SEX AND YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, LIFE PARTNER ETC ETC

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    Dec 24, 2009 6:52 PM GMT
    Does it matter if you are a top (subjective term) or bottom (subjective term) in a relationship? I would imagine that if two people truly love each other, then in the sexual adventures, having you partner wanting to penetrate you or being penetrated by you is strictly off limits, or do you subscribe to prescribed gender roles or the :

    To be penetrated is feminine (weak, submissive) and un-masculine (dominant, strong)
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    Dec 24, 2009 8:28 PM GMT
    Well to me it would be very important...I'm more of a submissive Type, lol but still Masc...My partner would have to be more Dominant and more of aTop to Balance the relationship...I guess icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 24, 2009 8:52 PM GMT
    DarkSeduction saidWell to me it would be very important...I'm more of a submissive Type, lol but still Masc...My partner would have to be more Dominant and more of aTop to Balance the relationship...I guess icon_neutral.gif


    why is necessary to be top and bottom in a relationship?
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    Dec 24, 2009 9:09 PM GMT
    Lucky Pierre is my nickname for a reason! ;)
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    Dec 24, 2009 9:23 PM GMT
    free_spirit09 said
    DarkSeduction saidWell to me it would be very important...I'm more of a submissive Type, lol but still Masc...My partner would have to be more Dominant and more of aTop to Balance the relationship...I guess icon_neutral.gif


    why is necessary to be top and bottom in a relationship?


    It's not always Necessary, but when each partner knows their Places or Sexual roles....the Relationships tend to Fit Better or Insynch icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 24, 2009 9:23 PM GMT
    Why is it necessary to over-analyze every term out there?icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 24, 2009 10:32 PM GMT
    DarkSeduction said
    free_spirit09 said
    DarkSeduction saidWell to me it would be very important...I'm more of a submissive Type, lol but still Masc...My partner would have to be more Dominant and more of aTop to Balance the relationship...I guess icon_neutral.gif


    why is necessary to be top and bottom in a relationship?


    It's not always Necessary, but when each partner knows their Places or Sexual roles....the Relationships tend to Fit Better or Insynch icon_biggrin.gif


    What do you mean know their places? please elaborate, it sounds sexist
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    Dec 24, 2009 10:46 PM GMT
    free_spirit09 saidDoes it matter if you are a top (subjective term) or bottom (subjective term) in a relationship? I would imagine that if two people truly love each other, then in the sexual adventures, having you partner wanting to penetrate you or being penetrated by you is strictly off limits, or do you subscribe to prescribed gender roles or the :

    To be penetrated is feminine (weak, submissive) and un-masculine (dominant, strong)


    No, it doesn't matter. We are 2 men in our relationship, whatever side of our plumbing gets used during sex has no bearing on us being men. Why should 2 men who truly love each other not fuck? Bottoming during sex has nothing to do with being masculine or feminine. You seem to subscribe to some very old stereotypes.
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    Dec 25, 2009 12:15 AM GMT
    free_spirit09 said
    DarkSeduction said
    free_spirit09 said
    DarkSeduction saidWell to me it would be very important...I'm more of a submissive Type, lol but still Masc...My partner would have to be more Dominant and more of aTop to Balance the relationship...I guess icon_neutral.gif


    why is necessary to be top and bottom in a relationship?


    It's not always Necessary, but when each partner knows their Places or Sexual roles....the Relationships tend to Fit Better or Insynch icon_biggrin.gif


    What do you mean know their places? please elaborate, it sounds sexist

    I think your placing way to much stock in sexual roles someone plays, yes, sex in a relationship can be completely 50/50 sexually, however, that is only assuming that the two men are both versatile, some men really are bottoms, some men really are tops and while each will occasional venture out and swap roles and possibly enjoy it, it wont be the same.

    The important thing isn't the role a person plays in a relationship, it's that they feel comfortable in that role and are happy to be there.
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    Dec 25, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
    Every thread you post which I read. You always hate on feminine. Damn Shame