Hot is Hot, So Screw the Gay Racial Hierarchy!

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    Dec 27, 2009 1:57 AM GMT
    "When most Caucasians look at an Asian, they don't see that he's tall or short, fat or ugly, Chinese, Filippino, Cambodian, all they see is a category that absolutely defines us, but means nothing. 'The Asian'."
    - Forbidden Fruit

    I admit, I'm into white guys as much as the next gay, but I try not to overlook someone due to their race/ethnicity (most of the time). haha.

    For me, I'm just picky, so if you're hot...you're hot regardless of your skin color. Unfortunately, I can't say that this is true for the rest of the gay community, because I know I've been discriminated against from time to time.

    "He's cute for an asian" Is that really a compliment? Just say I'm attractive and leave it at that.

    And screw the whole "asians are not masculine" BS. There are tons of masculine muscular asians out there.

    To add onto this discussion, from my own research (from the University)....the Racial Hierarchy in the gay community in the South (Texas) is White, Hispanics, Asians, Blacks, and Middle Eastern. In the Mid-West (Michigan), it's White, Black/Asian, Hispanic, then Middle Eastern. Is this true in your community/region? If not let me know.
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    Dec 27, 2009 2:00 AM GMT
    Is it true for our region etc?

    100% NO.

    Just what the hell is going on down there?
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    Dec 27, 2009 2:30 AM GMT
    Haha. Maybe I should rephrase.

    What is your ranking if you HAD to rank those 5 ethnicities?
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    Dec 27, 2009 2:34 AM GMT
    lol, you want us to make a list ranking races?

    No can do. Doug here is a mix of 5 races...nearly all you mention.

    -Bill
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    Dec 27, 2009 2:38 AM GMT
    Let the Ranking begin...


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    Dec 27, 2009 2:59 AM GMT
    My Dear,
    Dont let those assholes get you down.icon_exclaim.gif
    Never allow what someone thinks about you determine how you feel about yourself.....Continue being the wonderful spirit that you are...icon_exclaim.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:03 AM GMT
    Unfortunately, I doubt anyone will openly voice their opinion and rank their preference on here. I know when researching, I had to assure participants that their answers were confidential.

    With mixed races, I usually went with what they look like. My niece is half asian half white, but if you saw her, you'd think she was white with her light brown/blonde hair, light skin, and brownish/green eyes.
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:04 AM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidMy Dear,
    Dont let those assholes get you down.icon_exclaim.gif
    Never allow what someone thinks about you determine how you feel about yourself.....Continue being the wonderful spirit that you are...icon_exclaim.gif


    Aww. icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
    I am totally into asians. Asians are #1 in my book. Not everyone is going to feel the same way and whinning isn't going to change anyone's preferrence.
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:16 AM GMT
    shuichiro said
    jgymnast733 saidMy Dear,
    Dont let those assholes get you down.icon_exclaim.gif
    Never allow what someone thinks about you determine how you feel about yourself.....Continue being the wonderful spirit that you are...icon_exclaim.gif


    Aww. icon_smile.gif


    Listen to what jgymnast733 said, he's right on.


    -us
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:22 AM GMT
    meninlove said lol, you want us to make a list ranking races?

    No can do. Doug here is a mix of 5 races...nearly all you mention.

    -Bill


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    Dec 27, 2009 3:30 AM GMT
    shuichiro saidHaha. Maybe I should rephrase.

    What is your ranking if you HAD to rank those 5 ethnicities?

    Can't answer, because I don't rate by ethnicity. I simply don't think in those terms.

    Despite jprichva's list for us South Floridians (which I think isn't far from the truth for some of us), my own list includes:

    - intelligence
    - personality
    - sociability
    - similar interests and mutually supportive talents
    - patience enough to deal with a difficult character like me
    - and above all, a "big heart"

    Nowhere on my list is ethnicity, nationality, skin color, class status, income & wealth, youth, or even a great body. Oh, and of course he's gotta be a gay male, and a supporter of gay rights, which eliminates any US Republicans. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:47 AM GMT
    ROFL phemt, well you know these hybrids, they're easy on gas. (smells like sunshine n rainbows)

    -Bill
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:59 AM GMT
    If a guy is judging you based on your look or whatever that is, then he's not worth it.
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:02 AM GMT
    Welcome to RF, Shuichiro. You will find that personal tastes here are pretty varied.

    It is fascinating to see that your own hotlist has, as of today, 4 guys - all white.
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:30 AM GMT
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    shuichiro saidHaha. Maybe I should rephrase.

    What is your ranking if you HAD to rank those 5 ethnicities?

    Can't answer, because I don't rate by ethnicity. I simply don't think in those terms.

    Despite jprichva's list for us South Floridians (which I think isn't far from the truth for some of us), my own list includes:

    - intelligence
    - personality
    - sociability
    - similar interests and mutually supportive talents
    - patience enough to deal with a difficult character like me
    - and above all, a "big heart"

    Nowhere on my list is ethnicity, nationality, skin color, class status, income & wealth, youth, or even a great body. Oh, and of course he's gotta be a gay male, and a supporter of gay rights, which eliminates any US Republicans. icon_wink.gif


    Well go you! That's what I was looking for. Unfortunately, not everyone thinks this way.
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:35 AM GMT
    bernd saidWelcome to RF, Shuichiro. You will find that personal tastes here are pretty varied.

    It is fascinating to see that your own hotlist has, as of today, 4 guys - all white.


    RF? RealJock Forum? Is so, thanks. icon_smile.gif

    Touche. haha. I figured someone would point that out sooner or later. I never said I didn't like white guys, I think my exact words were, "I like white guys as much as the next". I don't discriminate against a hot body.

    Also, if you've noticed, the majority of RJ members are white, so the likelihood that my 4 "hot list" members are all white is great statistically.
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:36 AM GMT
    dsato17 saidIf a guy is judging you based on your look or whatever that is, then he's not worth it.


    Gotta keep that in mind.
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:28 AM GMT
    a rice cake, chocolate and a glass of milk..
    perfect snack !

    but i've never managed to have them all at once .. tragic.
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:31 AM GMT
    xassantex saida rice cake, chocolate and a glass of milk..
    perfect snack !

    but i've never managed to have them all at once .. tragic.


    Your a sick fuck....but I can't stop laughing. In any case that's somewhat over indulging!
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:46 AM GMT
    tis the season to be jolly ! =)

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    Dec 27, 2009 5:56 AM GMT
    xassantex saidtis the season to be jolly ! =)



    And to overindulge! haha.
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:40 AM GMT
    I am racially vers.
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:42 AM GMT
    just a few weeks ago, I had a delightful dalliance with an asian-american weightlifter . . . a real nice guy and a hottie . . .

    . . . these things really don't need to be so complicated . . .
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:47 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidI am racially vers.


    haha. cute.