TOTAL TOPS that dont suck dick..

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    Jan 04, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    i've read and talked to a lot of guys outthere that are total tops, they tell me they are not into dick not now or never, they are all about the ass. Basically they want to fuck, get sucked off and be totally dominant, this seems to happen a lot w/DL straight guys.

    Anyways what do u guys think about this? Have u met guys like this? I think its totally hot and there should be more of them hehe its kinda of a turn on that they are totally dom.
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    Jan 04, 2010 5:35 AM GMT
    I've met guys like that, it's all fun and dandy sometimes..

    others I want my cock to be swallowed..

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  • PRDGUY

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    Jan 04, 2010 6:24 AM GMT
    DL Str8 guys= regular SSA [same sex active/attracted] guys, and they are emerging.... my bud was one til he wanted to try JUST ONCE..... hundreds times later, he's as active with the males, me 99.9% of time that makes my cock swell with pride, lol!!
  • larrymarty

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    Jan 04, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
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    Oh man, I totally can enjoy a guy that just wants his cock sucked and doesn't suck cock. I'm honestly a guy that could go the rest of my life and not get my cock sucked. It's just not a turn on for me, but I could not imagine not sucking cock. Getting fucked is not quite so important. I do love it, but I also don't have a desire to stick it in.

    Note: In a loving relationship, I think a top should be willing to be a bottom in a pinch, and a bottom willing to top ... nothing should be off the table, if your partner has a desire. There should be compromise occasionally.
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    Jan 04, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    As someone who does a lot of Dom/sub play, I get it. It is fun to totally use as it is to totally be used. But I would on no account enter into a relationship with one of these guys. Power play is fun, but if you do it every time it gets boring. What good is a total top if they are only one flavor? Might as well be good Christian missionary sex.
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    Jan 04, 2010 6:46 PM GMT
    You like whatever you like. But I found that so called total tops who aren't into sucking and other things are kind of pathetic and have a mental block to intimacy and to me, that NOT sexy or masculine. Anybody can fuck. It takes a total man to be able to express himself and be free from definitions of (yawn) domination.

    Two men can express sexuality, sensuality and pleasure in so many different ways. The guy who only likes to do one thing is not for me. Any man stuck in thinking that he is "dominant" by acting that way is only kidding himself. He's actually limiting himself and closed off a ton of healthy emotional and sexual experiences. And they are not very skillful lovers.

    Last I heard, gay men are like any other human.....that is....they need more than strict sexual postions in order to feel happy and content. If that's all you need, then to each his own, but..........

    Ignorance is bliss.

  • Roadcyclist

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    Jan 10, 2010 4:08 AM GMT
    My partner (taller guy in our pic) is a total dom top and it's about male butt for him.. He does not suck cock but loves to have his sucked and to fuck long and hard. Of course, I don't object at all

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  • Mar 29, 2016 9:27 PM GMT
    I prefer total tops. i could careless if i don't receive a blowjob from a top thats about to fuck me. I'd rather have a top that was into kissing than sucking my dick.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Mar 30, 2016 6:04 AM GMT
    There is no accounting to taste when it comes to sex, too.

    Total tops can be good or bad or anything in-between, just like everyone else.

    M2M sex is really about compatibility. If you are a total bottom, do not care for having your cock sucked, the man for you is a total top.

    If a dude is happy to fuck and have his cock sucked, and wishes to forgo the rest of the gay sex experience more power to him. Who are we to tell him how to live his sexuality?

    The choices he makes are his choices, and he has got to live with them.

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  • rnch

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    Mar 30, 2016 2:24 PM GMT
    Blue_MustangGT saidI prefer total tops. i could careless if i don't receive a blowjob from a top that's about to fuck me. I'd rather have a top that was into kissing than sucking my dick.





    You're not the only one who feels this way.




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  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 30, 2016 4:48 PM GMT
    I find if I'm with a guy I really like, there's usually plenty of things to do that we both enjoy, and that collection of things is going to be different with different guys. But in a relationship, as has been said, you'd better be with someone who likes to explore and experiment. Staying open minded about possibilities keeps it fresh.
  • Allen

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    Mar 31, 2016 7:06 AM GMT
    TOTAL TOPS that dont suck dick...

    (raising my hand with a tad bit of shame on my face)

    I just can't suck dick. I've tried. If a cock goes more than an inch in my mouth, I start gagging. Not trying to be selfish. But I just can't help what I'm able (or unable) to do.

    What I can do:
    Kiss (love it -- major turn on!)
    Fuck
    Frot
    Get head

    What I can't (or refuse) to do:
    Suck
    Rim
    Get rimmed
    Get fucked


  • joeisawesome1

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    Apr 01, 2016 2:50 AM GMT
    im not even sure if i count as a total top because i dont like anal at all. I CAN NOT take it up the ass and i dont like fucking a guy's ass either. i cant orgasm from it at all. i dont like sucking cock either... it's definately not my cup of tea.

    i only like being edged and sucked off by a man. it can actually be very romantic and passionate if it's done right.

  • Apr 01, 2016 8:56 AM GMT
    Amazing. Haha. I finally found someone who's tastes are close to mine. I am masculine looking and acting except for the fact I love sucking cock.

    I don't like anal. Not pitching nor catching. Life would be easier if I did but I just don't. I find shit gross and therefore don't like anal.

    I wish more people would accept this. I like getting head but I love giving head. I have no problem being just the feeder for the right guy.

    So many guys say "cool" to my tastes but for some reason once we get together, they want to fuck me or have me fuck them. I guess they think once I am with them and horny, I'll all of a sudden change. Doesn't work that way.

    Anyway, nice to hear someone say they're not into anal as well. So rare.

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    Apr 01, 2016 4:06 PM GMT
    I'm one of those tops who rarely, if ever, suck cock. However, on rare occasions when I'm really attracted to the guy's pendulum, I will blow that thing like an $800 Dyson upright vacuum cleaner.
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    Apr 01, 2016 11:08 PM GMT
    From someone in a relationship with one. It isn't very fun unless you want to be totally submissive all the time which I don't.
  • joeisawesome1

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    Apr 03, 2016 11:37 PM GMT
    zoltar saidFrom someone in a relationship with one. It isn't very fun unless you want to be totally submissive all the time which I don't.


    cock sucking isn't always submissive... definitely not, especially with me.

    the guy getting sucked is completely at the other guy's mercy. it's his choice to decide when he orgasms and how long he stays hard. like when he's being edged (that's when a guy sucks on ur cock and keeps u rock hard and close to orgasm but doesn't let u orgasm for a long time).

    I hooked up with one guy on grindr back when i was 18 and he brought me to a hotel and went down on me and edged me for 12 whole hours (literally all night, it was sunset when we got there and sunrise when we left) I was close to orgasm the whole entire time, and even felt my sperm sliding up and down my urethra but not coming out at all and i felt like my cock was going to explode, especially when he'd get me extremely close and then stop. i was shiriling and squirming the whole entire time, and i never even knew my voice could get that high-pitched while he was chuckling and giggling the whole entire time while he had my cock in his mouth and while he was teasing me with his lips and tounge.

    it was so fucking intense. my face and my chest and my shoulders where flushed and red. he was teasing me and edging me with his mouth the whole entire time. I felt completely submissive, BUT i loved every minute of it :} :} :}

    that's all we did too, i never sucked his cock, we didnt fuck each other at all, and his clothes didn't even come off (mine definitely did though)

    sorry if i sound like a horned up perv but i just felt like sharing that icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 04, 2016 8:02 PM GMT
    joeisawesome1 said
    zoltar saidFrom someone in a relationship with one. It isn't very fun unless you want to be totally submissive all the time which I don't.


    cock sucking isn't always submissive... definitely not, especially with me.

    the guy getting sucked is completely at the other guy's mercy. it's his choice to decide when he orgasms and how long he stays hard. like when he's being edged (that's when a guy sucks on ur cock and keeps u rock hard and close to orgasm but doesn't let u orgasm for a long time).

    I hooked up with one guy on grindr back when i was 18 and he brought me to a hotel and went down on me and edged me for 12 whole hours (literally all night, it was sunset when we got there and sunrise when we left) I was close to orgasm the whole entire time, and even felt my sperm sliding up and down my urethra but not coming out at all and i felt like my cock was going to explode, especially when he'd get me extremely close and then stop. i was shiriling and squirming the whole entire time, and i never even knew my voice could get that high-pitched while he was chuckling and giggling the whole entire time while he had my cock in his mouth and while he was teasing me with his lips and tounge.

    it was so fucking intense. my face and my chest and my shoulders where flushed and red. he was teasing me and edging me with his mouth the whole entire time. I felt completely submissive, BUT i loved every minute of it :} :} :}

    that's all we did too, i never sucked his cock, we didnt fuck each other at all, and his clothes didn't even come off (mine definitely did though)

    sorry if i sound like a horned up perv but i just felt like sharing that icon_razz.gif


    Sounds hot. I still would like to be the one receiving the blowjob and not giving. Sacking dick can be fun but it's not going to get me off and that's what I want to do not just get him off.
  • Sebastian14

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    Apr 07, 2016 8:39 PM GMT
    This depends on what you like and what the other guy likes.

    I'm vers. I had a relation (still have from time ti time) with the so-called total top.

    He doesn't suck, doesn't kiss he likes to get sucked and to fuck. We usually do two rounds of fucking on rare occasions three if there is time and my ass can take it. LOL/

    But as a whole, the fucking is really good and I don't mind having it this way.
  • Allen

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    Apr 08, 2016 6:18 AM GMT
    Sebastian14 saidThis depends on what you like and what the other guy likes.

    I'm vers. I had a relation (still have from time ti time) with the so-called total top.

    He doesn't suck, doesn't kiss he likes to get sucked and to fuck. We usually do two rounds of fucking on rare occasions three if there is time and my ass can take it. LOL/

    But as a whole, the fucking is really good and I don't mind having it this way.


    Why do people question the existence of "total tops"? I've met many "total bottoms" and never thought to question that. One of my best friends was a total bottom and told me that if a guy even asked him to fuck him, he loses his erection -- he hated the idea of topping someone that much!

    Granted, I have encountered guys who claim to be a total top, but turn out to be more "versatile" the more attracted they are to you. I'm a total top simply because it's my true sexual preference. I've never been able to bottom and have absolutely no desire to.

    (I love frotting with other tops though.)
  • Sebastian14

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    Apr 08, 2016 6:25 AM GMT
    I am not questioning the preferences of anyone. This is why it is a preference.


    I have agreed to the terms that he is only top. Tho we are not in an exclusive relationship. We just fuck.

    Why do people question that? idk.
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    Apr 08, 2016 7:27 PM GMT
    sounds so boring.. next >>>>>
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    Apr 08, 2016 7:59 PM GMT
    Allen saidWhy do people question the existence of "total tops"? I've met many "total bottoms" and never thought to question that. One of my best friends was a total bottom and told me that if a guy even asked him to fuck him, he loses his erection -- he hated the idea of topping someone that much!

    Yep, and the total bottoms are a dime a dozen; you can't swing a dead cat by its tail without hitting one. And they're typically the same ones complaining that "everyone's a bottom." Go figure.
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    Apr 08, 2016 8:39 PM GMT
    I think it's incredibly stupid, people who only top or bottom are really limiting themselves. I wan't a variety of things in the bedroom not just one role.
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    Apr 08, 2016 9:02 PM GMT
    I couldnt careless what other men find a turn on. If your self loathing enough to not expect any recipirocity ho am I to judge. As for chasing "str8" guys (f#$&ing laughable self label) just confirms all the reasons Gay men never seem to be satisfied with anyone partner. Any of you "subs" ever consider getting the chop? You know what I mean coz clearly your penis is purely ornimental and must get in the way