Why is it so hard

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    Dec 27, 2009 9:23 AM GMT
    Why is it so hard to find a man, about 6'4 - 6'5 or more (taller then me) built like a brick shit house, with something equivalent to a foot long fire hose, an aggressive dominate top who just wants to go a couple of rounds with me???

    I mean come on, WHY do they all have to be bottoms???? What the hell is up with these guys.. Don't they wanna play submarine ???
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    Dec 27, 2009 9:31 AM GMT
    I don't know about the height issue but there's lots of tops here in Louisiana, or maybe it just seems that way recently icon_lol.gif



    try posting some butt pix
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    Dec 27, 2009 9:31 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    lilTanker saidWhy is it so hard to find a man, about 6'4 - 6'5 or more (taller then me) built like a brick shit house, with something equivalent to a foot long fire hose, an aggressive dominate top who just wants to go a couple of rounds with me???

    I mean come on, WHY do they all have to be bottoms???? What the hell is up with these guys.. Don't they wanna play submarine ???

    I will say,, our man Tank is right.. There's more bottoms than Tops out there for sure... As for the Men taller than you or I,, they are far and few my friend,, far and few!


    I have found a good number of guys who fit the description (although ranging in there foot long not being so foot or long) but you get'em home and suddenly they turn into the most submissive little bitches who think there is nothing hotter then putting there head through the wall as you.. erm.. well.. enjoy there nice backside..

    But really, why all bottoms, it's heart breaking, I just wanna bottom *cries*
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    Dec 27, 2009 9:53 AM GMT
    Ackhem.. I'm 6'3" and not a bottom... but I miserably fail to meet your other requirements lol.

    When you're that specific, it becomes really hard to find what you want. I'm not saying you're wants are unrealistic. Trust me, I'm always looking for people my height, with the particular build that I like, and has a personality I'm attracted too. However, sometimes you can find something you like in guys that are outside of that set of criteria. The smallest guy I've liked was 5'2" 125 lbs. The biggest - 6'2" 320 lbs. Then again, that's because my interests vary... Anyway you get what I mean lol. Keep aiming for the bulls eye, but don't get mad when you're a little off center - you may like the change of scenery icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 9:54 AM GMT
    Don't fret none Tank
    They're out there .... they're just an endangered species
    At the moment
    It cracks me up tho
    You get these big burly guys home and their like these
    upside down Weebles
    You get them in bed and ..... Boop up go the legs icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 27, 2009 10:29 AM GMT
    Sine_Of_Change saidAckhem.. I'm 6'3" and not a bottom... but I miserably fail to meet your other requirements lol.

    When you're that specific, it becomes really hard to find what you want. I'm not saying you're wants are unrealistic. Trust me, I'm always looking for people my height, with the particular build that I like, and has a personality I'm attracted too. However, sometimes you can find something you like in guys that are outside of that set of criteria. The smallest guy I've liked was 5'2" 125 lbs. The biggest - 6'2" 320 lbs. Then again, that's because my interests vary... Anyway you get what I mean lol. Keep aiming for the bulls eye, but don't get mad when you're a little off center - you may like the change of scenery icon_biggrin.gif

    Oh I'm not looking for much personality beyond being being dominate and aggressive dear..

    Hell, beyond those two qualities I couldn't give a damn I don't want a relationship, just a rough wild brutal time in the sack!
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    Dec 27, 2009 10:30 AM GMT
    GQjock saidDon't fret none Tank
    They're out there .... they're just an endangered species
    At the moment
    It cracks me up tho
    You get these big burly guys home and their like these
    upside down Weebles
    You get them in bed and ..... Boop up go the legs icon_rolleyes.gif

    Ugh I know, gawd, I love topping as much as the next guy, but damn it, sometimes I just wanna bite that pillow, beg for more and squeal when the time is right! icon_evil.gif
  • GQjock

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    Dec 27, 2009 10:39 AM GMT
    sometimes I just wanna bite that pillow, beg for more and squeal when the time is right!

    icon_cool.gif Ooh baby
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    Dec 27, 2009 2:48 PM GMT
    For crying out loud, just please let me know where the hell you are finding ANYone over 6'3 to begin with?! I think we're growing shorter in the South. I'm barely 5'11 1/2 or close to it, and I'm considered tall...wtf.

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    Dec 27, 2009 3:49 PM GMT
    ohhh man, ive been waiting for someone to post something about this... i hate that i care so much about tall guys... lol if i could just find a good guy that was at least my height, id be soooo happy! i could not agree more with you!
    of course, im also hoping for a tall guy to have a relationship with, AFTER i make sure the sex is good too, but im starting to wonder if im just going to have to give up on the tall thing.... so depressing... icon_sad.gif

  • Dec 27, 2009 4:36 PM GMT
    For me, height is like dick size: who gives a fuck as long as it's pretty. Different strokes for different folks (but more strokes for me!).

    Looks like you may have to find yourself a corn-fed young'n (or 5) and train him before the World of Cock makes him a total bottom.


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    Dec 27, 2009 4:38 PM GMT
    I don't mean this as a reply to tank, specifically, but:

    Why do gay men set up so many rules about who they will and won't date?
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    Dec 27, 2009 4:48 PM GMT
    There is one guy on RJ that I would dearly love to have...but it ain't ever gonna happen..."life offers us these sadnesses"- Pablo Neruda....sniff....anyways, good for the character....to be denied what you really want...either makes you stronger OR turns you into a bitter, spiteful shit...But hey, who knows? One day, when you least expect it.....BOOM !!!
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:09 PM GMT
    RunnerBen saidI don't mean this as a reply to tank, specifically, but:
    Why do gay men set up so many rules about who they will and won't date?

    Amen to that!
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    Dec 27, 2009 5:13 PM GMT
    If all you're looking for is a tall guy beefy guy to top, why not look for someone in the service industry that fits the bill? Even if they're usually a big ole bottom, for the right amount of cash they can probably act the part reasonably well.
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:00 PM GMT
    I usually wrestle him...first to get the other to to the ground and into submission gets to pick there poison icon_twisted.gif

    Guys announce they're Bottom, top, vers like they really have any say in the matter...the cheek
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:13 PM GMT
    natsimjac1988 saidohhh man, ive been waiting for someone to post something about this... i hate that i care so much about tall guys... lol if i could just find a good guy that was at least my height, id be soooo happy! i could not agree more with you!
    of course, im also hoping for a tall guy to have a relationship with, AFTER i make sure the sex is good too, but im starting to wonder if im just going to have to give up on the tall thing.... so depressing... icon_sad.gif


    I couldn't agree more!
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    GQjock said
    You get them in bed and ..... Boop up go the legs icon_rolleyes.gif



    We call them "helium heels".....
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:28 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidWhy is it so hard to find a man, about 6'4 - 6'5 or more (taller then me) built like a brick shit house, with something equivalent to a foot long fire hose, an aggressive dominate top who just wants to go a couple of rounds with me???


    I may not fit all of those descriptions... but I'm sure you wouldn't be disappointed ;)
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:34 PM GMT
    RunnerBen saidI don't mean this as a reply to tank, specifically, but:

    Why do gay men set up so many rules about who they will and won't date?


    Mostly because they are trying to fulfill fantasies. My fantasy gay date/lover/sex god is smooth, slender, and younger than I. For some reason, this has almost always been my favorite fantasy guy. The guys I had crushes on in high school and college were like this. I'll take 1/3 in real life.
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:39 PM GMT
    MsclDrew saidI usually wrestle him...first to get the other to to the ground and into submission gets to pick there poison icon_twisted.gif

    Guys announce they're Bottom, top, vers like they really have any say in
    the matter...the cheek




    ..........HOT
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    Dec 27, 2009 6:48 PM GMT
    As long as we're pissing and moaning about wanting what we can't get:

    Why is it so difficult to find a muscle hunk that's into smaller framed guys, sexual position be damned?

    Why is it so difficult to find a smart, handsome (who doesn't know he is!) guy with a sense of humor that would love me just for me, no matter what his build/weight/sexual position??
    Oh, wait. I found THAT one!

    So fuck all you muscle guys that passed me over for another 'roid guy! Hope you're happy with the pimples/zits/rage/aggression/narcissism. :-)

    Moral of the story: Stop looking for a fantasy and look for love instead.
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    Dec 27, 2009 7:37 PM GMT
    jawrhed saidI don't know about the height issue but there's lots of tops here in Louisiana, or maybe it just seems that way recently icon_lol.gif



    try posting some butt pix

    I don't know about that. I grew up in New Orleans and there were a lot of bottoms. Maybe its a Laffy thing.
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    Dec 27, 2009 8:45 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidWhy is it so hard to find a man, about 6'4 - 6'5 or more (taller then me) built like a brick shit house, with something equivalent to a foot long fire hose, an aggressive dominate top who just wants to go a couple of rounds with me???

    I mean come on, WHY do they all have to be bottoms???? What the hell is up with these guys.. Don't they wanna play submarine ???


    well, i am taller than you icon_wink.gif
  • stee99

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    Dec 27, 2009 8:50 PM GMT
    ive discovered along the way there are a few basic laws in life..

    1; The man you want to fuck you the most will always be a bottom.

    2; The hottest/most appealing/coolest gear will only ever be the most expensive and hard to get.

    3; kinky guys are only allowed vanilla partners.