Like a dog fucking a duck

  • Melos

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    Dec 28, 2009 6:27 AM GMT
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    My boyfriend is quite thick in the nether regions and we have been having amazing sex so far. Due to living constraints we have been limited to seeing one another for only one weekend per month for the last year and a half. In two months we will be living together and will obviously be having sex more frequently.

    The way it is now, it takes a few minutes for me to get used to him. Does anyone know if it will become easier over time once we start having sex daily, or is this just something we will have to get used to.
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    Dec 28, 2009 6:31 AM GMT
    Chances are it will become easier. Any part of your body that you train every day versus once a month is bound to become more flexible. Just don't overtrain icon_smile.gif

  • Bunjamon

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    Dec 28, 2009 10:37 AM GMT
    You'll probably get more used to it, and you can train yourself with toys to "take" bigger and bigger things in you rear. But the key is relaxation, not the "flexibility" of your anus. And if I were you, I'd rather have to take a few minutes to get comfortable than rush it and hurt myself.
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    Dec 31, 2009 3:46 AM GMT
    God, I wish MY problems were as simple as "Oh, no! Will my ass EVER be able to accommodate my BF's giant dick?? "

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    I kid. icon_smile.gif

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    Dec 31, 2009 2:16 PM GMT
    How does he prep you? If he licks your ass once and then shoves it in then the problem isn't really with you.

    But, practice practice practice.
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    Dec 31, 2009 2:30 PM GMT
    maybe if you scratch him behind the ear he'll be a little more gentle
  • Melos

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    Dec 31, 2009 3:13 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidHow does he prep you? If he licks your ass once and then shoves it in then the problem isn't really with you.

    But, practice practice practice.


    I honesty don't even think he could have the option to just shove it in. I don't think it would go in that easily (he says I'm pretty tight) plus I would throw him off if he tried.

    I'm not sure if I worded the original question well enough. It's not that it's impossible to get used to him or that we can't have sex, it just takes a few minutes for initial entry. I've learned a few tricks over time to speed up the process and have already reduced the time quite a bit, but have recently been at a wall.

    I'm still trying to be won over on the whole rimming deal, besides I thought you never go ass to mouth. Sometimes we start off with fingers, but in the heat of the moment that part is skipped as well (when you haven't seen one another in 4 weeks, there is a lot of catching up to do icon_twisted.gif ) In the past when we have tried the "1 finger, 2 finger, 3 finger, dick" method, it still takes roughly the same amount of time for me to get accustomed.

    So I suppose I'm inadvertently looking for the holy grail wondering if your body will become accustomed over time. It seems like it gets easier near the end of our visits and I was curious if even further practice would shorten initial time as well.


    mtown_nerdGod, I wish MY problems were as simple as "Oh, no! Will my ass EVER be able to accommodate my BF's giant dick?? "

    I kid.


    Hehe, yeah yeah yeah, woe is me icon_razz.gif

    Just remember that the next time you pounce on your boyfriend while he is cooking and start going to town that not everyone has the liberty of surprise sex icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 31, 2009 4:27 PM GMT
    If you want to cut down on time then, play with a dildo before you have sex. That way you are pre-lubed and loosened up a bit. Tightness, I find, is all in the mind. If you get relaxed it slides right in. If you are fretting taking a monster, you keep the doors shut and he has to huff and puff and blow them down.

    A few minutes with a few progressively thicker toys should do the trick.

    Send me photos if it works icon_biggrin.gif