zoltar saidFrom someone in a relationship with one. It isn't very fun unless you want to be totally submissive all the time which I don't.
cock sucking isn't always submissive... definitely not, especially with me.
the guy getting sucked is completely at the other guy's mercy. it's his choice to decide when he orgasms and how long he stays hard. like when he's being edged (that's when a guy sucks on ur cock and keeps u rock hard and close to orgasm but doesn't let u orgasm for a long time).
I hooked up with one guy on grindr back when i was 18 and he brought me to a hotel and went down on me and edged me for 12 whole hours (literally all night, it was sunset when we got there and sunrise when we left) I was close to orgasm the whole entire time, and even felt my sperm sliding up and down my urethra but not coming out at all and i felt like my cock was going to explode, especially when he'd get me extremely close and then stop. i was shiriling and squirming the whole entire time, and i never even knew my voice could get that high-pitched while he was chuckling and giggling the whole entire time while he had my cock in his mouth and while he was teasing me with his lips and tounge.
it was so fucking intense. my face and my chest and my shoulders where flushed and red. he was teasing me and edging me with his mouth the whole entire time. I felt completely submissive, BUT i loved every minute of it :} :} :}
that's all we did too, i never sucked his cock, we didnt fuck each other at all, and his clothes didn't even come off (mine definitely did though)
sorry if i sound like a horned up perv but i just felt like sharing that