn't in real life

    I agree there, Santa Chest... errr, I mean CLAUS.

    (Note for later readers when jawrhed's main pic changes back, right now it's a LOVELY bare-chested shot of him with a red Santa cap on his head - YUM!)

    And yeah, I did check his profile before I wrote this comment. So that I learned he's from Layfayette, Louisiana, a place I've been myself, which may or may not have some relevance in some future thread comment.