Flirting with guys

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    Dec 27, 2009 2:22 AM GMT
    So I was wondering what are the crucial do's and do not's of flirting with other guys

    I consider flirting to be pretty much an art form where by I can evaluate a guy pretty effectively without interrogating him and come off well at the same time. But so many guys suck at it....Really truly suck

    But my big faux pas is why do so many guys feel the need to mention the last guy they had sex with, not only who and how long ago and sometimes go into more graphic details icon_mad.gif

    Memo to all homosexuals, it does not make me think, that you must be so great so many people hot guys want to jump into bed with you

    It just makes me think that your slut, you treat guys like they are disposable jumping from one to the next and that you're giving me something to measure up to

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    Dec 27, 2009 2:45 AM GMT
    A big pet peeve of mine is constant sexual innuendos. This guy at my gym was being extra nice and flirty to me. And he was kinda following me around and working out with me. I was doing cable crunches and he made a comment about me being vulnerable in that position. And then during squats, he made another lame comment. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:43 AM GMT
    the most important thing is to no be creepy!

    And you smile devilishly when you deliver the line/s

    OOOH and don't be creepy, it's worth mentioning more then once.

    Mentioning previous lays is not flirting it's boasting

    Following someone around the gym is just creepy... Don't be creepy

    Smile, always, don't be serious about flirting, simple as that, it's fun, relaxing, exciting and ego boosting, it's not suppose to be all straight faced and stiff, leave that for other parts of your body icon_razz.gif

    Don't be creepy.

    What is creepy? anything that makes my skin crawl
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    Dec 27, 2009 3:57 AM GMT
    My friends always tell me I look disinterested even when I'm "trying" to flirt. Flirting is such a hard thing for me to do...
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:02 AM GMT
    My peeve is that I am always so nervous when talking to really hot jock, I make stupid remarks and talk about my past tricks, thinking that I’m cool but they just ignore me.





  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 27, 2009 4:08 AM GMT
    Hmmmmm...I never flirt....icon_cry.gif
  • DarkSensation

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    Dec 27, 2009 10:50 AM GMT
    Always Smile, Ask Appropriate Questions, compliment Genuinely and Sound Humorous...icon_cool.gif
  • GQjock

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    Dec 27, 2009 10:55 AM GMT
    If you can Tell it flirting right away
    then it's not very good

    All you need to do is SMILE
    get within touching distance .... and you can be talking about
    the weather in Beijing and it will still be flirting
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    Dec 27, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    I'd like to be more vocally flirty, I just don't have the nerve most of the time. But I believe the eyes and a smile can speak volumes (especially if you're within physical range). So it's probably apparent when I am trying to flirt in absolute silence, regardless. At least I hope it is, or I have to start speaking up more.
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:37 PM GMT
    Can someone teach me to flirt please? k thx
  • mustangd

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    Dec 27, 2009 4:50 PM GMT
    one approach is to demonstrate your interest through your observations. if out and about, i'll note a persons taste in clothing, choice of automobile, something that is personal but not too personal. if in the gym, the obvious comes to mind, if the person has a great pair of arms/shoulders/chest development, i'll make a positive remark, and ask them about their routine(s). if the person is gay, and interested in return they will generally put the ball back in my court with some conversation of their own, which i return. if the person isn't interested in a conversation, i'll get a "thanks man" which is my cue to leave the person alone.

    while there is no primer on flirting that works for everyone, that is my approach.
  • Neon_Dreams

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    Dec 27, 2009 4:53 PM GMT
    Damn! Some of you realjocks are pretty uptight and reactionary.

    I LOVE TO FLIRT. All kinds of flirting is fine by me...

    Don't be mad if someone's flirting skills are lacking, immature, or just plain sick. Hate the game, not the playa! Haha. And, lighten up a bit!!

    Life is short and meant to be a happy time. Flirt More! It's fun. :p


    Joe
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:02 PM GMT
    just be fun, not desperate. that's the only advice i can give you.
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:15 PM GMT
    And if you are on the receiving end of flirting, reply. Be honest with them and not leave them in the doubt. The other person put themselves out there, and at the very least acknowledge them and be honest.

    Pay it forward.
  • cowboyathlete

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    Dec 27, 2009 5:19 PM GMT
    xrichx saidA big pet peeve of mine is constant sexual innuendos. This guy at my gym was being extra nice and flirty to me. And he was kinda following me around and working out with me. I was doing cable crunches and he made a comment about me being vulnerable in that position. And then during squats, he made another lame comment. icon_rolleyes.gif
    The guy sounds like a fucking troll.
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    Dec 27, 2009 7:57 PM GMT
    smile and stick your hand up their shorts. Worked well on this amazingly hot mexican guy....

    WHAT?
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    Dec 27, 2009 8:02 PM GMT
    I let my eyes do the flirting. Words just fuck it up.
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    Dec 27, 2009 8:03 PM GMT
    i dont flirt period. that chip was not installed when they manufactured my gay gene.
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    Dec 27, 2009 8:05 PM GMT
    "You look so much better up close than through your window."
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    Dec 27, 2009 8:05 PM GMT
    tereseus1 saidi dont flirt period. that chip was not installed when they manufactured my gay gene.


    Didn't you get the factory recall notice on your model? icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 8:08 PM GMT
    My flirting doesn't sound so much as creepy as it does threatening. Like "don't turn your back" kind of threatening. Like "oops, I dropped my pen--PICK IT UP" sorta threatening. Like "hey nice shoes--TURN AROUND" sort of threatening.
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    Dec 28, 2009 12:41 AM GMT
    Ghen saidCan someone teach me to flirt please? k thx



    me too
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    Dec 28, 2009 12:47 AM GMT
    malefeet saidHmmmmm...I never flirt....icon_cry.gif
    when you sleep... but then again I've never slept with you so you very well might.
    ;)
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    Dec 28, 2009 12:51 AM GMT
    I love a good flirt. It's fun.
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 28, 2009 12:54 AM GMT
    EasilyDistracted said
    malefeet saidHmmmmm...I never flirt....icon_cry.gif
    when you sleep... but then again I've never slept with you so you very well might.
    ;)



    Hmm..something to definitely think about icon_wink.gif
    (and did I ever tell you just how handsome you are?)