Getting noticed

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    Jan 05, 2010 9:59 AM GMT
    Ok see it's hard for to get out there and talk to guys like I leave pic comments and stuff like that but I hardly ever get a reply. Basically just give my tips on how to really get noticed cause I'm still fairly new to this world of men.
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    Jan 05, 2010 10:15 AM GMT
    hows about sending a message with

    "Hi, I'm InsertNameHere How are you doing? did you enjoy your weekend/week/thingyoudidandpostedintheforumaboutwhichpromtedthismessageandshowsyoutakenoticeoftheguyandwhathesays"
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    Jan 05, 2010 10:38 AM GMT
    Just whip it out...you'll shine for sure...most homos die for that!
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    Jan 05, 2010 12:51 PM GMT
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 05, 2010 1:02 PM GMT
    I would say... be friendly and genuine.... and communicate that to others.
    Join some social groups.. I call it being a "friendly extroverted" behavior.
    That doesn't mean hitting on other men. Just be yourself.
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    Jan 05, 2010 1:06 PM GMT
    If the guy finds you hot/attractive he'll respond to you. No matter how stupid/ short/long/erudite your message is.

    It's a matter of averages really. You keep playing until someone does. There's no magic to it
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    Jan 05, 2010 5:24 PM GMT
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    Jan 05, 2010 6:12 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidhows about sending a message with

    "Hi, I'm InsertNameHere How are you doing? did you enjoy your weekend/week/thingyoudidandpostedintheforumaboutwhichpromtedthismessageandshowsyoutakenoticeoftheguyandwhathesays"


    which wrks 95% of the time! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 06, 2010 4:14 AM GMT
    Agreed. Showing that you made an effort, that you looked beyond his photo to not only read his profile but an actual forum post, should get you noticed.

    As far as getting anything else, that's a whole other thread.
  • Webster666

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    Jan 06, 2010 4:57 AM GMT
    First, use a main profile pic that looks like a person, not someone or something hiding in the shadows.
    SMILE !
    Then, talk.
    Get on the forums and join the conversation, post your comments and opinions, and start your own threads.

    Write something on your profile page to let guys know who you are and what you like.
    If your profile page description tells guys that you're fun, and funny, and interesting, you're bound to get attention.
    Answer some of these questions.
    Are you a student ? What are you studying ?
    Do you work ? At what ?
    What makes you laugh ?
    What do you like to do for fun ?
    Are you quiet, fun, funny, talented, romantic, athletic, ambitious ?
    Do you garden, run, lift weights, do crossword puzzles, write, create music, dance ?
    What makes you, you ?
    Why are you here ?
  • WILDCARD73

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    Jan 06, 2010 5:25 AM GMT
    this is what u need to do

  • PipHop

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    Jan 06, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    jakquel saidOk see it's hard for to get out there and talk to guys like I leave pic comments and stuff like that but I hardly ever get a reply. Basically just give my tips on how to really get noticed cause I'm still fairly new to this world of men.


    uh, getting out where? this is the internet, where people's social etiquette is much different than how they are in real life. if you spoke to someone face to face, they'd at least say hi. I'm going to guess that you probably are very introverted towards guys you're interested in out in the real world, correct? you can't get what you want unless you ask for it. drop a compliment in a message and keep it moving. if they like your pics and conversation, you'll get a response. if not, eh whatevs. good luck!