RJ "Unlock" Annoyance

  • trvlmscl

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    Dec 31, 2009 7:18 AM GMT
    I love browsing RJ forums and profiles, but lately something has been bugging me.

    I hope this post does not come off as arrogant or disrespectful, so I will preface with the following. I have a wide range of personal & online friends (young/old, fit/not, fem/masc, etc) but I would think that within seconds of looking at my profile you can get a pretty good idea of who I'm sexually attracted to.

    I do not understand the reasoning when guys unlock their adult private pics for me, especially unaccompanied by a message or other form of communication. I would hope that guys would think to themselves "Hmm, do I think this guy would really like to see my penis?" before clicking the "Unlock private photos" link. But it happens, and results in me making this face: icon_mad.gif

    I'd bet good money that this annoyance is shared by many others of you on here...
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    Dec 31, 2009 7:22 AM GMT
    Nobody forced you to look.
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    Dec 31, 2009 7:26 AM GMT
    Well, being an adult, having had life experience, at least moderate intelligence and all those delightful things, you can do something..

    it's called ignoring it.

    There are a lot of people in the world, they are going to do things you don't like.
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    Dec 31, 2009 9:20 AM GMT
    To be fair I only unlocked so you could see my face.


    The restraining order was a bit unfair icon_confused.gif


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    Dec 31, 2009 9:23 AM GMT
    It annoys me too. I never look, but I do wonder.

    It's akin to walking up to me on the street, handing me an envelope marked "XXX Private Nudes" and a phone number on the back, avoiding eye contact, and walking away.


    What is the intention?
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    Dec 31, 2009 9:27 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidIt annoys me too. I never look, but I do wonder.

    It's akin to walking up to me on the street, handing me an envelope marked "XXX Private Nudes" and a phone number on the back, avoiding eye contact, and walking away.


    What is the intention?


    FLASHING young innocent minds though why they think you are innocent, I donĀ“t know.
  • trvlmscl

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    Dec 31, 2009 5:41 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidTo be fair I only unlocked so you could see my face.


    The restraining order was a bit unfair icon_confused.gif


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    Please note that I stated "adult private pics"
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    Dec 31, 2009 5:46 PM GMT
    Take it as very "valuable" and helpful information about who they are. They obviously think that you would only like them if you saw their private parts, because truthfully, they have nothing more to offer.

    Instant "cross off your list".
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    Dec 31, 2009 5:49 PM GMT
    redmcs saidI love browsing RJ forums and profiles, but lately something has been bugging me.

    I hope this post does not come off as arrogant or disrespectful, so I will preface with the following. I have a wide range of personal & online friends (young/old, fit/not, fem/masc, etc) but I would think that within seconds of looking at my profile you can get a pretty good idea of who I'm sexually attracted to.

    I do not understand the reasoning when guys unlock their adult private pics for me, especially unaccompanied by a message or other form of communication. I would hope that guys would think to themselves "Hmm, do I think this guy would really like to see my penis?" before clicking the "Unlock private photos" link. But it happens, and results in me making this face: icon_mad.gif

    I'd bet good money that this annoyance is shared by many others of you on here...

    What is it that you want from them?

    ...not to send you any unlocked-pics message at all? Answer: dont look.

    Or do you want them to warn you about what you are about to see?
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    Dec 31, 2009 8:05 PM GMT
    I think this is another case of..

    "ugly" guy == annoyance
    "cute" guy == let's be friends

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    I have to agree with the others. Don't look. Just ignore it.
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    Dec 31, 2009 8:23 PM GMT
    Sometimes they make you face your fear to conquer it.

    We could all send redmcs unlocked private pic messages to help the poor man out ... icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 31, 2009 9:46 PM GMT
    redmcs said
    Lostboy saidTo be fair I only unlocked so you could see my face.


    The restraining order was a bit unfair icon_confused.gif


    icon_rolleyes.gif


    Please note that I stated "adult private pics"


    Kisses..... I was joking?
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    Jan 01, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidTo be fair I only unlocked so you could see my face.


    The restraining order was a bit unfair icon_confused.gif


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    I do that too - and people just assume what is in there!
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    Jan 02, 2010 9:54 AM GMT
    Yep, I don't get why people whom I've never communicated with before un-lock their adult photos for me. Regardless of who I'm attracted to.

    ***I'm a complete stranger after all***

    What also perplexes me is when people un-lock their private photos...ones that turn out to be nude pictures. I never know until I view them if they are face pictures of just pictures of their cock.

    Don't people have any fucking class? When I get the unlocked adult pictures, I just ignore them.


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    Jan 06, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    Exhibitionists are everywhere on the net.
    On RJ, you have to click your way into those particular pics when someone unlocks them for you...kind of like "Russian Roulette" for your eyes and Libido....you've got to ask yourself one question: "Do I feel lucky?" Well, do ya, punk? ...(Clint Eastwood as Dirty Hairy) LOL! I look EVERY time! LOL!!!
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    Jan 06, 2010 5:36 AM GMT
    nah
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    Jan 06, 2010 10:39 PM GMT
    One of my private photos for youuuu:

    4594_751612245903_3216802_43148425_57566


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    (wanna see more?)