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Comparing the men in your life
cityguy39 Posts: 398
May 13, 2007 5:02 PM GMT
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How many of you guys compare the men in your life i.e the new boyfriend compared to the old boyfriend, relatives etc. I make an effort not compare relationships or guys, it's not wise or fare to the other guy, but I think on some levels it happens form time to time. What do you guys think.
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May 13, 2007 5:08 PM GMT
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oh nooooo, i never do that 'cause i don't want to get black eyes from the new bf.
adam30_43206 Posts: 67
May 13, 2007 7:18 PM GMT
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we shouldn't, but we are human. I feel its okay to do that as long as your current love interest doesnt have to deal with the comparison. He should be in a league of his own.
TOFUSTUD Posts: 166
May 13, 2007 7:33 PM GMT
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If you can't stop comparing one person against the next, you'll never have time to be happy with what you've got.
GQjock Posts: 4021
May 13, 2007 7:33 PM GMT
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...oh we do it all the time
....just never the hell out loud :)
Kharlo109 Posts: 164
May 14, 2007 10:46 AM GMT
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I don't think I've ever done it (at least not to my recollection at the moment), to be honest. Probably because if a relationship ends I understand it ends for a reason and I no longer linger on the details of it.
cityguy39 Posts: 398
May 14, 2007 1:14 PM GMT
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I think sometimes we may compare guys on a level we might not be aware of. GQ you said a mouthfull!!!!! lol
SoDakGuy Posts: 649
May 14, 2007 3:59 PM GMT
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I always compared every guy to my first boyfriend.

If they are evil/messy/dramatic/embarrassing/repulsive as the first one ... then I drop them like a bad habit.
betom Posts: 5
May 14, 2007 4:12 PM GMT
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no wonder you bald
JonnyFreestyl... Posts: 151
May 14, 2007 6:37 PM GMT
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i'd say anyone who claims they don't compare on some level is not being very honest with themselves. ;)

it's only natural, yeah?

i think it's healthy, too... as me move ahead in life we learn more about what we want, what we don't, what works and what doesn't.

without taking advantage of past reference, it's hard to move forward.

peace out, punks! :)

jonny
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