Met a guy who drove me crazy in my trip

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    Jan 06, 2008 11:43 PM GMT
    I went to orlando, florida this Xmas and new year. Met a guy in a bar in orlando. I was drunk and danced with some hot guy. i don't know maybe it is because i was drunk, but i felt the chemistry. we danced until the club closed, then he asked my number, and the following happened. I am from another country, so maybe i misunderstood him.

    "what is your cell phone number?"
    "you mean you want to exchange phone numbers?"
    "yeah, I want to have a good dance partner"
    "but I am not gonna be here next friday"

    then nothing.......

    and before we started dancing, he knew that i am from new york.

    So did he really mean that he only want someone to dance with?

    thx
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Jan 07, 2008 12:12 AM GMT
    It looks that way, but who knows?

    I presume you gave him your number? so wait and see what happens. If he wants more than a dance partner, I'm sure he will contact you.

    Mike
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    Jan 07, 2008 12:54 AM GMT
    the thing is that i didnt give him my number cause i think he only wants a dance partner. as i came from another state, it is impossible to be his dance partner. so i told him i couldn't be there next time, which my friend told me that this was a sign of refusing him.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Jan 07, 2008 1:06 AM GMT
    Oops, That may, just have been his chat up line.

    Anyway don't worry about it. There will be more guys.

    Mike
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    Jan 07, 2008 1:10 AM GMT
    yeah. gotta move on.
    you know what is more crazy? i postponed my flight and extended my trip there for 2 more days in the hope of meeting him again at that bar. but no luck.

    I have not had such a feeling for someone for years.

    anyway, thx for your replies.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Jan 07, 2008 1:13 AM GMT
    Hey, that's not crazy at all.
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    Jan 07, 2008 1:44 PM GMT
    welcome to orlando. Maybe the guy was drunk or on drugs. He might not even remember talking and dancing with you. If you liked him that much you should have got his number and or went home with him. You seem like a really nice guy and you are definitely handsome so don't sweat it. His loss. Guys can be flaky anywhere you are. If you live in New York you should be use to it.
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    Jan 07, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
    The question to ask, it seems to me, is a question you must ask yourself.

    When he asked for your number, why did you respond negatively if you "felt the chemistry"?

    Maybe it was nothing - this time - but chemistry doesn't happen all that often. You obviously felt enough to alter your plans and stay extra nights in Orlando in hopes of seeing him, so it is probably worth some self-examination to figure out why you slammed the door on him with a negative.

    J.
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    Jan 08, 2008 12:56 AM GMT
    the lesson is, always keep the option open. Give out number, even if they didn't ask for it.
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    Jan 08, 2008 6:29 PM GMT
    thanks for all your replies.

    to wildboy:
    it is a great place. i think i will be there again some day.

    to bigjoey:
    part of my english, part of my drunkenness, part of my personality. i just wanted him to know that i couldn't be his dance partner if he really meant he just wanted a dance partner. actually i was not turning him down but just wanted to help him make a decision that if my number was useful by telling him all the cons like i was not gonna be there next time sort of thing. i hoped that after all the cons, he would still want my number.
    after typing these words out, i can feel how weird i am now. hehe. thx

    to ebl333:
    yeah, i guess you are right. but when i am awake, i am shy to do so. lol