Does size really matter?

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    Dec 28, 2009 2:06 AM GMT
    I am always amazed when I am talking to a dude and one of the first things he wants to know about me is how big my penis is. I admit that a big penis is a nice little bonus but it's not gonna make or break the deal for me. What do you guys think? Does the guy have to be hung like a stallion to enjoy him? If so, why?
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    Dec 28, 2009 2:08 AM GMT
    How big is it?
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    Dec 28, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    Haha. My pics speak for themselves and I don't open them for everybody . . .
  • Daniepwils

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    Dec 28, 2009 2:47 AM GMT
    Size helps, but it isn't everything. I'd much rather have an average guy who knows how to use it!

    For some reason though I only have had guys that have 7+.
  • Bunjamon

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    Dec 28, 2009 10:40 AM GMT
    Being tall, people are usually curious about me, too. I think the size of your penis is the least important thing. You can have fun with anything the size of a finger, and a 12-incher as big around as a soda can is so unweildy that you can't do anything with it. What's between a guy's ears is so much more important than what's between a guy's legs.
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    Dec 28, 2009 3:40 PM GMT
    I think penis size is overrated. I mean if its huge what exactly can you do with it, you cant fit in your mouth and it will rip your inside aparts. As long as its not a thimble its fine, there are so many other parts of a guy that are important
  • Timbales

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    Dec 28, 2009 3:41 PM GMT
    It's got to big enough to get from him to you.
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    Dec 28, 2009 4:32 PM GMT
    Nope, if anything I like a smaller willy (lol havn't said that in years). Ideal partner would have a 5 or 6 incher, no bigger.
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    Dec 28, 2009 5:30 PM GMT
    When you walk into work on Monday and you see a friendly coworker, the first question you probably ask is about their weekend. It is a script we follow.

    When chatting to a guy you haven't yet fucked, asking about dick size is all part of the "I would like to fuck you" script. Even when I have chatted with total tops they want to know about my dick size. Maybe because, like all total tops, they secretly want dick in their ass. But more likely it is just because they are following protocol.
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    Dec 28, 2009 11:30 PM GMT
    The journal `Science' has made made a position statement on human penile size and IQ. Apparently there is an inverse correlation.
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    Dec 29, 2009 12:52 AM GMT
    Man, I'm thinking size is onlly one factor. The rest is chemistry.
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    Dec 29, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidBeing tall, people are usually curious about me, too. I think the size of your penis is the least important thing. You can have fun with anything the size of a finger, and a 12-incher as big around as a soda can is so unweildy that you can't do anything with it. What's between a guy's ears is so much more important than what's between a guy's legs.


    Seconded. I think a lot of guys, when they're growing up, come to believe that bigger is better (thanks in large part to porn). But in real life, it really doesn't matter. The important thing is know how to work with what you've got, and finding out what your partner wants.
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    Dec 30, 2009 1:59 AM GMT
    i think size is not real problem for sex, love and communication more important
  • GQjock

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    Dec 31, 2009 8:09 PM GMT
    Usually no ... Most guys fall into the Yeah I can work with this category

    But then there are the comically Large icon_eek.gif
    and the sorry, disappointingly small icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 31, 2009 9:50 PM GMT
    I think it definitely is important for sure.
    Not for me but most gay guys will usually gravitate to a guy with a big dick.
    total bottoms also will usually favour 9 or so inches over an average 6-7'' penis.
    I am barely over 6'' and have had lotsa guys grab my crotch then move on.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jan 01, 2010 2:38 PM GMT
    owenowen said
    I am barely over 6'' and have had lotsa guys grab my crotch then move on.


    Then they weren't worth it in the first place!
  • GQjock

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    Jan 01, 2010 3:07 PM GMT
    owenowen saidI think it definitely is important for sure.
    Not for me but most gay guys will usually gravitate to a guy with a big dick.
    total bottoms also will usually favour 9 or so inches over an average 6-7'' penis.
    I am barely over 6'' and have had lotsa guys grab my crotch then move on.


    What were they tninkin' ? icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 01, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said Even when I have chatted with total tops they want to know about my dick size. Maybe because, like all total tops, they secretly want dick in their ass. But more likely it is just because they are following protocol.


    Nah, a nice dick is nice to look at. I am a top, and have no desire for a dick in my ass. At the same time, I am not going to be selfish and not blow you. That is where size comes into the picture. I agree with what GQJock says, most of the time it will work.
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    Jan 01, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    A big dick always gets my attention. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 01, 2010 11:05 PM GMT
    owenowen saidI think it definitely is important for sure.
    Not for me but most gay guys will usually gravitate to a guy with a big dick.
    total bottoms also will usually favour 9 or so inches over an average 6-7'' penis.
    I am barely over 6'' and have had lotsa guys grab my crotch then move on.


    that's happened to me a bunch of times...ugh
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    Jan 02, 2010 2:33 AM GMT
    I'm in the camp of everything's cool in the range of 5-9'. Too much smaller, or bigger and it can be an issue.
  • Malcolm36

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    Jan 05, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    GQjock said
    owenowen saidI think it definitely is important for sure.
    Not for me but most gay guys will usually gravitate to a guy with a big dick.
    total bottoms also will usually favour 9 or so inches over an average 6-7'' penis.
    I am barely over 6'' and have had lotsa guys grab my crotch then move on.


    What were they tninkin' ? icon_confused.gif


    I agree. My partner and I have had that experience where we were hosting as two tops and invited a guy who wanted to bottom for us but tended to gravitate toward the larger penis.
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    Jan 05, 2010 6:24 AM GMT
    oh pfffffffft yes, size matters...

    If your so small you can't scratch ma hole, then I'm sorry but I won't be very satisfied..

    but that's about where it stops, as long as you can reach most of the spots in my arse I'm pretty happy.

    Having said that, I've this little button, if you start smacking that thing just right, I'll cum so gawd damn hard that my entire body will just tense up (inside and out) and I'll get the roof sticky.

    Thankfully I don't need nor desire that little button to be pushed by guys every time, yes it's an intense feeling, but I never tell anyone where it is anyway (not giving away all ma secrets) and it's a little outta reach for the average endowment, but I enjoy sex immensely with any man I'm with and I don't want that spot hit all the time, it would totally kill it for me.

    For those who can reach beyond it, every time they slide past it, I get a little tingle that goes from my arse to my crotch to my tummy and then goes up my back, but doesn't make me cum thankfully.

    So yes, size is important to me, to a certain extent if I am bottoming for him, but only so far as he can reach my prostate and give it a good thumping, anything beyond that to that other spot is just spare change..
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    Jan 05, 2010 7:43 AM GMT
    hahaha
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    Jan 06, 2010 6:58 PM GMT
    I think it's about finding a happy medium. Looking at it from both perspectives, as a top, a well endowed man is nice to look at and it's more fun during foreplay as it inevitably arouses us more. That said, if it's too large and all you're thinking about is how your jaw is aching and you can't take it much further even when you have only managed half that can do quite the opposite as can something which is far to small.
    For bottoms too, you want to feel something penetrate you yet you wouldn't want to feel as though your anal muscles are going to be non-existent post intercourse (on the most part at least.)
    I find a good 7" is marvellous.