Looking for a BF


  • Jan 03, 2010 12:47 PM GMT
    I have recently moved to a new area in the northwest suburbs of Chicago, and I don't know anybody in the area. I'm looking for a BF and someone to hang out with. Is there somebody near Barrington or Palatine that I could do that with. By the way, I wanted people to check out my profile and ask if I am attractive, because I don't think I am.
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    Jan 03, 2010 1:01 PM GMT
    Get off on the p/c and get out in the house.
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    Jan 03, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    Posting on an internet forum isn't going to get you a BF and searching for compliments isn't going to make you attractive. Go out.
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    Jan 03, 2010 7:27 PM GMT
    bisexual_2006 saidI have recently moved to a new area in the northwest suburbs of Chicago, and I don't know anybody in the area. I'm looking for a BF and someone to hang out with. Is there somebody near Barrington or Palatine that I could do that with. By the way, I wanted people to check out my profile and ask if I am attractive, because I don't think I am.


    Sounds like your trolling for emotional support, and false compliments. It's really rather petty don't you think?

    The honest answer (which you already know) is that you're overweight, need to exercise, and need to change your life for a wide number of reasons. Attractiveness is relative to the values of the culture where you're asking the question. Various cultures consider various things attractive. The picture is minimalist. Can you be attractive? Don't see why not.

    However, you'll have to change your modality, and change your behavior, and get in motion to change your appearance, and how you feel about yourself.

    What THAT means is that you need to take ACTION. Get to the gym. Walk into, through, beyond, and above where you are now by facing your fears, changing your ways, and taking chances.

    What you need is CHANGE. Only you can effect that.

    You need to delve into the whys of your previous behavior, and the hows of where you'd like to go, set goals, plan, execute, and achieve those goals.

    Once you understand yourself, you need to come to like yourself, and, after that, it'll fall into place.

  • Jan 03, 2010 7:48 PM GMT
    chuckystud said
    bisexual_2006 saidI have recently moved to a new area in the northwest suburbs of Chicago, and I don't know anybody in the area. I'm looking for a BF and someone to hang out with. Is there somebody near Barrington or Palatine that I could do that with. By the way, I wanted people to check out my profile and ask if I am attractive, because I don't think I am.


    Sounds like your trolling for emotional support, and false compliments. It's really rather petty don't you think?

    The honest answer (which you already know) is that you're overweight, need to exercise, and need to change your life for a wide number of reasons. Attractiveness is relative to the values of the culture where you're asking the question. Various cultures consider various things attractive. The picture is minimalist. Can you be attractive? Don't see why not.

    However, you'll have to change your modality, and change your behavior, and get in motion to change your appearance, and how you feel about yourself.

    What THAT means is that you need to take ACTION. Get to the gym. Walk into, through, beyond, and above where you are now by facing your fears, changing your ways, and taking chances.

    What you need is CHANGE. Only you can effect that.

    You need to delve into the whys of your previous behavior, and the hows of where you'd like to go, set goals, plan, execute, and achieve those goals.

    Once you understand yourself, you need to come to like yourself, and, after that, it'll fall into place.


    I know. I have been exercising and losing weight, but I still have a ways to go.
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    Jan 03, 2010 10:11 PM GMT
    Be a friend first.. the rest will follow