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How many of you guys compare the men in your life i.e the new boyfriend compared to the old boyfriend, relatives etc. I make an effort not compare relationships or guys, it's not wise or fare to the other guy, but I think on some levels it happens form time to time. What do you guys think.

oh nooooo, i never do that 'cause i don't want to get black eyes from the new bf.

we shouldn't, but we are human. I feel its okay to do that as long as your current love interest doesnt have to deal with the comparison. He should be in a league of his own.

If you can't stop comparing one person against the next, you'll never have time to be happy with what you've got.

...oh we do it all the time
....just never the hell out loud :)

I don't think I've ever done it (at least not to my recollection at the moment), to be honest. Probably because if a relationship ends I understand it ends for a reason and I no longer linger on the details of it.

I think sometimes we may compare guys on a level we might not be aware of. GQ you said a mouthfull!!!!! lol

I always compared every guy to my first boyfriend.

If they are evil/messy/dramatic/embarrassing/repulsive as the first one ... then I drop them like a bad habit.

no wonder you bald

i'd say anyone who claims they don't compare on some level is not being very honest with themselves. ;)

it's only natural, yeah?

i think it's healthy, too... as me move ahead in life we learn more about what we want, what we don't, what works and what doesn't.

without taking advantage of past reference, it's hard to move forward.

peace out, punks! :)

jonny